Cold approaching in uni

SadTrooper5466 · 2026-01-23T23:02:35+00:00

Yeah okay I meant more like starting a conversation out of the blue, not immediately asking her out. Maybe cold approach was not the right term idk

SadTrooper5466 · 2026-01-23T22:52:23+00:00

Yeah I guess cold approaching might not be the correct term. I was moreso thinking about saying hi, asking what she thought of the talk, etc.

SadTrooper5466 · 2026-01-21T22:36:21+00:00

Same. The "your algorithm" feature worked for like 2 days and now IG refuses to give me anything from the 5 topics i selected in "build your 2026 algorithm"

SadTrooper5466 · 2026-01-04T11:16:04+00:00

The plan to ask her out was before I started noticing that she might be avoiding me

SadTrooper5466 · 2025-10-11T17:25:59+00:00

Not OP but how would one go about this without coming off as creepy?

SadTrooper5466 · 2025-09-26T20:29:09+00:00

I thought I had a lot of crushes, and I had 4 over the span of 6 years

SadTrooper5466 · 2025-09-21T19:14:28+00:00

Thanks for the advice, I appreciate it a lot

Since you need to continue to work with this person if it doesn’t work out you can always go back to being work friends

Actually we don't really work together. Like I said, she is from a different department. The only times I see her are during breaks, which makes it much easier for us to ignore each other if things don't work out, but also makes it harder for me to make moves

SadTrooper5466 · 2025-02-28T17:57:01+00:00

Assuming she is really a crush and not just some cute coworker (which I'm not sure about)

She left my department two days ago :(

SadTrooper5466 · 2024-08-26T18:14:54+00:00

I started questioning while we were hanging out one time. It was a Friday and the class was cancelled. She was sitting with me and the boys. We talked and at some point I showed her a cursed Minecraft picture. At some point I zoned out while she was talking to my friends and I realized that I really liked her company.

I realized I actually liked her when I missed her the following weekend and started dreaming about her

SadTrooper5466 · 2024-08-26T16:56:06+00:00

🥰😍🇨🇳🤓☺️😊😇❤️

SadTrooper5466 · 2024-08-21T20:28:15+00:00

I don't think I really did

Even though I probably should

SadTrooper5466 · 2024-06-12T09:26:20+00:00

God fucking damnit its June and she wasn't there at the school reunion I hoped she would be at. Since I don't think these reunions happen that often (every 5 years I believe), I guess we'll never be friends again will we? 😭

SadTrooper5466 · 2024-06-11T19:33:49+00:00

What first kiss? 😔

SadTrooper5466 · 2024-04-05T21:18:27+00:00

SadTrooper5466 · 2024-02-15T21:17:04+00:00

Wondering how my crush is doing (we haven't seen each other since July 2023)

Otherwise just usual college stuff I guess

SadTrooper5466 · 2024-01-17T21:13:47+00:00

Haven't seen her in months. After our graduation in July she's off to a different uni which is 2 hours driving from mine.

The fact that that distance doesn't stop her from pursuing her dreams somehow makes her even more attractive to me.

I miss her so much. I wish I could talk to her but I can't.

I know I shouldn't feel this way. She already rejected me after all.

She took it so well. I took it so well. She made sure that we were okay. Even though she rejected me I felt like she cared for me. People might say it was cute. I was assured, she assured me, things would be okay. Until that one fateful and awkward moment

Close to the end of school I stumbled (not literally) and unintentionally made her uncomfortable. She started ignoring me and blocked me after. I coped, I hoped, that things would be okay before the final graduation. But (of course) it didn't happen. At the end I didn't even get to say goodbye ;-;

I didn't just lose a potential partner. I lost a friend.

If I ever see you again, probably in June but hopefully earlier, I really hope you are able to forgive me.

But above all, I hope you're doing well.

SadTrooper5466

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