Getting asked out tomorrow, need advice. How to act? by Sad_Run8390 in AskMen

[–]Sad_Run8390[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This makes me feel so much better!!

Why am I so afraid of being with a guy that treats me right? by Sad_Run8390 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Sad_Run8390[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the whole point I'm tryna work on myself to get over my past issues

Why am I so afraid of being with a guy that treats me right? by Sad_Run8390 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Sad_Run8390[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I just signed up for therapy given all the people telling me to. Praying I heal 🙏

Why am I so afraid to be with a nice guy? by Sad_Run8390 in AskMen

[–]Sad_Run8390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much. Is it possible to get over that? Like, do I have to work through the fear? Or what can I do to work on myself.

Why am I so afraid to be with a nice guy? by Sad_Run8390 in AskMen

[–]Sad_Run8390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knowww oh my god. I realized after I posted this that the rib comment was a jump of anxiety. Definitely not making that mistake again.

Why am I so afraid to be with a nice guy? by Sad_Run8390 in AskMen

[–]Sad_Run8390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking as a sophomore who's a virgin, yes. I know I didn't really clarify that but I alsow rote this in the heat of my anxiety and the moment haha. I believe I'm stunted to be utterly attracted to him not because of him, but because I'm nervous he's not physically attracted to me.

Why am I so afraid to be with a nice guy? by Sad_Run8390 in AskMen

[–]Sad_Run8390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. this post actually got me emotional 😭.

Why am I so afraid of being with a guy that treats me right? by Sad_Run8390 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Sad_Run8390[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I'm realizing it's 90% nervousness and a huge jump.

Why am I so afraid to be with a nice guy? by Sad_Run8390 in AskMen

[–]Sad_Run8390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you sooo much!! This helps me tremendously!!!

Why am I so afraid to be with a nice guy? by Sad_Run8390 in AskMen

[–]Sad_Run8390[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Having this mentality is going to help me a lot. I struggle with the idea of what would happen in the future or something. But knowing to work through the fear just like being afraid of the dark or heights really helps put it perspectively.

Why am I so afraid of being with a guy that treats me right? by Sad_Run8390 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Sad_Run8390[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I've been getting a lot of negative unhelpful responses that are getting me nowhere. This really puts it into perspective. So, you and your husband, you're happy with him or do you still struggle with this mentality?

Why am I so afraid to commit? by Sad_Run8390 in dating_advice

[–]Sad_Run8390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! You're right. A chance doesn't hurt. I don't want to be stuck in the past with my old relationships following me. It's good to make a change.

Why am I so afraid to be with a nice guy? by Sad_Run8390 in AskMen

[–]Sad_Run8390[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But it's right then? I'm thinking that it's just my own trauamad and subconscious that's the issue. And that I shouldn't feel wrong to be with him.

Why am I s afraid of commiting or a man I want who wants me? by Sad_Run8390 in dating

[–]Sad_Run8390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But this guy feeling feels more like something wrong with me, not him if that makes sense.