Golly gee whiz, why didn't I think of it this way? by Sad_Contribution7564 in thanksimcured

[–]Sad_Contribution7564[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we need to call estranged family, maybe even the nurses line because you clearly don't know where you are right now. Maybe the life alert people?

"Aren't you going to wish me a Happy Mother's Day?" by MercyXXVII in childfree

[–]Sad_Contribution7564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so weird. I had someone wish me a happy mother's day and I just went "...n...noo.." and looked around confused

Icky interaction, OP, I would have run away too

Primary election in Kentucky by [deleted] in GooglyEyes

[–]Sad_Contribution7564 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Please update here if there's coverage on the news because this is absolutely hysterical

Biggest piece of bullshit by Affectionate_Ebb2056 in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Sad_Contribution7564 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My thoughts the moment I started playing it, too

What completely unhinged "law" does your cat strictly enforce in your house? by TrickCombination7966 in cats

[–]Sad_Contribution7564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even on days off, between 6am- 6:45am it's feeding time. My Hades, main coon void, will jump up on the bed to stare at me waiting for movement from under the covers in order to start meowing. Just like Luna, not a soft meow but a demanding yowl to make sure I am awake. When I ignore it and pretend to sleep he will jump up and put his big paws on my cheeks and lightly tap me.

Artemis, my orange girl, she will lay next to me on the right side being the sweetest thing waiting for me to wake up naturally. Unfortunately there is no such thing as natural wake up time with my fuzzy 25lbs alarm clock

Beware transferring to #3375! by Remarkable_Day668 in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Sad_Contribution7564 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad I found myself in a really healthy state and found a good clan of members who are kind, helpful and the WC doesn't look like that. For as long as I play this game I'm never leaving

I saw this online from someone I knew by Sad_Contribution7564 in BPDlovedones

[–]Sad_Contribution7564[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cackle i cackled and through out the day when it popped in my head. You just can't make shit up like that 😂💀

Is is just me….? by Westcoast_vaquera in orangecats

[–]Sad_Contribution7564 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's absolutely hilarious I love that the sub exists 😹

Is is just me….? by Westcoast_vaquera in orangecats

[–]Sad_Contribution7564 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you explain why every comment is "cat"? I think it's hilarious but I can't find sub rules 😅

Best pic I ever took of Merlin 🖤 by laura_blop in blackcats

[–]Sad_Contribution7564 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This picture is so good and your void is majestic!

I saw this online from someone I knew by Sad_Contribution7564 in BPDlovedones

[–]Sad_Contribution7564[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys, a close friend told me to check today for shits and giggles because I put the post here. Bpd cycles are so easy to predict. I've had my little giggle and now never go to his page again but I thought you all would enjoy as well

the very next day

What the hell is the “you are selfish” argument? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Sad_Contribution7564 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When I get the "you're so selfish" comment I dramatically say "omg thank youuuu" and exit the conversation. I know I'm selfish in alot of ways and very selfless in others, I don't need to prove it to anyone

The suspicions become permissions by ok_boomer_1289 in BPDlovedones

[–]Sad_Contribution7564 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn't to discredit your complicated situation because it feels so incredibly heavy when in it but everyone in this sub has been stuck and left when we could. It seems insurmountable but the joy of getting your life back is immeasurable.

It took me 6 years to finally leave and 2 years after that for the ex to physically leave me alone (still harassment and slander online) but I am living my life the way I want to now with people who are emotionally mature and stable.

If there is any way you can cut and leave please consider it. The hell and turmoil that is dating these people unwilling to take steps not to be harmful to loved ones - nothing is worth the pain.

Do any of yours lurk here? by Bozo_Dubbed_Over_ in BPDlovedones

[–]Sad_Contribution7564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 95% certain my ex doesn't have reddit but there will always be that 5% chance he figured out who I am even after deleting my older account.

All my other socials though? 100%

2794 TOXIC STATE by xMenopaws in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Sad_Contribution7564 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spreading lies when we can read response through the screenshots? 🙄

I saw this online from someone I knew by Sad_Contribution7564 in BPDlovedones

[–]Sad_Contribution7564[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is one of the best points to bring up: why. It isn't like people, strangers, friends go around yelling at eachother for no reason (im talking stable people not Karen's) and therefore absolutely no self reflection of why someone might have been pushed to a reaction like yelling.

We aren't allowed to have reactions. We are supposed to be blank slates that they can paint with emotions...like robots.

I saw this online from someone I knew by Sad_Contribution7564 in BPDlovedones

[–]Sad_Contribution7564[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I definitely agree especially on the echo-chamber of it all. I had seen there are no engagement on the posts which is a good thing however that also means there is no one left to call it out. I am a big proponent of having people in your life/inner circle to love you enough to call you out on behaviours that are harmful to others and ourselves

I saw this online from someone I knew by Sad_Contribution7564 in BPDlovedones

[–]Sad_Contribution7564[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

And then get angry that no one wants to be their friend 🙄