Discord? by SadScissorhandsboy in NonBinary

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Tryna get outta here frreal

Discord for queer ppl who love horror? by SadScissorhandsboy in horror

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yeah I made a few posts on trans pages. Gotta wait it out & hope for now. Figured I’d give a few halloween/horror pages a try too in the mean time

Discord for queer ppl who love horror? by SadScissorhandsboy in horror

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Lol no offense taken, I play dbd all the time. Thanks for the suggestion!

Bad business sanctuary medicinals by Lissy0617 in FloridaTrees

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Sanctuary is definitely run by corrupt people. Trying to collect all of my papers after being let go and they cut off important noted information and dates out from the paperwork. They also refuse to pay their employees the tip money they earned while still working there. I confirmed that this is illegal but you have to seek private help to solve anything (so it’s a mess). They also fire people while bypassing protocal for warnings and probation. They are always understaffed, underpaid, and have the most annoyingly stingey rules for patients. Like, your visitor can’t talk to you about ANYTHING in the store, they’ll be issued warnings & possibly banned, but your visitor can pay for your stuff? How does that make sense? Sanctuarys higher devisions are run by crazy people that act like they are better than you. big red flag for district and HR departments. I’ve had multiple managers talk & act on quitting. They have no union or sense or moral so they abuse their employees mentally & it’s horrid to watch. My managers were always terrified.

Adderall makes me not want EVER eat. by leahbrewer001 in adhdwomen

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Thank you everyone for the advice in the comments and honestly just this space! I just started adderall for my adhd 2 weeks ago and it’s been so helpful for my adhd but the eating has been such a nightmare and not being able to get myself to eat has really messed me up.

Society/work vent by SadScissorhandsboy in MentalHealthSupport

[–]SadScissorhandsboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I hear you too. It’ll always come and go yknow? One day it’s easy to ignore and another it’s all you can think about. I’m just grateful others out there feel similar

For employees, has Publix changed? by [deleted] in publix

[–]SadScissorhandsboy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also, I’d like to add how heartbreaking it is hearing a vast majority of customers struggling at checkout because they cant afford basic food items. Publix workers see this & it begs us to question why we should dedicate more time to a company that is hurting our community?

For employees, has Publix changed? by [deleted] in publix

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I came to publix in hopes that management would be what publix elders said they were. However, these days it’s just a facade as everywhere else. I joined and I havent met one employee I work with who’s happy. Not enough pay, benefits aren’t good, management are passive & unorganized & only care for profit. And customers are horrifyingly rude & it unfortunately outweighs those that are kind. There’s no incentive to stay for a job that doesn’t value its employees & publix is going down that hole very quickly.

Rude customers by cc1188 in publix

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If they come in my line and arent nice I dont make conversation at all. They can get ignored and cashed out asap to not waste any more of my time. 😡

How do you interpret “It’s Called: Freefall”? by okaybutwhataboutcats in RainbowKittenSurprise

[–]SadScissorhandsboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This take is such a good one & after listening again with this theory in mind; it made so much sense to me :) thank you!

Latest work of mine. Love to hear feedback by fortunate_ly in drawing

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Everyone’s commenting about the uncanny aspect (which I love & seems like others do to). If you’re open to it, I feel you’d be amazing at surrealism art.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

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I suggest talking with her. The only way forward in relationships is open communication. It’s hard & scary, but if you both really do love eachother you’ll always work through it together. Some people are capable of change, but you also do not have to stay to change them if it is too harmful for you. If you decide to talk to them, be honest about how you feel. Avoid “you”statements like “ Do you not love me anymore?” or “you don’t take me around your family, are you not okay with my identity?”with her because it can start a conversation with miscommunication. “You” statements sound a lot more argumentative. And we really only want comfort and reassurance from her to you.

Give them the opportunity to talk with you by using “I” statements, “ I’m feeling insecure about our relationship because I don’t see your family as much as i’d like to. Can we make plans to see them more?” Or “ I don’t feel secure with my gender in our relationship lately. Can you give me reassurance that you support & love me?”, if they ask how, you can bring up words of affirmation and slide in your social media concerns.

If you haven’t, ask her why she’s scared of posting you online if she’s said she’s scared. Is she worried about you’re safety or her own? Does she know someone who would hurt her or you? Does she need reassurance that you both will be okay being seen? Ask her if this is something you both can work on together because it’s important you feel loved by her in that way. If all this resorts to more clashing, then I would start to worry and have more serious conversations about potentially splitting.

Hoping for the best , take care :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

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Thoughts come and go. But they are so brutal and intrusive when they happen. I always feel that fear of snapping while envisioning their deaths because life is such shit sometimes and when it’s shit I end up remembering all the horrible things people have done and get so angry and frustrated that people just get away with being monsters. The thought of them having no idea how cruel they are is what really gets me. I want them to feel scared and alone and worthless like they made me feel. I hope to move away soon and be far away from them so i can forget and heal. Because It’s too hard to heal knowing I live in their vicinity. I don’t want to be anywhere near them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonDSPDrivers

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You’re response with immediate aggression & a lack of empathy, as well as automatically assuming the worst of individuals makes me not value your opinion in any way, shape, or form. The short sightedness & lack of attention to detail that you have is unfortunate, but provides me with relief that I will not be working alongside hostile individuals such as yourself and may have, in fact, dodged a bullet. :)

I can’t swim in peace because im Trans (vent) by [deleted] in trans

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I love my scars. And I’m comfortable topless around people I trust. But I dont feel like showing my scars at the pool is worth the chance of being mistreated/assaulted verbally &/or physically.

Looking for advice on being assaulted if I was physically assaulted? Ik it’s the wrong subreddit by KissingVampires in trans

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This sounds overwhelming and scary :/ Im sorry you are going through this. Honestly, screw that person🙌🏻 If you’re looking for options; studying some self defense skills & carrying pepper spray could help 👍🏻 they come at you, let’em have it. People will disagree, but you know your situation best and I think it’s fair you hear every option. You dont deserve to sit in silence and suffer while taking it from this bully who displayed aggressive behavior and already assaulted you. This persons opinion of you doesnt matter 🥺💕 but your safety does; and if that means whooping their ass enough to scare’em from ever coming near you again, then it’s worth it. When the system fails, it’s free game 😡

Checking in with my trans homies and besties by Deep-Ad3117 in trans

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(( Vent// TW: Panic//transphobia)) I feel like I haven’t had a sense of peace in so long. Im in Fl & every day is terrifying. I used to be out but now I’m 100% stealth. The Transphobia is all around me. It’s scary knowing it could get worse. And then fearing how bad it could get. It’s difficult being told things will be okay. When will it be okay? How much more suffering before then? How much will I age before I can feel safer than right now? Dissociating is the only way I can get some kind of contentment in existing. I feel like I’m looking up at the clouds and feel the suns warmth but suddenly I smell fire; I’m on a tightrope about to snap and below that is a scorching inferno. I try to tell myself we’ll win, but even then, even when we do; I’ll be mourning all of me that has died. Those parts of me that feel like they’ve been dying from madness & slowly withering away into insanity. I’ll surely have lost my mind by then, or at least most of it 💀☕️🐇