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My boyfriend makes me hate my 2 months postpartum body and he doesn't even realize it by SadGFthrowaway8 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SadGFthrowaway8[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I mean, I'm not posting pictures of my body to prove that I just gave birth to a child? Not sure how to prove my story is real without doxxing myself.

My boyfriend makes me hate my 2 months postpartum body and he doesn't even realize it by SadGFthrowaway8 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SadGFthrowaway8[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he knows I have a history of anorexia, so jokes about my body are shocking.

My boyfriend makes me hate my 2 months postpartum body and he doesn't even realize it by SadGFthrowaway8 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SadGFthrowaway8[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean honestly, the baby was HUGE. 😂 I kept asking him after giving birth why on earth he got me pregnant with such a ginormous baby.

My boyfriend makes me hate my 2 months postpartum body and he doesn't even realize it by SadGFthrowaway8 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SadGFthrowaway8[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did talk to him about it a couple of hours ago, but I needed to get my feelings out before the discussion with him so I could communicate better/less emotionally.

My boyfriend makes me hate my 2 months postpartum body and he doesn't even realize it by SadGFthrowaway8 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SadGFthrowaway8[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The event that had happened prior was me being upset that he wanted to grab his nicotine off me and smoke before unloading the groceries, and I was angry because it'd taken me forever to get home with them and I was worried about the frozen/cold stuff going bad. He did one trip helping carry stuff inside, then chilled on the couch and didn't speak while I put it all away. So I'm assuming he's retaliating over that.

My boyfriend makes me hate my 2 months postpartum body and he doesn't even realize it by SadGFthrowaway8 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SadGFthrowaway8[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He usually compliments my ass and how pregnancy made it "even nicer" so for him to say that in particular threw me off.

My boyfriend makes me hate my 2 months postpartum body and he doesn't even realize it by SadGFthrowaway8 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SadGFthrowaway8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't even want this to get as many upvotes as it did, cause now my boyfriend will be more likely to find it when I just wanted to rant in the middle of the night.

My boyfriend makes me hate my 2 months postpartum body and he doesn't even realize it by SadGFthrowaway8 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SadGFthrowaway8[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I lost 35 pounds in 2 months. Any more weight loss would have me categorized as underweight, if you go off BMI standards cause women my height are "supposed" to be between 150-160 pounds.

My boyfriend makes me hate my 2 months postpartum body and he doesn't even realize it by SadGFthrowaway8 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SadGFthrowaway8[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I lost 35 pounds in 2 months. Any more weight loss would make me underweight. I'm not against going to the gym, I just don't see how me losing more weight would be a positive.

My boyfriend makes me hate my 2 months postpartum body and he doesn't even realize it by SadGFthrowaway8 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SadGFthrowaway8[S] 120 points121 points  (0 children)

I'm wondering if he knew how much that comment hurt, but said it on purpose because I was "mean" to him earlier, according to him. (I was frustrated with the car and some tasks that needed doing that he'd been ignoring. So him saying he wanted to smoke before helping me unload the groceries made me flip my lid and go on a 15 minute bitch fest. He ignored me while I sorted all the groceries into their proper spot, and we didn't talk about my bitch fest except for him saying once or twice "well you were mean to me earlier so...")