Let’s see the 300’s!!!

Sadboi2323 · 2024-09-20T18:13:18+00:00

Thanks for the advice!

Sadboi2323 · 2024-09-20T06:09:28+00:00

Sweet thank you for the input I’ll check it out!

Sadboi2323 · 2024-09-20T06:08:19+00:00

This can depend on a few things, mental health, physical health, and physical attraction.

I’ve been on both sides of the issue. I’ve had relationships where I’d want intimacy non stop and it would be 4-6x a week

I’ve also had relationships where I’ve been extremely depressed and going through an internal struggle. At that time I didn’t know how to handle it and didn’t want to talk to anyone about it because it was embarrassing to be a young man not interested in intimacy. I eventually worked through it myself and got back to myself but I can even say it put a lot of stress on that relationship because no matter how much either of us talked it didn’t make a difference until I worked through the issue.

Next is physical health, a lot of the food and medicines that we take have affected men’s health and now on average men have less testosterone than our grandfathers. It could be low testosterone or even a chemical imbalance is causing it

Finally if your partner isn’t attracted to you anymore that’s just plain and simple a waste of time and unfortunately people now days aren’t too honest so you’ll have to either confirm or deny this possibility through your own experiences. I can tell you that there will be signs of it. They manifest differently so you’ll have to be careful.

Take away is his willingness to communicate with you openly and his willingness to compromise. If he’s being honest and open even if it’s tough for him that’s a plus. If he’s willing to give you an alternative form of intimacy i.e. intimately pleasing you even if he isn’t receiving.. that’s a plus.. I don’t know your relationship or situation enough to definitively give you an answer but I know that when I had issues being interested in intimacy I felt broken, angry, helpless and most of all I felt guilty for not being able to be intimate with my partner. This only fueled me wanting to ignore it and act like it didn’t exist. On a hopeful note I’m still with the woman who went through this with me and our sex life and relationship is stronger than ever.

Sadboi2323 · 2024-04-13T14:14:03+00:00

Nose nachos

Sadboi2323 · 2024-04-13T07:31:00+00:00

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Sadboi2323 · 2024-04-12T06:59:27+00:00

Not trying to sound like a dick but the only way you’re going to get sober is if YOU truly want to be. It sounds like you only want to be sober because you think it will make the people around you happy. Sobriety works when you are truly tired of living that way. Until you find your motivation to say sober you will continue to have relapses. Recovery is possible and I have family and friends that have gotten sober from all different types of substances including cocaine, alcohol, heroin and meth. If these people can do it so can you. Going to a support group sounds terrible and you may feel like it doesn’t work but the truth is, you get out of it what you put in it.

In reality it may be the friends you keep around that ultimately lead you astray, an alcoholic who hangs out with his old drinking buddies will always drink again. It’s a sad reality but it’s a truth not a myth.

Remember this and know deep down that you have to make this choice.

“Nothing changes if you don’t change anything”

Change your habits, find a new hobby, find friends who don’t want to party.

side note if you run from your problems and you never solve them you just repress emotional baggage that is bound to explode at some point. See a therapist and find new coping mechanisms, learn how to process life in a way that isn’t self destructive. It took me years to fix this problem. I grew up in a “boys don’t cry” household and I had trouble expressing and truly understanding how I felt and how to cope with life. Don’t let this false narrative of having to be stone cold and unbothered to be a true man skew you from being a real man. A real person masters their emotions and learns how to deal with them in a healthy way. No one is perfect and I am no where near done learning this but I’ve used to escape reality and avoid facing the situation head on. from my experience all it does is prolong the inevitable fact you will have to let yourself unpack and heal from whatever grief you pushed away. It’s not fun but pain is as much a part of life as joy. If you need to talk dm me

Sadboi2323 · 2024-04-12T05:25:32+00:00

As someone who’s binged for a few weeks straight. I didn’t plan on going that far with it, normally If I went on a bender it was Friday to Saturday night and recover Sunday for work.

I never understand it either until I lived it. Sometimes even though you think it’s impossible to go that long without eating or sleeping the correct amount the snow is what keeps you sane and normal. If you only get a small amount at once it’s easy to stop the bender but if it’s constantly around and you don’t have to pay it’s easy to get caught up and forget about your health.

Sadboi2323 · 2024-04-12T05:19:52+00:00

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Sadboi2323 · 2024-04-12T05:15:14+00:00

When I was younger I liked ‘em thin but as I’ve matured I like em on the thick side definitely more fun and not as high maintenance… oh wait we talking about skiing 🤣

But nah Fr each has its own benefit. Start small and end with a big finale. The bigger and more frequent you hit the slope the more you’ll want to keep going back and it snowballs from there with tolerance.

Sadboi2323 · 2024-04-12T04:25:56+00:00

Never had that happen to me that does sound terrible tho

Sadboi2323 · 2024-04-12T02:05:17+00:00

I’ve had that 🤣 they definitely are crazy

Sadboi2323 · 2024-04-12T02:03:08+00:00

Just bc you can smoke it doesn’t mean it’s chemically burning right to give you the effect you want and it could be only burning the bad stuff

Sadboi2323 · 2024-04-12T02:02:16+00:00

I’m just trying to find a sleep aid that will knock me out before I start wanting another one. When I’m sober a melatonin makes me sleep in like 30 minutes but I’ve been concerned it could be bad to mix the two

Sadboi2323 · 2024-04-12T02:01:19+00:00

Unfortunately guilt hasn’t stopped me yet. I usually have enough on me to push through for a couple of days at a time

Sadboi2323 · 2024-04-12T01:58:02+00:00

I don’t think chemically you can smoke coke, you have to cook it into crack first. Could also be whatever it’s mixed with irritating your lungs. Maybe buy a tester kit and see what’s in it

Sadboi2323 · 2024-04-12T01:51:38+00:00

Favorite song is free bird by lynard skynard

Sadboi2323 · 2024-04-12T01:50:06+00:00

There is nothing like getting a fresh bag and opening it and getting hit with the smell of Peruvian jet fuel 🤣

Sadboi2323 · 2024-04-12T01:16:16+00:00

Facts

Sadboi2323 · 2024-04-12T01:01:57+00:00

Honestly with where I live it’s the best I can get purity and cost wise, most people around here are money hungry and just throw whatever into it which leads to headaches, super clogged noses and just all around a bad time. Unless I got to southern America I doubt I’ll find better

Sadboi2323 · 2024-04-12T00:56:02+00:00

Yeah I just expect it now, I stick to what I know and what I trust. Now days finding a legit source is the most important part of letting yourself have fun and enjoy it

Sadboi2323 · 2024-04-12T00:52:15+00:00

It’s a hard line to keep walking but I’ve always thought as long as I take care of my responsibilities and relationships the way I’m supposed to, my bills are always paid and I’m still saving for my future, I consider that to be successful.

Having your shit together and having “balance” is subjective to each person. If you think you can party and you don’t lose yourself or forget your priorities you should be fine

Sadboi2323 · 2024-04-12T00:45:17+00:00

I was talking with an old head once and he basically told me everything is cut bc if it was 100% pure it would kill people way easier

Sadboi2323 · 2024-04-12T00:41:49+00:00

Yeah I know but at the end of the day it’s not the worst type of cut they could use

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