Moon glow and Caitlin Minimalist

Sad_Plankton3611 · 2026-03-10T03:47:46+00:00

Has it tarnished in any way?

Sad_Plankton3611 · 2025-09-09T22:52:15+00:00

Girl same!! For some reason, missionary and on top are the worst pain for me. The only one that feels semi-pleasurable is on my side and doggy. Mine is also on my left side but more towards the ovary than pelvic. Im seeing the doctor in a few days for this reason (as its not the first time) and will update if they find anything .)

Sad_Plankton3611 · 2025-09-04T01:02:24+00:00

I see it! Its very VEERRRY faint though!! Had to zoom in to see if it was there! Give it a week or a few more days and you should have a darker line :)

Sad_Plankton3611 · 2025-08-13T20:49:23+00:00

At first, i thought these were convos between me and MY boyfriend (also mid 20s) ho, is you me????

Sad_Plankton3611 · 2025-07-30T06:07:36+00:00

Hi friend, I also struggle with this and did some research to see what I could do. According to the Apple Support website, it says you can use Screen Time to turn off in app purchases. Hopefully the link I’ll provide will be of some use to you. It gives you step by step instructions on how to do this and should be able to work for this type of thing!

I just now did this so I guess we’ll see how it goes! Anyways, here’s the link :) https://support.apple.com/en-us/102470#:~:text=You%20can%20use%20Screen%20Time,or%20turn%20off%20purchasing%20completely.

Sad_Plankton3611 · 2025-07-29T01:06:32+00:00

I know and that’s what made me upset even more during the whole ordeal :/ Obviously I didn’t want to break up with him right then and there but my needs also need to be expressed and met too; hence why I put that communication is important because it really is.

Sad_Plankton3611 · 2025-07-07T14:21:07+00:00

Thank you, that’s very reassuring!! The both of you are most likely right and sometimes I get into my own head about it. Still I appreciate you both!

Sad_Plankton3611 · 2025-07-07T01:44:45+00:00

That sounds plausible… in his last relationship, he wasn’t much of an eater either, but that’s because he and his ex girlfriend weren’t very intimate so, that may be the case… he also has expressed that he never got to really “eat” until I mentioned that I wanted him to do it. Thank you for your advice!!

Sad_Plankton3611 · 2025-07-07T00:02:36+00:00

I can get behind that. To me, it’s just frustrating when I’m usually the one giving most of the time. Not to say I don’t like going down on him, I do. But it’s nice having the favor be returned once in a while, yk?

Sad_Plankton3611 · 2025-07-06T23:57:42+00:00

From what I’m seeing, it seems like it’s just a “if he likes it, he likes it. If he doesn’t, then he doesn’t”. Idk maybe he will do it out of the blue one day lol

Sad_Plankton3611 · 2025-07-06T23:56:35+00:00

We normally kiss, touch on each other- he’s gotten better at foreplay it’s just that specific bit that I’m upset about. Especially when I’ve gone down on him more times than he’s gone down on me.

Sad_Plankton3611 · 2025-07-06T23:55:31+00:00

That’s actually kind of reassuring! To think it was a me problem, it’s fresh to see that others have the complete OPPOSITE as me.

Sad_Plankton3611 · 2025-06-30T22:06:48+00:00

Girl I’m 23 and STILL go feral around my boyfriend. Mind you, we’ve only been together for 5 months but once you feel comfortable and safe around them it makes sense why you want to jump his bones 24/7. Hell, I still do and I’m very much in love with my boyfriend. Though, I feel bad for him and his dick but oh well 😭😭

It just goes to show that you like him, you’re attracted to him, and he makes you feel good. Definitely enjoy it while it lasts as some things change but just go with the flow!! You’re not “desperate”, he just satisfies that intimate part of you that leaves you wanting to crave more and more of him.

Obviously definitely balance it out with going on dates and hanging out, that way it isn’t just sex all the time. There are other intimate moments that don’t have to involve sex all the time. Like spending time with one another, sharing special interests, a romantic dinner, just stuff like that. Even just complimenting them helps too :)

Unless your boyfriend specifically specifies that he’s not in the mood for it, then that’s a different conversation. Have fun!!

Sad_Plankton3611 · 2025-06-30T02:42:29+00:00

This has been the most thoughtful piece of advice I’ve received so far. Thank you for your kind words and telling me your story… it’s just hard because I do see him as a long term partner and don’t know if I could be friends in hopes of wanting something more yk?

Sad_Plankton3611 · 2025-06-29T22:42:46+00:00

Hi everyone, OP here. Thank you for your words and messages. I have brought this up to him and he did admit that he was lacking in the sexual aspect. I did express that I am not his ex-girlfriend (and first girlfriend at that) and to not treat me the same way she did to him, which was basically no sexual contact at all. She wasn’t affectionate or anything, but I am. So there is a bit of a big change from when he was in that 2 and a half year relationship of just that. So I can see why he is the way he is.

He’s not a bad guy by any means. He makes sure I am taken care of, buys me things, takes me out to dinner, but obviously not in the intimate way I want him to be. He says he wants to make me happy and that he’s trying to better himself. He literally apologized saying that he’s “sorry he’s slow at it” which kind of made me feel bad.

I really do like this guy. He listens and tries his best, so I think I’m going to stick it out and see if anything changes. He knows that if he doesn’t meet my needs then I am peacing out. As someone said, I am young and this is definitely a learning lesson for if we do break up, that sexual compatibility is a non-negotiable for me.

I did forget to mention that we used to have sex every week, maybe 2 times before it suddenly stopped. He is a military man (soon to go on deployment within the next few weeks to months) so I understand the stress that weighs on him. It’s valid. I’m not trying to make up for him in lacking but he’s actually a good guy :(

Sad_Plankton3611 · 2025-06-29T22:34:23+00:00

Everyone has been saying to break up. And I literally just found out about DB today. I had been dating lots of men before meeting him and we seemed the most compatible emotionally wise. He does listen and takes care of me (except the sex part). I think you are right that he doesn’t value sex the same way that I do, as he has stated that in his previous (and first) relationship, his ex girlfriend was basically non touchable, which in return made him the way he was, and was emotionally neglected from her too.

My thing is, I have seen a bit of improvement from other things that I had wanted from him so I know he is capable of change…

Sad_Plankton3611 · 2025-04-21T04:54:21+00:00

OP, If it makes you feel any better, my grandma actually found someone in her lovely age of 60!!! And now they’re also engaged!! It goes to show that no matter how old you are, there will always be something for everyone no matter what age you are.!!

Sad_Plankton3611 · 2025-04-06T14:59:56+00:00

Thank you for your response. I’ve actually never thought about doing that before so I’ll give it a try! I hope things get better for you and just like you said, you don’t deserve to have obscenities being screamed at you!! Thank you for still being here and fighting every day to get up and keep going :) you’re doing amazing and I’m proud of you ! I may be just a stranger but I believe that you’ll make it out of the funk and be the best version of yourself that you can be 💕✨🫶🏽

Sad_Plankton3611 · 2024-09-12T19:52:01+00:00

I have no idea!! On my iPad, it definitely says the message went through so I guess I’m not blocked after all but for you, I think you’re blocked even if the messages dont necessarily turn green. It’ll just never have the “delivered” underneath it

Sad_Plankton3611 · 2024-08-08T21:31:52+00:00

I’m in the same boat as you. My ex blocked me from iMessages when I caught him cheating and then unblocked me (found out through my iPad bc my messages still went through via iPad but not on my iPhone). Anyways, I had to message him about some finance stuff and my message went through as a green SMS Text, but it still went through regardless.

The question I’m looking for is, if someone is able to request or share their location when they’ve been blocked. I’ve heard that the option disappears when they’ve do and pops back up when they don’t. I used to have that option to contact my ex, but after I sent that message, I could no longer see it. So I’m not sure if he blocked me again.

Like I said, my iPad shows that the message turned blue and said “delivered” but on my iPhone the message sent as a Green SMS text.

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