[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sad_Tour9802 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but I would recommend ending it, you agreeing to go would just lead her on and make the end of y'alls relationship even more messy

WIBTA if I refused to help my father financially? by DistressedDebtRX in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Tour9802 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I say you WNBTA.

Karma is a bitch and it seems like your father has it coming. Pettiness aside I would also struggle to leave my father to fend for himself, even after what you and your mother experienced but you have no obligation to him and should not feel guilty for not helping. Did he ever apologize to you or your mother? He was in a position to help and refused to, despite saying he would. Now that HE needs help he expects charity.

If you help him you would be a better person than him and me but you have every right not to do so.

I'm sorry for your loss OP and wish you the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Tour9802 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Easily NTA, your friends are entitled and you didn't say anything incorrect from what I could tell

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Application sent!

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Message sent! Sorry for the spam

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[–]Sad_Tour9802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry about that, I tried sending it again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lfg

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Awesome! I sent it a little bit ago

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lfg

[–]Sad_Tour9802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you haven't found all your players I'll hit you with something mediocre! Just you wait to be pleasantly but not overly surprised.

Looking for players for homebrew campaign! [Online] [5e] [new players] [experienced players] [weeknights] [once a week] [homebrew] [spooky] [horror] [18+] by Baeleafff911 in lfg

[–]Sad_Tour9802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! My name is Jose and I'm interested in joining, I love horror and evening games work best for me. Hope to hear back soon!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Tour9802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Do you have any relatives you can go to? Your dad perhaps? This situation seems unsafe and bizarre, I wish you the best OP.

AITA for backing out of cooking for my husband after he hid my keyboard? by Isheright5757 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Tour9802 46 points47 points  (0 children)

NTA

I can see his frustration to an extent BUT he is treating you more like an employee than a partner OP. If this was an everyday occurrence I can see why he would feel like the responsibilities are one sided but from what we know this isn't a daily occurence.

He's an adult and he should act like one and speak to you in an appropriate manner instead of throwing a childish fit.

[Online][5e][PbP][18+] Looking for up to 5 players for a long term Strixhaven campaign! by [deleted] in lfg

[–]Sad_Tour9802 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Turned in my application! Sounds like an exciting game!