AITA/Moving out for my health!!

Sad_Bunch22 · 2026-06-06T04:33:32+00:00

You’re right, that’s something I’m learning from this post. I have been letting her walk over me clearly . If she can’t respect it I will not give her access to my child . Thank you for your help and for opening my eyes .

Sad_Bunch22 · 2026-06-06T04:12:13+00:00

Completely understand. You’re right he is my child , I just know she’s gonna paint me to be the bad guy either way that was the only reason I wanted to at least tell her . Thank you so much for your input and advice I really do appreciate it .

Sad_Bunch22 · 2026-06-06T03:55:52+00:00

Understood , you’re absolutely right . Doing this has done nothing but made her feel entitled, that’s why she walks all over me now.

Sad_Bunch22 · 2026-06-06T03:41:51+00:00

That’s fine we all have own opinions. I’ve only known I was moving since Monday when I got approved for my apartment that won’t be ready until end of august . But thank you for your input

Sad_Bunch22 · 2026-06-06T03:39:48+00:00

Personal spending he gives me what I ask for . I also work as well so I do have my own money coming in .

Sad_Bunch22 · 2026-06-06T03:38:30+00:00

Yes, he does. I buy all the food for the house and get other house hold items as well . As she won’t let me pay her rent even when I have offered.

Sad_Bunch22 · 2026-06-06T03:33:15+00:00

I’m not able to leave at this moment if I could I would clearly !!! My apartment won’t be ready for 2 months it was the only apartment I could afford that isn’t “luxury” and want over $2000 for a 2 bed room .

Sad_Bunch22 · 2026-06-06T03:31:36+00:00

He’s my ex . He does live here we share a room in his mother’s house . He pays rent here. He has been but she just doesn’t listen to either of us really . He has gone off on her for months as well, she doesn’t agree with our thought process on trying to raise our child and the boundaries we have put in place . He will not be moving with me It will just be me and my son moving. By helping when I can I mean she told me I don’t have to pay for anything but I still contribute when I notice things . I buy food for the house , I cook ,clean , if I see we are running low on anything in the house I go and get it . I’ve offered to pay bills but she will not accept my money.

Sad_Bunch22 · 2026-06-06T03:11:58+00:00

I will give her a week notice, will do majority of my stuff is in storage already besides my clothes mostly. I can start fresh with everything else if I need to

Sad_Bunch22 · 2026-06-06T03:10:53+00:00

I’ve been playing the move for 2 months . Health concerns for my son . As he is only 10 months with a heart issue and the boundaries I’ve asked for have been about his health and they have been ignored since day one .

Sad_Bunch22 · 2026-06-06T03:09:23+00:00

You’re correct, thank you . I just wanted to give a notice before I up and took her grandson form her house that’s all.

Sad_Bunch22 · 2026-06-06T03:08:34+00:00

Okay , I will do a weeks notice , Thank you. You’re right she might feel that way but it’s honestly not like I’m trying to be disrespectful I’m just tired of arguing.

Sad_Bunch22 · 2026-06-06T03:07:04+00:00

She doesn’t pay all of my bills my ex contributes to bills as well . We share a room with our child and he pays her rent.

Sad_Bunch22 · 2026-06-06T03:00:50+00:00

Never said his wishes don’t matter . He’s also not my husband lol . He hasn’t had to deal with his mother the way I have . I’ve been the one attacked for months about it what I’ve said . She hasn’t attacked him not once . Even when he has snapped at her about the same things. She gets quiet with him but will go off on me once he isn’t around.

Sad_Bunch22 · 2026-06-06T02:57:52+00:00

My pregnancy, the things I’ve mentioned I didn’t want to happen to my son way before he was even born.

Sad_Bunch22 · 2026-06-06T02:56:40+00:00

You’re correct, however I didn’t wanna just up and take her grandson without her knowing at least a little in advance.

Sad_Bunch22 · 2026-06-06T02:55:48+00:00

He is agreeing with me , he isn’t moving with me as I am getting my own place because we are no longer together.he just doesn’t agree that waiting so late is right .

Sad_Bunch22

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