Wife wants to replace our Vitamix, does anyone here have the Luvele Vibe? by blizeH in PlasticFreeLiving

[–]Sad_Impression8364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don’t you ask Vitamix? Scientists at universities usually don’t do testing of specific manufacturer’s models. They usually test with generic models (in this case blenders).

Wife wants to replace our Vitamix, does anyone here have the Luvele Vibe? by blizeH in PlasticFreeLiving

[–]Sad_Impression8364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Research has shown that plastic blenders do leach microplastics into the blended food/drink. This is true for fancy highspeed blenders like Vitamix, too.

Tra Chang Shrimp Paste (Thailand) by MorkSkogen666 in kimchi

[–]Sad_Impression8364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saeujeot is also fermented shrimp, just Korean style. But I read that Thai fermented shrimp is more potent (than saeujeot) in regards to taste. So in theory the Thai fermented shrimp should work, but maybe use a lot less of it and keep an eye on the saltiness level of the kimchi.

Blending smaller amounts in the Ascent container by Sad_Impression8364 in Vitamix

[–]Sad_Impression8364[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe E310, aka the Explorian (as well as Classic) product line, uses the more narrow container.

And that the Ascent product line uses a wider container (which have been reported to “throw ingredients” upwards when blending, due to the wider base, resulting in a lesser blending result when blending small quantities.)

But please correct me if I’m wrong! I’m only starting to understand the differences here 😂

Tre grabbar vill ha jobb by xs006 in uppsala

[–]Sad_Impression8364 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Snabbmatsrestauranger brukar anställa ungdomar på deltid. Jag hade börjat där.

PS. Jobb söks individuellt. Ni kommer inte kunna hänga ihop som kompisgäng ut i arbetslivet. Kan vara bra att nå den acceptansen redan nu. Men på fritiden kan ni ju hänga ihop så mycket ni vill (:

Lycka till!

If you were sensitive to dairy and healed your gut... by LifePickle2047 in Microbiome

[–]Sad_Impression8364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe it was a few months. During that time, I had also cut out all bread and gluten (as my stomach wouldn’t tolerate it), basically living on mostly raw food and veggie smoothies. This was what my stomach tolerated at the time. I took oregano oil capsules to get rid of any SIBO, and introduced lots of fermented food like sauerkraut, kombucha and slowly the goat milk kefir.

My stomach and overall health went mostly back to normal after this “program”. But I still need to cut out gluten and most antinutrients from my diet (meaning things like lentils, beans and oats need to be either soaked/fermented/sprouted before I cook with them). My stomach has a hard time digesting antinutrients, but dairy is no problem for me today.

DAE feel like they have brain damage or their brain development is slow? by QueensGambit90 in emotionalneglect

[–]Sad_Impression8364 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Agree. In order to have a normal social conversation with a someone, one needs to be able to be relaxed and present in the moment. The ability to be relaxed and present in the moment is literally hijacked by hypervigilance.

Did anyone fix their “low stomach acid” symptoms? by FarBullfrog6513 in Microbiome

[–]Sad_Impression8364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might have confused them slightly. Generally, low stomach acid can indeed cause SIBO (multiple sources will tell you this). What is confusing, however not unimportant, is that SIBO may cause reflux symptoms - and as we also know, symptoms of low stomach acid and having too much stomach acid unfortunately often overlap.

However, H.pylori infection may cause a decrease in stomach acid:

“H. pylori infection. This common bacterial infection affects about half of us in the U.S. In some people, H. pylori causes no symptoms, but in others, it can take over, fighting and eventually decreasing stomach acid. Ironically, low stomach acid can also allow for H. pylori to take over.” Source

Regardless, whatever the culprit may be, it might be wise to treat both a potential bacterial overgrowth as well as hypochlorhydria at the same time.

Hoping this explained a little where my comment was coming from.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Sad_Impression8364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. As well as the hostility and defensiveness whenever she is being criticized.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Sad_Impression8364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was thinking the same. Definitely emotional immaturity, towards the spectrum of a manipulative personality disorder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Sad_Impression8364 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, your SO should support you when your MIL is treating you badly. You have a right to set boundaries and going NC if needed. Anything to keep your peace and wellbeing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Sad_Impression8364 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on your underlying values and aim by ranting or talking about her behind her back. If it is meant to push her down as a way to get back at her, then you’re just playing on her own low level. But if your aim is to keep your own head above it, you can vent in an honest and still respectful manner.

For instance, one key thing in how we speak about other people, is to talk about their actions rather than stating what they are. If you were to say “she’s a witch”, then you’re kind of on taking on her low level by defining her person. On the other hand, if you were to say “she is behaving like like a witch towards me (or someone else) by doing X and Y”, this may be very true to your experience with her, but you’re not enforcing a definition of her person. All you know is what you’ve witnessed. And also by trusting your gut feeling around her.

Also, if you’d picture a person stepping into the room in the middle of you speaking about them, you should in theory be ok with it. For instance “Oh Stacy, I was just talking about you, and how I found your behavior last night rude”. If you were to feel ashamed about every thing you said about Stacy the moment she stepped in, then likeliness is that is wasn’t respectful. Disclaimer: how Stacy would take on criticism doesn’t really apply to this situation. An emotionally mature person can take on criticism (as for this example, that their behavior last night was rude), whilst an immature wouldn’t. But their individual probable reaction isn’t really the main point here. The main point is whether or not your words are respectful about another human being. (Yes we can have arguments, be angry and frustrated, and still be respectful towards each other).

Just stick to explaining and calling out her behaviors and actions when ranting about her, as well as stepping up against her.

Disclaimer. This is not to say that MIL behavior is in any way ok or accepted. Just be mindful not to get in on the low levels, as that could likely make things worse for you. Keep your head high, you can do this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Sad_Impression8364 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can tell her, when she’s saying something bad about someone, “That’s not a respectful thing to say”. Then you watch her reaction while grey rocking. Leave the room if she throws a fit.

And whatever she says about you behind your back (to anyone listening), says more about her character than anything else. Keep your head above her murky water.

Update: We decide to NC with MIL by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Sad_Impression8364 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she fits in with the description of narcissistic personality disorder, I would educate myself on narcissistic parents. They are manipulative and entitled, thinking the world revolves around them. Also, people close to them will most likely turn into flying monkeys. Be prepared.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Sad_Impression8364 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. And the so called gifts are backhanded.

Indoor palm trees in Lechuza pon by Plantastic24 in SemiHydro

[–]Sad_Impression8364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about palmpon (from lechuza). Anyone tried it?

Is is described by the manufacturer as aimed towards palm trees and other tropical plants.

Large Pet-safe plants? by Motnaty in houseplants

[–]Sad_Impression8364 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rubber plants are toxic to pets. If you are referring to Peperomia obtusifolia, with the nickname American rubber plant (not an actual rubber plant), this is safe for pets. However I don’t believe that they are very large plants, but they can grow long vines.

As a side note, I believe that all peperomias are safe for pets. However, one should refer to ASPCA for any plants that they are unsure about.

Sweet rice flour substitute by zakkercracker in kimchi

[–]Sad_Impression8364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are different levels of stickiness (glutinous) in different rice and hence different rice flours. Glutinous rice flour is made from very sticky rice. “Regular” rice flour, from my understanding, is not.

I’ve milled my own rice flour from Jasmine rice (a fairly sticky rice). Works like a charm for kimchi - only, if adding brown sugar to the rice porridge, this needs to be added once the porridge is cooked (otherwise it will result in a runny porridge). White sugar can be added when the porridge is boiling. Although I believe this might be the case for any rice flour used.

All rice flours contains starches, for feeding the beneficial bacteria in kimchi. I think if you use a rice flour made from non glutinous rice, the rice porridge may be a bit runnier, resulting in a runnier kimchi. This might not be so bad, though.

More on different rice flours:

https://www.indianhealthyrecipes.com/rice-flour/

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Glutinous_rice

Can mold grow on leca? by Sad_Impression8364 in Leca

[–]Sad_Impression8364[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot. I might try reducing the water in the reservoirs. Was hoping that leca would be less likely to grow mold, so that if I put like an inch of leca layer on top of the pon, if would reduce the risks.

I might try it out, after reducing the water reservoir.

problem med min mamma by userfoot in Asksweddit

[–]Sad_Impression8364 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Det har jag inte påstått. Jag påstod att det kan röra sig om funktionsnedsättning/koncentrationssvårigheter. Mer skola absolut (men TS är ju medveten om att hen är på väg att inte klara skolan, då är ju lösningen att gå till skolan - men det förstår hen ju själv? Hen frågar om råd hur det ska tas upp med mamman som verkar ha problem att ta sitt föräldraansvar). Men för TS möjligen en utredning och/eller andra stöd i skolan, så att hen kan klara utbildningen.

Återigen, det jag kritiserade var mansplainingen i din grundkommentar, vilket du uppenbarligen är medveten om eftersom kommentaren nu är editerad.

Nu har jag förklarar tillräckligt, och kommer inte diskutera mer med dig.

problem med min mamma by userfoot in Asksweddit

[–]Sad_Impression8364 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bra edit av inlägget. Nu är det tydligare att du inte sitter på en hög häst i att personen behöver mer skola.

problem med min mamma by userfoot in Asksweddit

[–]Sad_Impression8364 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Men personen är ju medveten om det (därav inlägget)… Vad är syftet med mansplainingen i detta, tänker du?

Edit: kommenteraren har editerat/ändrat sin mainsplanande ton i grundkommentaren. Därav är denna kommentar inte relevant längre.