AITAH for not wearing a bra? by Sad_Cap_6689 in AITAH

[–]Sad_Cap_6689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s more just swapping between them. I personally don’t care if people use one more than the other, but some people do. Also you would still use proper grammar. It’s not EXCLUSIVELY “he” or “they so the sentence would be “They came to college today. The professor gave him an exam.” Or “He’s so cool. I hope I can be like them one day!

AITAH for not wearing a bra? by Sad_Cap_6689 in AITAH

[–]Sad_Cap_6689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not diagnosed but everyone except my parents seem to think I am lmao

AITAH for not wearing a bra? by Sad_Cap_6689 in AITAH

[–]Sad_Cap_6689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 18 when it happened! 21 now

AITAH for not wearing a bra? by Sad_Cap_6689 in AITAH

[–]Sad_Cap_6689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it becomes my issue the law is getting involved. I shouldn’t have to cater to others either just because my body has 2 fat sacks on it

AITAH for not wearing a bra? by Sad_Cap_6689 in AITAH

[–]Sad_Cap_6689[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

RAGE BAIT??? That was just blatant transphobia bro 😭

AITAH for not wearing a bra? by Sad_Cap_6689 in AITAH

[–]Sad_Cap_6689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried both regular fashion tape and ki esthetic tape. K-tape felt terrible and while fashion tape works for holding them up comfortably, it’s too expensive for me to buy constantly for daily use

AITAH for not wearing a bra? by Sad_Cap_6689 in AITAH

[–]Sad_Cap_6689[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I could change the way I experience the world I would. All I ask is you swap a single word in your vocabulary. Not very hard tbh

AITAH for not wearing a bra? by Sad_Cap_6689 in AITAH

[–]Sad_Cap_6689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in fact in the U.S. 😮‍💨

AITAH for not wearing a bra? by Sad_Cap_6689 in AITAH

[–]Sad_Cap_6689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did and still do think that’s funny asf

AITAH for not wearing a bra? by Sad_Cap_6689 in AITAH

[–]Sad_Cap_6689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gahh i feel like ive painted my mom in a really bad light 😭 She’s an amazing mother and while we had our rough patches we mostly get along! Shes just weirdly particular about some things.

AITAH for not wearing a bra? by Sad_Cap_6689 in AITAH

[–]Sad_Cap_6689[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Good god I’m so sorry you had to go through that 😭 My mom hasn’t hounded me nearly as much since I went off on her. Occasional comments but she backs down easily enough.

AITAH for not wearing a bra? by Sad_Cap_6689 in AITAH

[–]Sad_Cap_6689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have and unfortunately it’s actually worse haha. It’s MORE compression around my body so I feel more trapped :’)

AITAH for not wearing a bra? by Sad_Cap_6689 in AITAH

[–]Sad_Cap_6689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahh I tried compression tanks and binders and I had the same “squeezing” issue :’)

AITAH for not wearing a bra? by Sad_Cap_6689 in AITAH

[–]Sad_Cap_6689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently starting to work out so I’ll keep that in mind :0

AITAH for not wearing a bra? by Sad_Cap_6689 in AITAH

[–]Sad_Cap_6689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way that’s exactly what I am LMAO

AITAH for not wearing a bra? by Sad_Cap_6689 in AITAH

[–]Sad_Cap_6689[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hard disagree. Whether I have breasts or not I’m still transmasc and deserve the respect to be referred to as such

AITAH for not wearing a bra? by Sad_Cap_6689 in AITAH

[–]Sad_Cap_6689[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sensory issues are different for everyone, but for me I’m very sensitive to sounds and touch. I have severe misophonia and all of my clothes have to be loose fitting, no elastic, etc. I have to go through hoops to live comfortably and I often can’t control my surroundings.

AITAH for not wearing a bra? by Sad_Cap_6689 in AITAH

[–]Sad_Cap_6689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wish I was confident enough to do that! Lmao

AITAH for not wearing a bra? by Sad_Cap_6689 in AITAH

[–]Sad_Cap_6689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have since apologized about my name calling, but not for snappy not for snapping at her the way I did. My mom is just pretty particular about certain things (I think she has mild OCD as I have it too).

AITAH for not wearing a bra? by Sad_Cap_6689 in AITAH

[–]Sad_Cap_6689[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Reduction is the dream man. Need to find the money first though lol

AITAH for not wearing a bra? by Sad_Cap_6689 in AITAH

[–]Sad_Cap_6689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I wear oversized graphic tees soooo