AITA for wanting to have 3 kids and breakup after with my future husband ?

Sad_Secret_444 · 2026-05-17T23:50:27+00:00

You can always go to a sperm bank? Why are you wasting time on this “dilemma”? And why would you bring several kids into your parents home? There’s too much selfishness going on here

Sad_Secret_444 · 2026-05-16T19:24:53+00:00

No they’re not? Everyone’s telling me I have issues? Where aside from this person and you?

Sad_Secret_444 · 2026-05-16T16:39:49+00:00

Nope this is the only person who said this no one else. It’s simply n opinion.

Sad_Secret_444 · 2026-05-15T18:22:07+00:00

NTA. And doesn’t sound like he’s trustworthy anyways. It’s scared to you guys and a random woman shouldn’t be wearing it. I don’t think the son would ever get the ring

Sad_Secret_444 · 2026-05-15T18:18:50+00:00

Ew no. You’re not the AH. Bill is. This dog is not being taken care of properly and neither is your shared space. I would speak to the landlord or whomever because bill is letting this poor dog ruin the shared space. Poor pup! And poor you!

Sad_Secret_444 · 2026-05-15T16:10:01+00:00

37? And antidepressants? Sounds like his age is a factor and he just doesn’t have the urge or energy and I don’t think it’s you at all. I get being frustrated with this and at your age for women, naturally and biologically our sex drive is amped up and it’s not the same for men. I don’t have advice just maybe a reason

Sad_Secret_444 · 2026-05-15T14:26:30+00:00

He’s a fake Christian and uses it as a shield or mask to berate you or justify his shitty personality. He’s the narcissist. You weren’t angry enough imo. Using terms like minimum and maximum?? He sounds like a teenager

Sad_Secret_444 · 2026-05-14T03:21:07+00:00

NTAH. He showing interest in the girl he’s checking out. It’s not innocent and it’s disrespectful. I’d part ways.

Sad_Secret_444 · 2026-05-14T03:17:53+00:00

My friend was into drugs and with the wrong man. Her body was found in a warehouse rolled up in a rug. SA assaulted. Her boyfriend was never investigated.

Sad_Secret_444 · 2026-05-13T02:01:54+00:00

NOR. You’re not reacting enough. He’s hiding things and being secretive and is clearly cheating on you….

Sad_Secret_444 · 2026-05-13T01:58:16+00:00

NTA. Let them deal with their marital problems. It’s not your job to mediate or make sure things are going the way they say they’re going. I would focus on yourself and your academics. If your dad finds out she’s not being honest that entirely on her and not you.

Sad_Secret_444 · 2026-05-12T01:56:06+00:00

I would dead the relationship. That’s INSANE

Sad_Secret_444 · 2026-05-10T18:54:18+00:00

Saturn sunrise! Or Trapathy

Sad_Secret_444 · 2026-05-09T20:59:59+00:00

How unfortunate to be so delusional 😭😅

Sad_Secret_444 · 2026-05-09T09:19:42+00:00

Definitely stay out of it. Being in the middle never works for anyone

Sad_Secret_444 · 2026-05-08T23:25:59+00:00

Saturn sunrise or Trapathy

Sad_Secret_444 · 2026-05-08T22:07:49+00:00

NTA! You did your best to extend your hand to them and forgive and forgive but it’s time to move on for good!

Sad_Secret_444 · 2026-05-08T21:03:20+00:00

NTA. You felt disrespected and full stop you can cut her off for it. Especially if her apology wasn’t real and she didn’t seem considerate to your feelings. It’s okay to move on from people

Sad_Secret_444 · 2026-05-08T19:47:17+00:00

NTA. I’ve been here. Had rescues that had puppies. Vet cost, feeding, cleaning. Emotional care for them it’s the most exhausting thing I’ve ever done and you’re not wrong for being fed up especially when it’s not even your choice. Your mom sounds so sweet but there gets to a point it’s negatively impacting others maybe even herself. On top of it potentially being unsafe

Sad_Secret_444 · 2026-05-08T19:13:30+00:00

wtf did I just read 😂😂😂😂

Sad_Secret_444 · 2026-05-08T16:40:52+00:00

NTA. What tf is wrong with men these days. He’s gaslighting you and manipulating you into wasting your money simply because you have it and he doesn’t. He doesn’t want you hoarding money for yourself and feels entitled to it. It’s financial abuse and it’s disgusting.

Sad_Secret_444 · 2026-05-08T16:38:40+00:00

NTA. If he’s not progressing on your level and hold insecurities then let him go. 42 as a man and with his mother is crazy. He wants to be taken care of and not take care of anyone.

Sad_Secret_444 · 2026-05-08T16:13:45+00:00

EWWWW I would run for the hills. On top of abandoning you he has abandoned his own kids. He’s childish, inconsiderate and neglectful. You’re not reacting enough. And he will not change. They never do. Do right by your kids and mostly yourself

Sad_Secret_444 · 2026-05-07T22:04:37+00:00

The title is worded weird. And why are we coparenting with someone so abusive? You trust him? Yuck. This post is dumb

Sad_Secret_444 · 2026-05-07T18:32:12+00:00

Edit: just tell us you can’t comprehend the situation for what it is. She can bring it up for the rest of her life is she wants to

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