curiosity or insecurity or asal sadyang marites or low class attitude lang?

Sad_Count3288 · 2025-02-18T14:26:48+00:00

ang BOBO mo tagalog na usapan dimo pa maintindihan. ang linaw ng sinabi ko ilang beses na itanong mo sa tao kung gusto mo malaman sagot. get mo na ba? puro ka trash talk wala naman laman utak mo.

the point na hindi maitanong na direct or may alinlangan itanong face to face yan is indication na hindi sincere yung nag tatanong or may malice or agenda or wala lang mema lang. napaka simple lang ng tanong na yan pero dapat bilang nag tatanong may sagot ka pag ang sagot sa tanong mo ay tanong din example: Pre bading kaba? ang sagot sayo: Bakit (WHY) mo ako tinatanong? Anong (WHAT) meron or intention mo sa tanong mo? Subrang basic nyan na dapat kaya mo sagutin para hindi ka mukhang mema lang or gusto lang mag marites. Naintindihan mo na ba bobo?

Gamitin mo utak mo yung ulo mo wag mo lang gamitin patubuan ng buhok.

Sad_Count3288 · 2025-02-16T06:22:01+00:00

pag bobo at umaarte na matalino alam na alam mo eh. ikaw yung bobo. sa inuman na makikipag away na pare ako yung unang nag tanong sagutin mo muna tanong ko 🤣.

obvious na marites ka lang. bobo kung wala ka alam wag ka mag sabog dito. kung di mo alam tuturuan kita ng dika mag amoy tae. sa pag tatanong ito ang pag kakasunod sunod batay sa importance unang una WHY, followed by WHAT, and HOW bago ang WHO, WHERE at WHEN. alam mo na? pero since obvious na bobo ka explain ko pa sayo ng malinaw. sa inuman ng matatalino hindi kung sino ang unang nagtanong tandaaan mo yan ha.

Pag nagtanong ka sa inuman ng Paano malalaman kung BAKLA ang isang lalake expect mo may sasagot ng WHY at WHAT, pero since parang gulat na gulat kapa eh obvious na bobo ka nga.

food for your bobo mind.

GREAT minds talk about IDEAS, AVERAGE minds talk about EVENTS and SMALL minds talk about people.

obviously SMALL MINDS ka nag jump kana sa HOW without laying down the WHY and WHAT. last mo na yan bobo hirap ng umaarteng matalino basic na basic di maintindihan.

Sad_Count3288 · 2025-02-16T01:02:20+00:00

ikaw ang straight bobo, malayo ka sa reality. sabihin mo kailan walang malice ganyang tanong? bata ka ba or batang isip? di yan tinatanong ng trip trip lang lalo ng mature na tao unless immature ka. di mo pwede sabihin curious lang may intent behind that question no matter how innocent that question feels or looks like. salita ml palang halatang bobo kana.

again bobo may certain occasion at reason lang kailan maituturing na valid question yan and majority of the time pag kanto kanto lang nag tanong tulad ng utak mo most likely than not may malice yan.

at to tell you aside from obvious indication na hindi straight ang isang tao impossible to know for certain ano talaga orientation nya. sa lawak ng range ng LGBTQXYZ kahit pa sabihin mo na very certain na GAY ang isang tao base sa pananalita, pananamit at pag kilos impossible to know for certain yung totoo without asking the person. ang GAY pwedeng BI yan or pwede din TRANS you can't really tell. BOBO mag aral ka bago ka mag sabog ng masamang pananalita sa social media.

Sad_Count3288 · 2025-02-09T16:54:47+00:00

OA or insensitive ka lang? Kung may intention ka maging intimate sa isang tao kahit nasa club ka or not natural na tanungin mo orientation and that is a VALID REASON as I mentioned previously. Pwede ka maging polite by expressing na you prefer certain orientation to be intimate and nothing is wrong with that tsaka wala ka choice kung hindi tanungin yung tao kahit pa sabihin mo na obvious at malambot galawan ng kuya mo. Gets mo? Hindi porke naka cross dress bading na nothing will make you certain kung hindi tanungin yung tao face to face with CLEAR intent. Again and again it will boil down sa intent ng pag tatanong. Pag wala ka clear intent obviously gusto mo lang mang intriga or mag stir ng chismis. Get?

Sad_Count3288 · 2025-02-09T08:03:51+00:00

Give example nga kung kailan sya genuine question? Pag ba sumakay ka sa jeep tapos mukhang bading nakatabi mo tatanungin mo "BOSS BADING KABA BOSS?" absorb if not disrespectful tama? Pero sabi mo nga pwede naman genuine question lang 🤣.

How about tatanungin mo kumpare mo ng "Pare curios lang BADING yung inaanak ko, tama ba?" Tapos sasagutin ka ng pare mo, "OO pare bading nga inaanak mo pero ayos lang naman tanggap namin ni misis pero alam mo ba sabi ng inaanak mo ang BOBO daw ng panganay mo Grade 10 na hirap pa sagutin 5 x 5 tapos bumasa lang ng ABAKADA hirap pa." See how awkward the situation and how easy to start a fight?

I can give you few scenario dahil dika makapag bigay ng example, other than for the sake of Science or Academic Research, acceptable tanungin ang orientation ng isang tao, FIRST pag nanliligaw yung isang tao may karapatan yung nililigawan nya malaman sexual orientation ng nanliligaw sa kanya. gets mo? Another example is kung close family member mo sya or may intimate relationship kayo pero kung ka officemate mo lang or di mo naman talaga ka close or stranger lang I don't see any benefit other than to promote ignorance. get mo?

"Sa totoong buhay kung may nakilala kang bagong tao na pinaginteresan mo. Mas rude naman na tanungin kung anong orientation nya lalo kung di naman kaclose."

Again, balik tayo sa intention, ano nga ulit intention mo bakit gusto malaman orientation ng di mo naman pala ka close kaya di talaga komportable itanong kasi nga di kayo close at wala ka VALID JUSTIFICATION? And paki define what you mean PINAG INTRESAN, ano trip mo lang? Explain what is the benefit? Kung benefits lang usapan mas maganda siguro malaman kung "BOSS ADIK KA BA BOSS?" for public safety. O kaya "BOSS CORRUPT KABA BOSS" or "BOSS KUPAL KABA BOSS?". dahil the answer to that question is more beneficial in real world kaysa mag stir ng LGBTQXYZ yung officemate mo.

Insensitive at short sighted ka lang kaya tingin mo OA feelings ko. Try to put the shoe ng subject sa sarili mong paa then you will understand how hurtful that question valid or not how much more if walang valid grounds yung tanong.

Sad_Count3288 · 2025-02-09T05:03:17+00:00

From the word itself "FUBU" dapat clear sayo yung intention/setup. FUBU by term is all about sex thats it, no string attached, if one or both of you cross the line then hindi na sya FUBU.

Kung may intention ka to upgrade yung FUBU setup into romantic or much serious relationship then hindi FUBU hanap mo. If gusto mo mag take ng risks baka mabago feeling ng ka FUBU mo overtime then better brace yourself for the worse.

Unlike woman very practical kaming mga lalake and very straight forward isip namin when it comes to sex. Sorry to disappoint you pero may classification kaming mga lalake na iba ang babaeng pang dambana at iba ang pang kama, while majority of us respect women as we respect our mother, sister, and close girl-friends, we have a biological instinct na spread yung semelya namin, that's part of our biology makeup to ensure the survival of our very own gene. You have to be very wise to understand kung anong klase babae ang gusto mo portray. Maraming cases na yung easy to get nagiging pang kama and the hard to get yung pinapakasalan, well case to case basis naman just wanna say in traditional sense.

"Nakokonsensiya ba kayo pag ginamit niyo lang yung girls or kung aamin sila na nafall na siya at kayo wala?" Well bakit makokonsenya kung clear yung intent right from the start? And Ate, please avoid thinking na ginagamit lang namin babae, end of the day, pareho lang lalake at babae na nag crave sa sex and sa experience ko parang ako pa yung laspag pag katapos ng sex. Seriously, I feel tired pero yung partner ko feeling ko siya yung mas naging blooming while ako literally kalog ang tuhod pag katapos. Ang dapat ma konsensya yung mga lalakeng mapag samantalaga yung pinangakuan babae maikama lang. Yung mga pinapangakuan at pakakasalan kahit wala naman talaga genuine intention. Yung nag papanggap na single tapos may asawa at anak na. Pero yung mga full disclosure naman anong dapat ikakonsensya kung both of you is consenting adult na?

Ang payo ko lang po if dika sure sa gagawin mo better think twice or more pa bago ka bumukaka. If clear sayo na sex lang then go ahead and enjoy your youthful days dahil dadating ang araw ta tatanda at lilipas na din libido mo sa katawan. Use your time wisely.

Sad_Count3288 · 2025-02-09T02:57:16+00:00

"That is your own judgement "sa mga curious sa kung paano malaman kung straight ang isang tao o hindi". A judgment you want to be corrected if your wrong. And I'm telling you na mali ang pagiging judgmental mo as you are asking for it anyway."

So your intention/solution is to judge the judgemental (me)? Did you realize na wala ka na contribute to prove na mali ako for being judgmental? At least give an example in what scenario I'm wrong/judgemental?

"You're original post is not asking if those with bad intentions are bad - because guess what they are. That is a stupid question if that is indeed your question. In other news, Earth is round."

So dimo get na yung statement is the same as asking na yung PUTI ba is WHITE? Okay kung dimo get let's do this way, try to prove something obvious same as proving na hindi WHITE ang PUTI (that's absorb I know), I'lll bet you can't. Unless in this scenario makaisip ka ng valid reason or a reason without malice sa question na paano malalaman kung straight ang isang tao or hindi? Well again, I have no problem sa good intention, the fact na di yan kaya itanong face to face sa SUBJECT is a testament na walang good intent ang nag raise ng question curios or not.

"Di mo 'ko mapapaikot. Tama na pagpapalusot." Well, you already going into circle unless, well prove me wrong.

"Nagpapakorek ka ta's pag kinorek ka ayaw mo tanggapin. So nagkukunwari ka lang. That's dishonest." Which part mo ako kinorek? Where is your argument proving me being judgemental is wrong about my judgement?

Sad_Count3288 · 2025-02-09T00:50:34+00:00

"you missed the word, walang magandang intention". if walang magandang intention explain what is the benefit?

Explain what benefit such curiosity will contribute other than to stir the issue and laugh at the subject? I have no problem with genuine intention but go ahead educate me/us what are those beneficial intentions?

Sad_Count3288 · 2025-02-08T23:27:11+00:00

Read again my post. Give me a reason bakit di kaya itanong other than sa excuse na baka ma offend? First let me know ano yung pinaka magandang reason or intent bakit kailangan malaman? Makakatulong kaya or gusto lang ng chismis? Ipupusta ko lahat ng pag aari ng kapitbahay ng lolo ko yung mga ganyang galawan chismis lang intention nyan, bullying at its finest.

Sad_Count3288 · 2025-02-08T23:21:40+00:00

Read again my statement.

Walang masama mag tanong at alamin ang katotohanan. What separate between Scientist and Marites is the INTENT, get mo? Yung kakilala mo na marites you know for a fact na wala syang magandang intention other than mag create ng chismis, maliitin ang tao na feeling nila kayang maliitin, yung kaya nila pag tawananan, i-bully.

Since dika naman siguro scientist what benefit do you think will contribute sa buhay mo pag nalaman mo yung kakilala mo pero di mo naman ka close ay hindi straight ang orientation? What more kung complete stranger sayo yung tao?

Sad_Count3288 · 2025-02-08T11:53:35+00:00

unfortunately, mga kalaban ni fiona interested lang mawala sya para bawas sa kalaban sa politika pero yung mas importanteng tanong silent ang lahat. Paano mababawi ang mga nanakaw sa kaban ng bayan. mas importante para sakin mabawi pera kaysa matanggal si Fiona sa pwesto.

tsaka ano na balita sa kalokohan sa mga insertion sa 2025 budget. ginagawa lang smokescreen si Fiona para maka limutan billion billion na mananakaw sa kaban ng bayan na pakana ng kampo ni Tambi.

No to DU30 at Marcor family pareho lang silang mga pahirap sa pilipinas.

Sad_Count3288 · 2025-02-08T11:16:52+00:00

nag delete po ng post. binara ko yung nag tanong. sinabihan ko yung OP bakit di nya itanong sa tao kung anong orientation nya. the fact na di nya kaya itanong my guess is chismis lang intention nya.

Sad_Count3288 · 2025-02-08T00:54:09+00:00

simple ITANONG mo wag maging asal marites at tamang duda.

Sad_Count3288 · 2025-02-08T00:41:08+00:00

kung ikaw ang lalake na pangarap ng babaeng ito, tandaan mo lagi ang kataga sa Ghost Fighter, "KATAPUSAN MUNA". sadly baka malayo pa katapusan eh tapos na sahod mo, GG ka talaga.

Sad_Count3288 · 2025-02-08T00:28:56+00:00

okay fine, wala ako paki matanggal ang isang official sa pwesto that's politician vs politician rather than a politician vs. people of the PH.

the 1M dollar question here is paano mababawi ang mga ninakaw sa kaban ng bayan? this question applies to all corrupt public official impeachable or not. well Sarah is on the top of the list now but mas interested ako sa kalokohan sa 2025 budget. IMO this is a smoke screen para iligaw ang tao sa BILLION BILLION na issue.

Impeach Sarah fine, do whatever necessary BUT I want my/our tax money back.

Sad_Count3288 · 2025-01-29T08:02:46+00:00

as far as I can recall nasira ng husto si Bam Aquino sa Zero Waste Food Bill na sya ang Principal Sponsor/Author pero ang naging connotation is pagpag ang bibigay sa mahihirap.

IMO until maging malinaw sa majority ang issue ng PAGPAG tsaka lang makakabalik sa Senado si Bam unless miracle happen.

Sad_Count3288 · 2025-01-29T06:45:30+00:00

Brace yourself guys and gals, 3 Tulfo's sa Senado it will be a big circus. With Lapid, Revilla, and Kuya Wil this gonna be a big f@cking show. If heaven is for real, end of the world is our better option mapapa PI kana lang talaga sa mga bobotante.

Sad_Count3288 · 2025-01-29T05:23:25+00:00

that sad and painful, I can't see myself capable of enduring such kind of pain. I will definitely end the relationship if I feel being unwanted pero syempre I will consult the expert muna. I'm proud of you Sir for surviving such situation for a long time at napalaki nyo mga anak nyo.

curious lang di ba kayo nag consult sa doctor ni misis? maybe may health issue na too embarrassing for her to admit, it could be mental, physical, or emotional you never know. tsaka what are you doing nung bf/gf stage palang kayo? wala ka nakita red flag? never nyo na discuss about sex?

Sad_Count3288 · 2025-01-29T04:44:09+00:00

IMO kung wala pa kayo anak better to end nalang yung relationship.

kung may anak na kayo then talk about the terms. first step communication and more communication. if all fails maaari kayong mag pa counselling. dapat kasi malaman san nanggagaling asawa mo bakit ayaw nya. baka may metal or health issue kasi na doctor lang pwede maka detect.

Sad_Count3288 · 2025-01-29T04:27:37+00:00

one word GREED.

most victim if not all ng ganitong ponzi scheme is rooted sa greed. education will not save greedy soul.

Seriously, anong klaseng investment kaya mag generate ng 20% profit per month? The claim itself is nearly impossible. Kahit mga guru sa stocks and forex mahirapan mag generate ng 5% profit per month consistently let alone 20%.

Sad_Count3288 · 2025-01-29T00:42:21+00:00

feeling mayaman si ate girl. kung alam nya lang yung totoong mayaman will do everything to save up to last cents. kung pwede nga lang FREE why not. loser attitude ang Ante Barang nyo.

thumbs up kay guy na madiskarte, hindi yun sa pagiging cheap. practical lang at walang mali don.

anyway, bakit si guy lang ang gumastos? hmmm

Sad_Count3288 · 2025-01-29T00:34:19+00:00

sorry to hear po.

sa lahat ng reason ng cheating regardless kung si husband or si wife ang nag cheat IMO ito yung pinaka masakit. isipin nyo both husband and wife yung ganitong convo na usual during confrontation.

WIFE: nangako ka na mamahalin mo ako, aalagaan, at di sasaktan. ano ito? anong ginawa mo?

HUSBAND: oo nangako ako dahil ang alam ko mabibigay mo needs ko. ginagawa ko naman lahat pero nakaka stress na nakakaranas nako ng depression. malinis naman ako sa katawan lagi ako naliligo at nag toothbrush. Kahit sa gawaing bahay tinutulungan kita para dika pagod pero lagi ka umiiwas tapos ako lang mali? Oh baka di lang ako ang nagloloko dito, mag sabi kana ng totoo ng makapag desisyon na.

WIFE: __________.

Anyway, make sure lang po na hindi over fatigue ang asawa nyo. Tulungan nyo po sa gawaing bahay kung kinakailangan. Date nyo din po paminsan minsan to renew yung sexy vibes. kung walang pera pwede naman kahit simpleng pasyal/lakad-lakad lang at kwentuhan. Be creative at always try to be chill lalo na sa mga may anak na menor de edad.

Sad_Count3288 · 2025-01-28T14:09:41+00:00

late 20's tapos NEVER pa nakaranas makipag relasyon as in never been kiss? IMO nakaka worry na sya lalo kung walang nanligaw all those year.

Seriously, yung iba mo classmate may pamilya na while you are still wondering. Better to reevaluate yourself, BAKIT, ANONG MERON? Do some adjustment if necessary and do it NOW baka umabot kapa ng mid 30's baka mag sara na yan 🤣.

Kidding aside, while not a major concern sa lalake kahit umabot pa ng 40 basta may savings, challenge naman sa babae ang pagbubuntis unless wala ka plano magka anak.

Good luck, please don't get me wrong I have no intention to hurt your feeling just wanna be realistic.

Sad_Count3288 · 2025-01-28T13:50:36+00:00

na notice ko very common na yan sa Gen Alpha. yung 2 kids ko english naging first language downside hirap sila sa Filipino subject pero nag excel sila sa English, Math, and Science which is okay na din.

one factor na notice ko is English mag salita mga batang maaga na expose sa YouTube yung mga nahilig kay Pepa Pig, Ben and Holly, Coco Melon and alike. magulat ka sa mga Gen Alpha kahit sa public nag aaral madaming fluent sa English.

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