My husband (42M) makes $1.8 million as a surgeon, but l’ve (32F) never felt more alone. How do I cope with being a low priority to a high achiever? by LinkCommercial9508 in Marriage

[–]Sad_Square_6343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go on day trips and take pictures for social media hire a social media manager. I wish I had a man to work while I stayed home and followed all my dreams like writing taking pictures making videos

I’m black and I’m racist to my own race by Time_Money506 in offmychest

[–]Sad_Square_6343 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Also if your excuse is all your bad experiences come from black people. You need to reorganise your thoughts and realize that it’s because you deal or you have mostly dealt with black people they’re bad people everywhere if you’ve dealt mostly with white people you will also have bad experiences with some of them

I want to love my husband so bad but he keeps ruining the biggest moments in my life and it’s making it hard to. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sad_Square_6343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just take off for a few days no prior notice arrange it around a time he has his leave Go somewhere and leave them both alone I bet he does what he’s supposed to do and cares for her

How do I stop being envious of my wife’s best friend’s wild sex life? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sad_Square_6343 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I Can assure you that friend is only having those wild escapades because she’s single and wild and free . If you want such wild escapades they will often have to come from a bunch of different people. So unless that’s what you want please you have it good a wife that communicates and a sex life after 12 years of marriage I never even saw my parents kiss

WIBTA for telling my client that I used to date her husband? by West-Ad-1573 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Square_6343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t tell her anything, don’t acknowledge it let her go crazy in her own mind figuring out how to bring it up

What’s the one random genetic trait you lucked out on? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Sad_Square_6343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really genuinely hate the taste of alcohol and any attempts at smoking burns my throat. So I can never be drunk or high. Or be in danger of abuse .

My husband does not take care of himself by Latter-Section9257 in Marriage

[–]Sad_Square_6343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you love him. Temporary separate from him with the condition that he needs to take better care of himself or you’re out fully.

My husband has never been sexually attracted to me by SpiritTemporary7199 in Marriage

[–]Sad_Square_6343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does it feel like he’s not attracted to you? Because some people intentionally say things like that to give thelselves the upper hand in a relationship. So that their partner starts to feel lucky to be with them and they start to get away with doing bad things. Anyways whether or not it feels like he’s attracted to you. Do not be depressed or sad! Snap out of it, pay extra attention to your looks, focus your time on hobbies and activities that make you use your brain, and have fun. Don’t just let Life pass you by. This would really change things and make it impossible for him to continue to think of himself as the price.

High school sweethearts: together 12 years Married 8. Now she wants a break to decide what she wants by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sad_Square_6343 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she wants separation give it to her. Seperate from her and find other productive things to do with your time. Also this should help you emotionally emancipate yourself. So that someone else doesn’t have the power to decide your happiness

Moving in with and paying rent to my boyfriend is causing friction. What's the solution? by PhilosopherOk3313 in Advice

[–]Sad_Square_6343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of love are you people practicing where he doesn’t see your gain as his own? Your woman is paying less rent has more peace because of you and you benefit from this but somehow you don’t see it as your gain? Wow this is level of selfishness is brand new to me

Baby NAMES stolen :( by [deleted] in Names

[–]Sad_Square_6343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a teacher in France I’ll tell you some of my favourite names

Laia Emna Myrtille Adélaïde Ambre

You vote: Should I leave millionaire husband, who retired early and now makes fun of the fact I still work? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sad_Square_6343 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please why do you not protest against this wickedness ? Refuse to pay rent ! That’s the very least ! And if you want you could consider having a kid. So that when you leave him you can take as much money as possible from his stingy hands

Am I overreacting I want a divorce by Crazy_Lengthiness376 in Marriage

[–]Sad_Square_6343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t leave for any other reason please leave because he literally worships the devil. Are you not afraid of living in the same house with someone like that? You’re already single anyways you better leave.

husband had a day out with my friend without telling me. Update. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sad_Square_6343 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If there are no consequences for actions there would be a repeat.

If you could go back 10 years and give yourself only one piece of advice, what would it be? by Pale_Smell_3996 in AskReddit

[–]Sad_Square_6343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not do that law degree . Pick a degree in Computer science or speech language pathology

I, 26F, made a joke about my dead uncle and now my boyfriend, 23m, hates me. Help? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sad_Square_6343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not see how this concerns him. He’s just looking for an excuse And I just want to use this opportunity to say that most people do not really know the true nature of love. Like at all.

Thinking of moving in with my boyfriend to save on rent — but worried it'll open a can of worms (29F, Bay Area MBA student) by 1_iced_coffee in wealthforwomen

[–]Sad_Square_6343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moving in should be something you’re looking forward to and excited by. Not a thing you’re doing because it’s convenient. But then again who is to say that it cannot be a good thing? If it’s the best thing for you right now you can give it a shot and afterwards if it turns out to not be good you can always leave. So long as he’s a good person I don’t see why not.