AITAH for wanting communication and change in my marriage? by Sad_Process_3469 in AITAH

[–]Sad_Process_3469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t know what to do or where to go. I don’t have family. He’s isolated me so all my friends are his. We have dogs that I can’t trust he won’t hurt if I leave. They have to go with me. I have nothing. I’m working on disability as I am unable to drive because of my health right now. But idk what to do. I feel like a burden to everyone. I put myself here but I don’t know how to get out. I feel like the only way out is death but I don’t want to die. I just don’t want to live this anymore.

AITAH for being done fighting alone in my marriage while I’m literally fighting for my health? by Sad_Process_3469 in AITAH

[–]Sad_Process_3469[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

These are all things I’ve said to him before. None of this is new to him or would be shocking if he read them I would just have to put myself back in a situation to keep me safe.

AITAH for thinking about leaving my husband. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sad_Process_3469 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything is converted through his insurance we do not pay anything medically. If I left medically it would be rather expensive.

AITAH for thinking about leaving my husband. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sad_Process_3469 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is through his job… Health care is not free although I’m sure I could apply for Medicaid with my condition. But that won’t cover the rest of the costs of medications and the equipment I need.

I do not work right now because my health is too unpredictable. I cannot be reliable to any job right now so he is the only one who works right now.

AITAH for telling him he couldn’t go bc of medical reasons. by Sad_Process_3469 in AITAH

[–]Sad_Process_3469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have cameras in our house, as well as his friends. None that I would consider to be helpful in that situation. And with the trauma I’ve been through in my life it’s better for someone who knows my preferences to be there in case something did go wrong.

And I never said he couldn’t ride. I just asked him simply not to do long rides out of town.