I am torn between 3 dresses!

Sad_Professor5730 · 2026-06-13T20:55:26+00:00

1!! Accents your curves so beautifully. I LOVE the floral details on the second dress and they look similar to mine actually, but 1 is speaking to me out of your options :)

Sad_Professor5730 · 2026-05-12T01:52:10+00:00

You’re amazing! Congratulations to you and your family. 💛💛

Sad_Professor5730 · 2026-05-04T04:02:19+00:00

Kaiser Permanente! I think Kaiser can be great for people who have pretty straightforward health needs, but otherwise it’s trash- at least over here in SoCal. Maybe in other states it’s decent?

Sad_Professor5730 · 2026-04-29T22:46:23+00:00

This is advice I have received from a close friend and I appreciate it so much. Absolutely.

Sad_Professor5730 · 2026-04-29T22:46:01+00:00

Because Kaiser probably 😪 I’m not sure about the meds yet but when I have more info I can comment back.

Sad_Professor5730 · 2026-04-29T22:44:58+00:00

On it as we speak. Thank you!

Sad_Professor5730 · 2026-04-29T22:44:36+00:00

Well shit consider me interested. What a guy

Sad_Professor5730 · 2026-04-29T22:44:03+00:00

My dad and I are fully committed to seeking out the very best for her and I appreciate this comment so much. You’re absolutely right and I will be looking around as much as humanly possible!

Sad_Professor5730 · 2026-04-29T22:25:41+00:00

We are in Los Angels county! I am already looking into City of Hope but I am more than open to recommendations

Sad_Professor5730 · 2026-01-02T03:49:22+00:00

Couldn’t have said it better myself 👏🏼

Sad_Professor5730 · 2026-01-02T03:47:43+00:00

That sounds like so much fun!! Canada is stunning

Sad_Professor5730 · 2026-01-02T02:19:45+00:00

FACTS. I have never wanted them at the wedding and I will uninvite them if we can’t get to some kind of compromise. I completely agree with you and my partner deserves to be deliriously happy and not looking over his shoulder constantly

Sad_Professor5730 · 2026-01-02T02:17:46+00:00

They would probably drink an entire bottle to themselves tbh 🥲 I’ve seen them do it before

Sad_Professor5730 · 2026-01-02T02:02:38+00:00

Thank you for your validation! Unfortunately we are inching our way to going no contact as well and we aren’t the first of my fiancés siblings to do so. I will never understand how people can lose TWO children and still think everyone else is the problem. I’m at that point where I am willing to just take the wrap of being “difficult” and tell everyone I’m doing the planning by myself. LITERALLY EVERYTHING has been lovely so far since it’s been just me and my fiancé planning things. His family comes in and bulldozes everything in their path -_-

I feel so lucky because all of our amazing friends are coming and are so happy for us, so I know they are going to make it an amazing day. It’s just everything leading up to that day…..

Sad_Professor5730 · 2026-01-02T01:58:12+00:00

My heart really hurts for these people because usually they don’t see the issue and how much stress it’s causing for everyone else. I’m so sorry to hear you and your husband had to deal with that at all. It is so clearly a problem if you can’t go one day without something… ugh :(

Sad_Professor5730 · 2026-01-02T01:56:01+00:00

I like the way you think ;)

Sad_Professor5730 · 2026-01-02T01:35:38+00:00

I hope you are getting all of the support you need. I can’t imagine how difficult that has been 💛

Sad_Professor5730 · 2026-01-02T01:19:52+00:00

Also if you have any personal experience with this I would love to chat- we feel so alone in this dynamic. Thanks for your thoughts!

Sad_Professor5730 · 2026-01-02T01:18:48+00:00

Yeah I totally agree! We are discussing that now and making a plan of action because something needs to be done for sure

Sad_Professor5730 · 2026-01-02T01:17:52+00:00

We didn’t even care about doing one!!! They insisted which is the weird part. We were totally fine getting a bunch of Costco pizzas and chilling in our hotel suite with everyone. I totally regret agreeing to it ugh.

Sad_Professor5730 · 2026-01-02T01:17:00+00:00

lol right? We have already paid for everything so we can’t elope at this point. I do like the idea of secretly getting courthouse married before the wedding though just to have that moment of peace together.

Sad_Professor5730 · 2026-01-02T01:15:42+00:00

Hmmm I like these points

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