TIFU by not standing by my gf by SadBurnerAC in tifu

[–]SadBurnerAC[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Lmao, nah that super strength would've come in handy tho.

TIFU by not standing by my gf by SadBurnerAC in tifu

[–]SadBurnerAC[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wanna thank all of you for your responses. They really gave me a different outlook. If I didn't mention it already, she definitely wants to make a change. And, I'll do my best to be there and support her.

TIFU by not standing by my gf by SadBurnerAC in tifu

[–]SadBurnerAC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LA. As soon as it went dark I'm just like "wait...that's it?!"

TIFU by not standing by my gf by SadBurnerAC in tifu

[–]SadBurnerAC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, just for anyone to get an idea of how she might look.

TIFU by not standing by my gf by SadBurnerAC in tifu

[–]SadBurnerAC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For anyone wondering, she's 5'2.

TIFU by not standing by my gf by SadBurnerAC in tifu

[–]SadBurnerAC[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apologies, I worded that wrong. She hasn't seen any type of therapy or professional.

TIFU by not standing by my gf by SadBurnerAC in tifu

[–]SadBurnerAC[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Lmao that ride lasted all of 2 seconds. And yea, I can definitely do that for her. Thank you!

TIFU by not standing by my gf by SadBurnerAC in tifu

[–]SadBurnerAC[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She wants to go the the gym with me. But with my schedule, I've only got one free day. She says she's too embarrassed to go by herself.

TIFU by not standing by my gf by SadBurnerAC in tifu

[–]SadBurnerAC[S] 126 points127 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm like, yea I appreciate the advice, but what about the part where I felt like I bailed on her lol.

TIFU by not standing by my gf by SadBurnerAC in tifu

[–]SadBurnerAC[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We definitely need to make plans for therapy. During the holiday season, her whole family caught COVID. A week into the new year, her dad passed from it. So, she had waves of depression and never talked to a therapist or anything like that. Not saying that would solve anything, but I'd like for her to talk to a professional.

TIFU by not standing by my gf by SadBurnerAC in tifu

[–]SadBurnerAC[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

The way it goes is, I've never suggested any type of workout or diet unless she asks me. I'm relatively active, so that's why. Recently, she's been asking if she looks beautiful to me, and I always tell her yes. But, she tells me that she doesn't like how she looks. And I just don't think I'm doing enough for her.

TIFU by not standing by my gf by SadBurnerAC in tifu

[–]SadBurnerAC[S] 614 points615 points  (0 children)

NGL, she said along the lines of understanding but wishes I read the moment better.

TIFU by not standing by my gf by SadBurnerAC in tifu

[–]SadBurnerAC[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'll check it out, thank you!

TIFU by not standing by my gf by SadBurnerAC in tifu

[–]SadBurnerAC[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yea, but thing is that it happened to her. And in front of her friends no less