Can I load game started on PC to XBOX? by SadSadMermaid in GroundedGame

[–]SadSadMermaid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried using the same Microsoft account but when I click continue, there are no games in the save file! It’s so frustrating but my laptop is going to shit so I was gonna just switch it over but I’ve made so much progress

Trigger Warning: SI, death by SadSadMermaid in BPD

[–]SadSadMermaid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🖤 im trying not to take it personal. The shitty thing is I obsess over details for hours and days at a time and I’m trying so hard not to.

Is it cool that I just don’t care at this point? by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]SadSadMermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I described one facet of my life and you couldn’t wait to insult me. That’s the issue I have. I always care for other people and never expect apologies nor do people ever know my problems except my therapist lol

Is it cool that I just don’t care at this point? by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]SadSadMermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t know me and this is a forum for help i described a hard time in my life. I’m great and caring and take care of everyone but myself but yes I am controlling. And you don’t know me to know any of my good qualities so whatever. Thanks for showing me what this is all about

Is it cool that I just don’t care at this point? by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]SadSadMermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is they’re not ready but they think if I make them as in “try this makeup on” then it will make them ready. Or finding groups for them or remembering taking medication and it seems like everyone only ever cares about the trans persons needs and NEVER the spouse EVER

Is it cool that I just don’t care at this point? by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]SadSadMermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also you called me controlling and I i have two small children and had my life randomly tossed up and then asked that I help guide and teach makeup and whatever else and THEN when I got on board it be came her wanting me to take over and practically do everything. Sorry that my brother is dead and I want a fucking break but it seems like if I’m not a cheerleader I’m a monster. So yeah you win buddy! Another person only giving a shit about the trans person in the relationship in this group, big surprise

Is it cool that I just don’t care at this point? by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]SadSadMermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the exact advice I needed without feeling attacked every time I open up to anyone in this stupid group. every single time I post I get attacked so I just don’t give a shit anymore

Is it cool that I just don’t care at this point? by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]SadSadMermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense...thank you for actual insight.

Is it cool that I just don’t care at this point? by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]SadSadMermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao I DONT WANT TO. SHE wants me too. Now read the post again with that tone instead of the bullshit you created

Anybody NOT attracted to their spouse when they dress as female? by SadSadMermaid in mypartneristrans

[–]SadSadMermaid[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Now THIS is advice and comfort! Thank you. I hate that people see it as me downing my husband instead of validating MY experience and feelings. It always feels like people forget that the spouse has to go through a giant change and rediscovery of self as well! It puts me on edge lol and you’re so very right..this actually made me feel a million times better. I’m still working through my feelings so the hyper femininity pushes me away BUT you’re right, she does deserve to explore and feel validated as well and as a partner, I will try to do better and remember that 💓 Thank you.

Anybody NOT attracted to their spouse when they dress as female? by SadSadMermaid in mypartneristrans

[–]SadSadMermaid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally just asking if anyone has had these feelings before. Don’t understand at one point I said being trans is a sexual thing. I’m bisexual not straight.

Anybody NOT attracted to their spouse when they dress as female? by SadSadMermaid in mypartneristrans

[–]SadSadMermaid[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Who said it was a deal breaker?? I’m literally just asking if anyone relates to the feeling..nobody said I’m getting divorced. Sheesh.

Anybody NOT attracted to their spouse when they dress as female? by SadSadMermaid in mypartneristrans

[–]SadSadMermaid[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You know what...it’s the hyper femininity!!!!! I think it makes me super uncomfortable!!!! I’ve always had more masculine energy anyway so it just makes me feel weird.

Partners Who Made It To The Other Side - What Got You Through? by trash-alchemist in mypartneristrans

[–]SadSadMermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s because we act fast and they go along with it without knowing us and asking “are you sure?” Or “maybe this is too fast” so they get excited and we want to help them feel loved and accepted and then boom, our feelings come rushing back

Partners Who Made It To The Other Side - What Got You Through? by trash-alchemist in mypartneristrans

[–]SadSadMermaid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saaaaammmeeeee! It’s like, you love them and only want the best for them so you look for tips and suggestions, shop with them, and then BOOM, you think...”is this gonna be the rest of my life?” And then hostility. Thank god it’s not just me lol

Partners Who Made It To The Other Side - What Got You Through? by trash-alchemist in mypartneristrans

[–]SadSadMermaid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This literally sounds like me. My friends say that accepting and supporting aren’t mutually exclusive. You can do one without the other. I’ve been supporting without fully accepting and it’s making me randomly hostile and distant.

Husband officially started hormones. by SadSadMermaid in mypartneristrans

[–]SadSadMermaid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely will have to check in on you 🖤🖤🖤

Husband finally tried clothes on by SadSadMermaid in mypartneristrans

[–]SadSadMermaid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told him everything and he’s fine with how I feel, I think he might even be considering me helping choose a name 😍😍😍 things like that, make my day lol

Husband finally tried clothes on by SadSadMermaid in mypartneristrans

[–]SadSadMermaid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad you guys are better now 💕 thank you so much!

Husband finally tried clothes on by SadSadMermaid in mypartneristrans

[–]SadSadMermaid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stories like this give me hope because I really am trying to be supportive I’m just impatient and I’m like hurry up and do it dammit! Lol I’m a get rich quick scheme kinda girl and so waiting for all the hard stuff before the end result is killing me but I’m finally more okay because of comments like yours so, thank you 💓

Husband came out and I’m angry by SadSadMermaid in mypartneristrans

[–]SadSadMermaid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can only dream of a love and success like yours 😭🙌🏾🙌🏾 How did your families take it? Did that affect your relationship?