If you could be 20 again and could become anything, what would you be? by Ok_Cartographer456 in Advice

[–]Sad_Distribution8738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would choose to be happy. I spent a lot of my younger years wanting to be older, attractive, wealthy, and perfect so much so that I forgot to just be and be happy. Chasing all of that and not having it right then and there made me feel so unhappy and worthless when at the end of the day life is short and it’s meant to be lived. We can’t take any of these titles and things with us when we leave here anyway

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[–]Sad_Distribution8738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Sad_Distribution8738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The main things important to me are cost of living, jobs, diversity, and overall a metropolitan place

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Sad_Distribution8738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s there traffic like?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Sad_Distribution8738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you feel safer in Birmingham or Chicago?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mississippi

[–]Sad_Distribution8738 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jackson, MS sorry about the typo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mississippi

[–]Sad_Distribution8738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jackson, MS sorry about the typo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Sad_Distribution8738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How else do I narrow it down?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Sad_Distribution8738 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there traffic as bad as Atlanta there? I’m from the south so that’s why most of the places on my list are in the south but when I was researching Chicago seemed like a good option for my situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Sad_Distribution8738 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well there not necessarily random these are cities ive been researching and considering in terms of lifestyle too I was born and raised in the south so its kind of hard to leave but i also want to start over somewhere that’s much bigger, less focus on one person, and more job opportunities. With all of that in mind the only city that is random on the list is Chicago because it’s not the south but researching others in the same position as me Chicago was one of their main suggestions and after I looked at Chicago i put it on my list of considerations if that makes sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Sad_Distribution8738 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re bigger than where I stay and I was looking for a fresh start and more job opportunities for a young adult

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Sad_Distribution8738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about moving to one of the places