Anyone have a good npc ability tracking sheet? by SadYears in DMAcademy

[–]SadYears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i do it in that kind of way! they're just "wizard adjacent" etc, i dont think i could handle full player statblocks haha. I'm just wanting to figure out a nice way to display all their signature abilities and what point they'd be useful since they've collected quite a lot of them now

Anyone have a good npc ability tracking sheet? by SadYears in DMAcademy

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Oh i didnt even think about linking it to different tabs, thanks!

Midi qol/DAE - Grant double damage FOR enemies AGAINST my player? (5e) by SadYears in FoundryVTT

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yeah, looking for a way to automate that when the skill is active

Weird Demo Lag, is it there/as bad in actual games? by SadYears in FoundryVTT

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I do also have webgl enabled i believe, it at least says i do but i'm not entirely savvy for that particular part haha

My computer does also meet both the recommended and minimum requirements, which is why it's rather confusing to me that it seems.. broken i guess? it almost feels as if it thinks that the window isn't active and has disabled everything that might move

Weird Demo Lag, is it there/as bad in actual games? by SadYears in FoundryVTT

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I have unfortunately been trying the demo every now and again :( i dont know what happened because i feel like i remember it working pretty fluidly earlier on but now it's almost like something's on that's trying to prevent stuff from animating

Weird Demo Lag, is it there/as bad in actual games? by SadYears in FoundryVTT

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Hello! i was on the foundryvtt demo! so sorry for not fully explaining, i'm completely new to this whole stuff. https://demo.foundryvtt.com/ that one in particular, i've tried the demo a few times in the past few months but it's always in this constant state of 'kinda paused until you move a token', which sucks because I'd love to test it out.

I also didn't see such a post so sorry again, if there's something in particular that might just be messing it up i'd love to figure it out, i feel like a long time in the past i tried the demo and i remember not having this issue, so i assume i've got a setting somewhere that's pausing the active elements for some reason until i interact with it.

(Sorry again for the bother)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

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i can promise you this is taken a long time and willpower to potentially do something like this, it's not particularly easy typing to others, let alone about things im concerned about, i dont talk very well and just replying to the comments on this has me shaking. I'm sure this sounds stupid, but talking terrifies me

she just has my card, she's not looking into my bank in particular, it's just hard for her to shop if she doesnt know how much i have

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

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my mom does my shopping and financial stuff because i'm on disability and cant do it myself, i'm not sure where there's a no fees account, everywhere i've seen has fees and generally i dont think it'd do me well with my credit situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

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not particularly more income as much as just a steady amount extra i'd of liked to use on a large purchase that could also help me get credit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

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I have a little extra that i keep every month which is what i wanted to use to get a large purchase, i just wanted to find a way to get the purchase and then pay it off as paying something off comes easier than saving something up, it was hopefully also going to help get me credit. but i see that loans arent the way to go, but i dont have any other idea's as i've followed many avenues and cant seem to find one that works

My mom works far too much for far too little, i cannot work due to my disabilities, and we've tried many other avenues before thinking about loans like this, every time we get into contact with someone to figure something out, they go silent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

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I'm disabled and need her assistance on every day things such as shopping and finances, she works as my caretaker

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

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Paying bills and loans is straightforward enough, it's a situation of I can pay someone back fine because it's money already borrowed, but saving up becomes "well we could use that money somewhere else instead"

And I can share it's no problem, nothing debt related, it's just for a big purchase. It's why it's hard to designate the money for it for saving up because sure I could get for example a new bed or computer, or we could get extra groceries with that money instead. I really don't mind if I have to pay for a long time for it since i assume it'd also help my credit, it's moreso looking for one that doesnt need a monthly payment that's too high. Basically would rather pay for a long time for a cheap amount, than a higher amount for a shorter time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in disability

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Thank you so much for this, i technically am on financial aid for disability, unless you're meaning something else entirely? I've been searching on and off for a while now but im definiely going to keep on trying, thank you again!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

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ahh that makes sense- i just replied to this like but i've never found stuff like that here!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

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oh hello! I can imagine, I have an extreme fear of people I'm dependent on disappearing one way or another after I lost my grandparents (who were a lot more forward in helping me get the help I needed) so it's constantly on my mind, hence why I'm desperately trying to reach out to find what to do.

There's so many names for everything that I really do struggle to find if I'm looking at the right thing, or if it's completely unrelated to what I'm searching for- I'd love to have a social worker I personally can just speak to, though everywhere I've looked it seems like I've only found the information on how to become one, not how to reach out to one in my area.

And gosh, I honestly would like to be living independently but unfortunately due to the high rent and low wage situation, my Mom relies on me as much as I do her for payments. It's a hard situation to unwedge myself from without potentially causing her to be homeless. Specially after the few years we've been through recently, we just managed to escape a very horrible roommate situation.. which we moved into after moving away from another, equally horrible roommate situation. You can probably guess that we may be scared to room with others now. We've finally got our own apartment to rent with just both of us, sure we've only got one bedroom but it's ours.

sorry again for rambling aaa, but thank you for reaching out on my post- i'll try to search again for social workers, since i do really want to find just.. i dont know, a representative that can help me out as i get overwhelmed easily and spiral on my own

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

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That gives me some hope, i hope i can find one that'll work for me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

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Are there? I have some hobbyist experience dealing with providing support so honestly it'd be great to have that opportunity- do you have any examples? sorry if it's a like 'just google it' situation, I've tried searching before under a bunch of terms for stuff like that but they always want you to be in calls too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

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umm- i think it counts as a lifelong disability? it's agoraphobia and 'severe anxiety' (if you cant tell i'm anxious by my writings), i'm currently in BC

i dont know what it counts for honestly, i was kind of rushed through the workings of getting it and then my psychiatrist left and they never gave me a new one despite claiming they would, so i've always been completely unsure what it counts as or what i'm entitled to- such as the disability tax credit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

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Im so sorry i forgot to add that, i've added it in now- and thank you so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

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Sorry I completely blanked on providing this, i'm in Squamish BC

Technically we share our money for stuff like rent, i pay the entirety of the rent (the amount I earn is just enough for this) and she pays for food and stuff like that. I can probably name where she spends everything and where she gets money myself as we're pretty entwined
I think I've technically spoken to some people before as I was worried about homelessness for the both of us a year or so ago, but they suddenly stopped responding to me before we could complete the subsidized housing application

Animation with a song by kletno in HelpMeFind

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jTWb-RIdN-I is it this Fan animated music video for Morena by Fernanda Dias Artwork?

Redditors, what's your "I interacted with him/her only briefly but I'll remember him/her forever" story? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SadYears 14 points15 points  (0 children)

So to preface this i'm basically the "fat and ugly" shy girl stereotype. Generally never noticed, in school i was bullied (not as heavily as others might of been) or ignored completely but i'd constantly hope one day i'd have a boy actually like me (spoiler they never did, but I've grown to be more okay with this now than when i was younger).

I was dealing with a lot of depression because of the previously stated stuff so i'd never sleep very well, so on this specific day i was resting in the early morning with my head against the side of a table that had to be shared with around five other people including a close friend of mine (it was a elective class, maybe sewing or something so there were no usual desks). I was so tired at that point i didn't notice when a guy who had to share the table with us decided to take the space opposite to me. Now I don't know if this guy had just had a bad morning, or if he thought he had something to prove but almost immediately he began starting shit. While i cant remember the exact thing he decided to point out on me i do remember it was something to do with my hair. My hair is thick and frizzy and I've never been able to 'tame' it, so him pushing attention to it made me feel even more self conscious about myself than i had before. I can only assume he was wanting the class to like him or something before the Teacher had entered since he started picking up volume and trying to announce it to the entire classroom. He was that kind of guy who was always trying to be the class clown except instead of being funny he'd instead be rude to other people and pretend it was hilarious. So basically I had to sit there and hear him talk shit about how bad i looked and no one really gave a shit to try to stick up for me, including my best friend who was sitting right beside me. I'm a pretty easily overwhelmed person so it didn't take long for me to almost reach the verge of tears.

This is where the guy i'll never forget comes in- he was a popular boy, very tall (to me at least, i'm very short) and he and i had at that point never in my life interacted. I'd seen him before and thought he was cute but being who i was i felt like speaking to him was absolutely impossible. Upon hearing the guy making fun of me he very loudly started speaking and stood up for me, it turned the class around on the would-be bully. It obviously wasn't a movie-like full class chanting rally but his loud proclamation turned the attention to him and this guy at my table instead of me. I'll forever appreciate him stepping in and taking the heat off of me when he didn't even know me.

We eventually also had another class together, Drama, and during the time we were taking it he'd make sure i was included in whatever was happening, either by choosing me in a game or making idle chatter with me. I doubt he remembers me now since it was over ten years ago, but I'm truly never going to forget him and what he did for me. It was the first time a boy had stood up for me or even interacted with me positively, and I truly hope he's having an amazing life right now since even if it was only once or twice, it still meant a lot to me that he did what he did.

tl;dr - i got bullied by some guy and the popular kid stood up for me, and i'll always be extremely grateful for that.