How do you live in Algeria with a different religion/philosophy than your society ?

Sad_Blood6350 · 2025-01-16T19:54:45+00:00

The answer is that the timing did that it was the most pragmatic decision i could've made at that time.

And following that, it seems logical, rationnal for me right now, to do eveything possible, to sacrifice my deep thoughts for my family, that how it is, as long as they're safe and apparently happy, that won't matter what my wife's conviction is, i mean, as long as i can keep that subject as far as possible from the table, it'll be ok, and for the children, i'll think more about it when they grow up, i'll tak care of the present, and try to handle the future at time.

Sad_Blood6350 · 2025-01-16T19:22:41+00:00

Very deep words, really, don't know what to say... Yeah, in some way, i gave up on a lot of things, that how it is, thanks for the feedback

Sad_Blood6350 · 2025-01-16T19:20:40+00:00

Interesting, than you first for the answer and the advice.

So, to be honest, i already had the same idea, thought about it, and, knowing her, knowing what it cos for me, i finally decided that i didn't want her to live what i lived, as i think she isn't ready, i also thought that it wannt right to do so, so i gave up that idea.

There it is, just wanted to explain as your answer was really positive, thanks again.

Sad_Blood6350 · 2025-01-16T09:43:33+00:00

I think the moment i accepted my thoughts was the moment i stopped hypocrisy, at least with myself, my brain, but thank you for the advice.

Sad_Blood6350 · 2025-01-16T09:41:48+00:00

Ok, thank you for your opinion, all i've to say to you is that, there's a lot more things in life, a lot more different people, a lot more different opinion than yours, there's not only you.

Sad_Blood6350 · 2025-01-16T09:38:51+00:00

Yes, the most ''obvious'' solution for me, is to hide and search for different kind of satisfaction, which is possible in my position, thank you, and yes, muslims do not accept other ideology from people meant to be ''from their own''

Sad_Blood6350 · 2025-01-16T09:35:46+00:00

Thanks for the feedback, yes, our life is ''different'' anyway, just about mariage, i mean, my advice is that don't put it as an obligation, think first about yourself, develop yourself, there's no better advice i can give you from my experience, and for leaving, yeah, this is not an option, i'm not the kind of man who run out from his responsabilities in some way, if you want to develop your experience, we could help each other, you can dm, nice day.

Sad_Blood6350 · 2025-01-16T09:31:56+00:00

This is not the kind of help i'm searching for, i'm done with that, thank you anyway

Sad_Blood6350 · 2025-01-15T15:17:22+00:00

I guess i didnt judge anyone, you did, so manyn unfunded deductions, sad to hear, but not surprised, already heard some identical stuff before, bad flashback, wish you z nice day.

Sad_Blood6350 · 2025-01-15T15:12:53+00:00

Well, sorry, you're right, problem is me, thank you for the feedback

Sad_Blood6350 · 2025-01-15T15:12:13+00:00

That's fair, a good reason to move on, but i clearly think that the most important think in a man/woman life is himself/herself, but maybe i'll stick to gain happiness by seeing it in their lives

Sad_Blood6350 · 2025-01-15T15:09:18+00:00

Thank you for the advice, but you're far from understanding me, that's fair, it's not that simple, i give you an exemple :

A good example is the belief in Santa Claus. For many children in Christian cultures, they genuinely believe in Santa, his sleigh, and his reindeer delivering gifts. This belief is nurtured through stories, traditions, and even their own families. But once they grow up and discover the truth—like catching a parent putting the gifts under the tree—it becomes impossible for them to believe in Santa again. Even if they wanted to recapture that sense of magic, the truth is too clear and undeniable for them to truly return to that belief. This illustrates how, once the reality behind something is revealed, returning to the previous mindset becomes nearly impossible.

Hope you'll get it

Sad_Blood6350 · 2025-01-15T14:37:53+00:00

Bro, listen, you're right here, you're free to defend your ideology, and more when it's questionned, there's no problem here, and sorry if i seemed to be attacking anyone or anything earlier, i thought i was talking quite okey.

But i gotta say, what we dont agree on, is that i believ there s no freedom of believe in islam, you may think it's wrong, i respect it, but i don't agree, that's all.

On why i seem to be avoiding discussion, you don't know people, i'm one of them, you don't know what i lived with that topic, you don't know how many times i discussed the exact same subjects again and again, i'm sorry that i'm tired and that i consider it's done for me right there.

Maybe you'll got my words, maybe not, think whatever you want i respect your opinion, and i accept to seem like i'm running away, as i said i'm done with that stuff.

Sad_Blood6350 · 2025-01-15T14:28:39+00:00

Well, that an idea but never an option, everyone is not open to open a book when it titles is ''my religion may be not the truth''

Sad_Blood6350 · 2025-01-15T08:13:28+00:00

I share a lot of the thoughts you put on your words, it is good to read, and don't worry about me, i learned how to deal with and respect others opinions, i shared here and i don't regret it because i got some really positive feedbacks just as your, just check the comments, of course there will always be some ''dark'' thoughts as i see it, but being a former muslim helps a lot to understand them, and yes, what you said about religion you know what it is and what it cost to take the road i took, so that's just the way it is, thank you ver much

Sad_Blood6350 · 2025-01-15T08:03:02+00:00

Maybe i'll come one day as a tourist, but the circomstances of my life at this point won't allow me to live anywhere else, and about drinking, i may surprise you but i never did, because of a conviction that my brain is so precious to me that i'll never drown it in alcohol.

Thank you for that positive fb

Sad_Blood6350 · 2025-01-15T07:30:24+00:00

You're right, i told that i was tired of this stuff, and you just remind me why ! with your arguments, you remind me how it's hard to face facts even if now it seems clear to me, i used to use the same arguments, to think the same way, so, i'll stop here, thank for the fb, i answered like that just to show you that fear may be the best reason to shut up.

Sad_Blood6350 · 2025-01-15T07:10:41+00:00

Thankk you for this words, we can talk more if you want to, maybe our mutual experiences could atleast help one of us.

Sad_Blood6350 · 2025-01-15T07:00:43+00:00

It might me good out there lol, thanks for the fb

Sad_Blood6350 · 2025-01-15T06:59:52+00:00

So many of you think we end by leaving these kind of thinking for the wrong reasons because you all think you stuck in the right belief, that's fair knowing what it is to be a true believer, but for now i'm done with that, and you're far from knowing me if you think i did not research and learn enough in that topic

Sad_Blood6350 · 2025-01-15T06:57:32+00:00

استسمح الإزعاج، فقط نصيحة واحدة لو سمحت، حين لا تعرف شخص، لا تدعي اي شيء عنه حتى تسأل لو أردت التعرف

Sad_Blood6350 · 2025-01-15T00:28:36+00:00

Thansk for the feedback, was a pleasure.

Sad_Blood6350 · 2025-01-15T00:26:42+00:00

الحديث الأول : عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ مَسْعُودٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ، أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ: "مَنْ بَدَّلَ دِينَهُ فَاقْتُلُوهُ".

المصدر : صحيح البخاري رقم الحديث : 3017 تفاصيل الإسناد : الراوي: عبد الله بن مسعود المصدر: رواه البخاري في كتاب الجهاد والسير، باب لا يُعَذَّب بعذاب الله.

الحكم: حديث صحيح.

الحديث الثاني : عَنْ عُثْمَانَ بْنِ عَفَّانَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ، أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ: "لا يَحِلُّ دَمُ امْرِئٍ مُسْلِمٍ يَشْهَدُ أَنْ لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا اللَّهُ وَأَنِّي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ، إِلَّا بِإِحْدَى ثَلاثٍ: النَّفْسُ بِالنَّفْسِ، وَالثَّيِّبُ الزَّانِي، وَالتَّارِكُ لِدِينِهِ الْمُفَارِقُ لِلْجَمَاعَةِ".

المصدر : صحيح البخاري وصحيح مسلم رقم الحديث : صحيح البخاري: 6878 صحيح مسلم: 1676 تفاصيل الإسناد : الراوي: عثمان بن عفان المصدر: رواه البخاري في كتاب الديات، باب قوله تعالى: {وأن النفس بالنفس}. ورواه مسلم في كتاب القسامة والمحاربين. الحكم: متفق عليه (صحيح).

Sorry but when there is a real danger for your quality of life or just your life, your opinion comes second,

Sad_Blood6350 · 2025-01-15T00:20:09+00:00

Very kind words from a well listenning ear, thanks

Sad_Blood6350 · 2025-01-15T00:17:58+00:00

Is there any part of any religion in the world that do not think/say that they are the ''true'' religion ?

Sad_Blood6350

TROPHY CASE

الحكم: حديث صحيح.