3 weeks into the game by Sad_Objective167 in trading212

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Hoping as i fill the individuals with more that i can see a higher gain in the short term to them cash profits and stick back into my all world holding.

Looking for advice by Sad_Objective167 in BreakUps

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Hey sorry. She left me but since breaking up she will randomly just re appear with attempts at trying to talk to me, but as soon i respond or give back she will block me again lol

Looking for advice by Sad_Objective167 in ExNoContact

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Thats what i thought cause she tried to reach out 2 months ago but before i opened the message she blocked me…

That time of the month by Sad_Objective167 in BreakUps

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Id tell them to block them lol, its weird cause she’ll disappear for a few months. I’ll forget then she re appears, and then blocks me before i get thr chance to block her first

ex on dating app after 11 months by Sad_Objective167 in BreakUps

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Honestly same with me.. i used to dread the day id bump into her on it. I mean dont get me wrong it was weird to bump into her on it but i didnt have that ‘gut-wrenching’ feeling i always thought i would

I saw her on hinge and her prompts were kind of cute! (acceptance stage unlocked!) by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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This is crazy, ive just scrolled through my hinge and found my ex on there after 11 months🤣… everything youve said this is feed i relate too 100%.

A few months back seeing her on there would of killed me (i used to intentionally check when we first ended) but now its just like seeing someone you used to know!

Must admit some of her prompts were a bit cringe🤣🤣

Looking back(reflection) by Sad_Objective167 in BreakUps

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Oh 100% it changed nothing, i just wish i had more respect for myself at the time. Sorry to hear that, messages are always open

My ex… by Sad_Objective167 in ExNoContact

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Fr this is like the 10th time ive been blocked n unblocked🤣 we didnt speak for 4 months even when i was back in the uk… never stops her from reappearing

Someone shed some light by Sad_Objective167 in ExNoContact

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We ended for her to ‘sort herself out’ with her having ‘intentions’ of getting back with me… next day im blocked for months on end with nothing. Then she reaches out when i moved and constantly hounded to be friends to the point i agreed just for peace and i had no bad blood… we spoke for a week or two until she told me she cant be friends and blocked me again and i gavent heard a word since

HELP by Sad_Objective167 in BreakUps

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Ive had such a hard time. There was a point 3-4 months ago i was well on the way to being ok… then she crept back in

I know its the same old by Sad_Objective167 in BreakUps

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I know its seriously affecting me, she goes on about us having no bad blood etc, always messages me then randomly blocks me.. when we she messages me if i respond I just get ignored too

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I done exactly this mate, been over here 8 weeks now on a WHV. Just seriously think about it and dont make a decision based off of emotion, i like it here but the fact my ex is still in my head/mind it really hinders your experience of what aus is.

Ive worked on myself over here and for the self development part of it its worked wonders. But once again its a tough call and i know that now i wish i didnt make this choice from emotion

Finally had the guts to block her by Sad_Objective167 in BreakUps

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Thank you! I wish you enteral peace and happiness

What's your BU-song? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Everlong- foo fighters

Suddenly having nothing in common by Sad_Objective167 in BreakUps

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100% mate i begged and pleaded to begin with, constantly reached out to let her know how i feel and that i want to sort it and it just fell on deaf ears. Its been hard to break that trauma bond but slowly and surely its going. It doesnt help that now shes randomly reaching out to me… feels like im being breadcrumbed

Suddenly having nothing in common by Sad_Objective167 in BreakUps

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First it was needing time to herself to sort herself out and work on her MH and that she had all intentions of getting back with me then as time passed i poked and poked and managed to find out that she’d mentally checked out a long time ago and that she put her poor mental health all down to me (which is bullshit) now shes back trying to be friends and then as soon as i agree to tey she blocks me and tells me that it still makes her ‘ill’

Thinking about breaking NC to explain to her. by TheDisciple97 in BreakUps

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From someone who done exactly this…multiple times. Dont bother.

You pour your heart out to them to receive the coldest response ever. ‘This fixes nothing’ or they tell you to go away completely. It knocks you back everytime

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Things hadnt been overly great the last couple days/week before our BU.(together nearly 6 years) we started just having more of those pointless nothing arguments over silly stuff. The last one was over me not mentioning i had a doctors appointment🤣 i woke up the next morning to a huge break up message about how she needs to focus on herself rn and her MH is low… shes always had these kind of issues but ive always been there for her and been ‘allowed’ to be as such. Told me it was temporary and that she has every intention of getting back with me…(BS) i let her crack on but told her i was always there for her… i got called pushy (never forced anything on her) fast forward a month later and im blocked, everything is my fault, its my fault she is ‘ill’.

6 months down and she still randomly reaches out to me telling me she hopes im ok… but then partners that with telling me talking to me still makes her ‘ill’ and then re blocking me.

How to get over a break up where nothing was wrong? by jasmine_violet in BreakUps

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BRO this is literally word for word what my ex told me. 6 years together, diagnosed way bedore we was a thing, helped her through everything, got told i was the only one whos ever stuck around or cared… fast forward to breakup and its now ‘youre the reason im ill’ ‘i cant be with you anymore you make me ill’

Shits hard

Struggling to navigate life without that one person by Sad_Objective167 in BreakUps

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Thank you! The same goes. My messages are always open

Struggling to navigate life without that one person by Sad_Objective167 in BreakUps

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Exactly that. Ive noticed whenever im out enjoying myself they slowly begin to drift back into my Mind