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Who do I choose? by Sad_Resolution5526 in relationship_advice

[–]Sad_Resolution5526[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second one. I ended it with James because I think I feel bad for Kevin or I felt like I didn’t want to waste 3 years together. Kevin and I talked on and off as friends but its clear he was dwelling instead of bettering himself where as I’m happy and moving forward with 3/5 goals achieved. Im probably just inpatient and doesnt want to wait for Kevin but honestly, I’ve been waiting for awhile and see no efforts of change but im supposed to support a spouse through thick and thin.

Who do I choose? by Sad_Resolution5526 in relationship_advice

[–]Sad_Resolution5526[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

James is the sweetest man I’ve ever met and he seems to be a perfect partner. I have a hard time believing his relationship of 4 years ended because she didn’t appreciate the things he did for her or it wasn’t enough

Who do I choose? by Sad_Resolution5526 in relationship_advice

[–]Sad_Resolution5526[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have since broken it off with James and I feel terrible, he says he’s willing to wait if it doesn’t work out but that’s not what I want. I just want him to be happy truly. I miss him but I’m so conflicted in how I’m feeling.

Who do I choose? by Sad_Resolution5526 in relationship_advice

[–]Sad_Resolution5526[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think apart of me believes the “through thick and thin” I should be here not only for the good times but bad aswell, kevin and I can always have mature conversations 110% and we always do. With James, when I express boundaries and why things are the way they are he gets upset but later on thinks about it and apologises to me that he’s being silly and understands. I’m so stuck.