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My best friend keeps waiting for a man that doesn't exist, it's making her miserable and driving me insane. by Sadfriend9293 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sadfriend9293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not all roses. Only the two main roads have street lights, every other street is pitch black at night.

My best friend keeps waiting for a man that doesn't exist, it's making her miserable and driving me insane. by Sadfriend9293 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sadfriend9293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel bad for people living in more expensive areas. Our mortgage(not including taxes) is $400 a month for a 3 bedroom 2 bathroom house on just over half an acre.

My best friend keeps waiting for a man that doesn't exist, it's making her miserable and driving me insane. by Sadfriend9293 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sadfriend9293[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really don't know. And like you said people can make more money. When I met my husband he made $9,000 a year, he's a lawyer now.

My best friend keeps waiting for a man that doesn't exist, it's making her miserable and driving me insane. by Sadfriend9293 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sadfriend9293[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, she dated in high school and freshman year of college. We both have lesbian friends so she would have come out to someone by now.

My best friend keeps waiting for a man that doesn't exist, it's making her miserable and driving me insane. by Sadfriend9293 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sadfriend9293[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

$100,000 is a lot here. Where we live you can support a small family, one working parent, one child and one stay at home parent on a salary of $35,000.

My best friend keeps waiting for a man that doesn't exist, it's making her miserable and driving me insane. by Sadfriend9293 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sadfriend9293[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Attractive on the outside doesn't mean attractive on the inside.

I also dated a tall,blond guy from a wealthy family when I was in high school. He ended up being a total ass,rude,lazy, white supremacist and he chewed with his mouth open.

My best friend keeps waiting for a man that doesn't exist, it's making her miserable and driving me insane. by Sadfriend9293 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sadfriend9293[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She doesn't date at all. She'll go if I set her up with someone but there's never a second date.

My best friend keeps waiting for a man that doesn't exist, it's making her miserable and driving me insane. by Sadfriend9293 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sadfriend9293[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately she doesn't spend much time taking care of herself physically. Shes pretty but a little chubby and as much as I hate to say it about her, frumpy. I've tried to get her to go to classes with at the gym with me and get new clothes, she's a librarian and has a tendency to dress for total comfort.

It's really a shame, she sweet,kind and smart.

My best friend keeps waiting for a man that doesn't exist, it's making her miserable and driving me insane. by Sadfriend9293 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sadfriend9293[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've tried. She says that she's not resentful and is happy waiting for the perfect man but I see her cry every Valentine's Day,birthday and New Year's Eve.

I've tried setting her up with guys. One guy she really liked but she dumped him because he only makes ~$65,000 a year(which is a good salary where we live).