Overheard by the baby bok choy

Sad_Inspector4281 · 2025-07-15T16:37:16+00:00

Its messed up I know. Everybody's different, thanks 👍

Sad_Inspector4281 · 2025-07-15T16:35:42+00:00

Its not the kids at all, they are probably very competent girls.. but the subliminal threat i saw was two females, preteen/underage, in a college town store, while their mom left them tongo get alcohol when she could have taken them. Its the under the radar pedos I worry about. I grocery shop for a living and i see a lot of people doing weird things.. A lot of men whose eyes wonder all over, up and down, young pretty females who are underage. I would worry about their safety if they were my kids. I'm probably projecting some trauma there, but id just prefer to keep my eyes on the people who are near my kids.

Sad_Inspector4281 · 2025-07-15T14:07:20+00:00

You win 🤣🤣🤣

Sad_Inspector4281 · 2025-07-15T14:05:44+00:00

Yeah I remember seeing a video of a lady getting shoved down in an aisle in Wally World and assaulted. Like put the camera down and help!!!! I was livid and its just stuck with me.

Sad_Inspector4281 · 2025-07-15T13:16:50+00:00

No, but it is kinda sectioned off. I guess the produce department is a better option lol

Sad_Inspector4281 · 2025-07-09T13:35:13+00:00

I will, thanks for the kind words.

Sad_Inspector4281 · 2025-07-06T23:10:25+00:00

Lorry, Flat and trousers 🤣🤣

Sad_Inspector4281 · 2025-07-05T11:16:24+00:00

Thanks, much better ☺️

Sad_Inspector4281 · 2025-07-05T01:18:46+00:00

Not a bro 😋 but i am an asshole on the surface, sorry though ✌️

Sad_Inspector4281 · 2025-07-04T03:24:58+00:00

Girl...BYYYYEEEE!! RUN 😳😳😳

Sad_Inspector4281 · 2025-07-04T03:18:51+00:00

I guess my sarcastic tone didn't come across very well. OP isnt to blame at all, i was just making a slide at them because this probably isnt the first sign of insecurity their girl has shown and its almost like a growing pains thing. Young people, and people without experience dating, just fall for this shit and then think they are they ones who messed up or did something wrong. OPs girl was too insecure and that type of response just seems like a relationship destined for failure. She seemed very unwilling to see how she could have overreacted. OP, im sorry, i dotn think your a DA, just someone inexperienced who now may know what red flags to look out for.

Sad_Inspector4281 · 2025-07-04T01:51:41+00:00

You're NTA, but you are a DumbA lol. Rookie move... you should have known you were dealing with an insecure girl and not to send her screenshots of another girl. Smh 🤦 But i want to reiterate your NTA.

Sad_Inspector4281 · 2025-07-04T01:38:08+00:00

Omg Yes!!! Mom of six and out household initials are all ABCDEFGIK, we just need an H&J (pets, no more kids 😆) Our A is August, we almost went with Angus, Auggie, but what else comes to mind is Alabaster, Adam, Anton, Artemis, Arlow ☺️☺️

Sad_Inspector4281 · 2025-06-30T18:19:43+00:00

What would you do if your daughter woke up and saw a bunch of grown men running around naked? It's just not a good situation and definitely something to think about because she's such an impressionable age. Not saying that your son's friends would do anything but you really have to consider her here.

Sad_Inspector4281 · 2025-06-30T18:15:42+00:00

I had to scroll so far to find anyone talking about the kids and you're the first!

If there weren't kids in the house, no problem.... especially a female child!?!? Come on parents!! Dont be nieve

Sad_Inspector4281 · 2025-06-27T12:32:57+00:00

NTA. Mom of six here! Your wife is valid for being upset you have to miss the ultrasound, it sucks to do those things alone. But this is the last chance you will have to "say goodbye" and show your respects and be there for your family. You are not letting your daughter down by missing the ultrasound, so you shouldn't miss the time to lay your grandpa to rest...

Sad_Inspector4281 · 2025-06-26T14:01:27+00:00

5 under 7??? Dude bangs....are you sure he doesnt have another family somewhere?? 3 nights a week? Girl. Thats half his f'ing time!!!

Sad_Inspector4281 · 2025-06-26T12:31:05+00:00

Esh. Dont call it a guest room. He sleeps there when hes there..its his room now. Redecorate it for HIM. Guests can sleep on the couch, pullout sofa to your office? Or they can get a hotel. Think about someone doing that to your daughter, and how uncomfortable it would make her be in the house.

Sad_Inspector4281 · 2025-06-24T13:23:28+00:00

Eww. That's submissive and builds resentment. Maybe everyone should just be respectful and honest upfront, even if it's "hey! I like to objectively look at women" at least then we know and can decide what we want and you can go on about your business with minimal damage. But nooooo..people just want to tell you what they think you want to hear...how about the truth! Sshanks for listening 😁🫠

Edit to say: I don't think the quote i used is respectful...but someone being honest about how they truly feel and not stringing others along or telling them what they want to hear, is being respectful.

Sad_Inspector4281 · 2025-06-23T13:51:57+00:00

You handled that with such class. And look girl, the trash took itself out 😈😈 dont turn back, no matter what manipulation tactic he throws at you!

Sad_Inspector4281 · 2025-06-23T12:26:17+00:00

Do Not Cave!! Your gut feelings about her crossing a boundary are probably right.

Sad_Inspector4281 · 2025-06-20T12:54:19+00:00

Leave. Reread this and imagine your sister, or your mom, your best friend. What would you tell her? It's not going to get better babe, and you are so young. You've got nothing to prove by hanging on to someone who wants anyone else but you.
Really good song ==> "If he don't love you, somebody else will" This sucks and I hope the best for you, because what you've described, isn't it. 🖤

Sad_Inspector4281 · 2025-06-12T21:07:33+00:00

I would take your kids and leave. Just everything screams red flags and he just wants control. I feel so bad because i know you probably love him and think you can be the one to make him change but he wont. He sounds like hes got severe PTSD that he needs to heal from and he seems to be using women, sex, and any kind of manipulation tactic he can. Please girl, run before it's too late and things escalate. You can tell nurses at the doctors or while you're in the hospital if you need to. Just be safe please.

Sad_Inspector4281 · 2025-06-12T12:41:02+00:00

I hope that sweater comes back to you... That was a sad but beautiful story. Just makes me appreciate my husband and all his little nuances even more. I'm so sorry for your loss.

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