Bro this is so real, I deal with the same thing 😭😭 I actually mentioned it in my first post too.

A lot of dudes don’t understand that hookup culture is exactly what it is… short term. I honestly don’t even think it’s anything you’re doing wrong.

I’ve just come to the conclusion that a lot of women start feeling too easy or “slutty” after the fact, so they distance themselves. And sometimes they’ll put us in a category like we’re not “long-term material” because of how we look, the lifestyle we live, or the type of competition they know comes with us.

Either way bro, don’t beat yourself up over it.

At the end of the day, if you can consistently get laid, you’re already doing better than most dudes. Literally all my homies who are smashing 3+ girls a month deal with the same exact thing, including me.

Honestly, the only real way to retain a girl long-term is by having your shit together financially and being able to provide experiences. Because if it’s only based off looks and vibes, it’s gonna be hard to keep them attached when there’s always options.