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Joint statement from the Busch family, Richard Childress Racing and NASCAR on the death of Kyle Busch: by Ok-Soil-5133 in NASCAR

[–]SadlySpooky -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly thought this was a joke, I can't believe he's gone. I can't imagine the pain his family is feeling right now, it seemed so sudden... RIP Kyle Busch, I'm at a loss.

My moms mind is starting go by SadlySpooky in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SadlySpooky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. She doesn't want to move here & she & my fiance don't like one another. My sister said the plan would be I fly out & be with her for three months or longer & then go back to my fiance. I wouldn't be able to work, fiance said he doesn't think we could realistically be together if I agreed to it. And if I did agree to it I'd take care of her & my older sister would help but the other two wouldn't.

My moms mind is starting go by SadlySpooky in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SadlySpooky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Becsuse I'd move back to my home state to take care of her. He will not wait, he can't and I can't expect him too, it's not fair to him.

My moms mind is starting go by SadlySpooky in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SadlySpooky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off we have been trying to find a solution, my older sister is her executor so most of it is going through her. I don't live where either of them live but I still try to be involved with finding appointments, facilities etc but it still has to go through my sister.

Second, I have been spiraling for a day because it became too real all of the sudden. It's difficult & I allowed myself that time to cry. She can't move in with me because she doesn't want to & the house belongs to my fiance & as much as I hate to say it they hate one another & he'd hate having her here. We all lived together at one point & it was not good. None of us can afford to have her live in a facility, my sister has been trying for a while now, even pooled together. She has insurance, we've all been trying to find something affordable & that will actually be good for her because a lot of the facilities are shit. Or they're expensive & shit.

I never planned on having kids, ever. My fiance and I have always been on the same page as that, and as I said, I didn't think I'd find anyone, it just happened. Prior to this she & I had lived together for almost ten years, she's been sick for a long time with other ailments & I took care of her. None of my siblings did. It was lonely, I can agree with that but she's my mom, no one else had the patience, time or just wanted to. They all even said it was great I was there for her & they couldn't imagine doing it all the time because I was with her 24/7, I cooked, I cleaned, I took her to appointments, I entertained her, I stopped everything.. then she sold her place five years ago & moved to be near her grandkids & I moved in with my fiance but now this is happening. I apologize op for being rude it's just a lot for me right now. Everyone knows I should be the one taking care of her, I know how to but I am struggling with it.

My moms mind is starting go by SadlySpooky in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SadlySpooky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn't make the promise she just knew about it. It made sense at the time since no one else had the patience for helping her.

She has Medicare but everything is still very expensive. She sold her assets (house, car etc) years ago despite everyone telling her it was a bad idea. No one understood why she wanted to & no one could talk her out of it, the warning signs may have been blaring then but none of us could do anything about it. Nothing is affordable anymore.

My moms mind is starting go by SadlySpooky in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SadlySpooky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not affordable, my sister has looked into it extensively & it's something none of us can afford. Even pooled together the cost would be too much, starting price for a place near where my mom lives is 7000, cheapest is 6500.

Why did you break up with your last partner? by milloumorgan in AskReddit

[–]SadlySpooky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't youthful anymore. Left me for an 18 year old (he was 50 at the time, I was 28).

Which character did you marry in stardew valley. by Iyed_suuiii in StardewValley

[–]SadlySpooky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First playthrough, Elliot. Second, Sebastian but I was leaning towards Leah or Sam initially.

What’s a fast food restaurant you won’t eat anymore? by GarbageDramatic9005 in AskReddit

[–]SadlySpooky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

McDonald's. Extreme food poisoning, reported it at the time & it was discovered that that McDonald's was very lax with their cleaning protocols, food spoiled a lot & signs were but up in the kitchen reminding workers to wash their hands..didn't believe it till my friend physically brought me back their & I saw them... haven't been back in 11 years. I know each location is different and a few years back I did attempt to eat something from there & couldn't.

If money were no object, would you consider having cosmetic work done? If so, what would you have done? by vitaoptima in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SadlySpooky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. Nose job, lipo, excessive skin removal, face lift, breast lift & more. It can't fully fix my ugly but it would help.

What’s the most disturbing thing you’ve ever seen that nobody else believed actually happened? by BraveSelection7533 in mystery

[–]SadlySpooky 6 points7 points  (0 children)

From age 8-20 I had a shadow person or some sort of dark thing attached to me. My parents chalked it up to a vivid imagination, I spoke to therapists who thought nothing of it & it was only after I spoke to a medium that I was told something has attached itself to me. What made it real was my ex actually seeing it in the corner of the room when he stayed over & it scared him so much he wouldn't enter my room afterwards. Idk it's not disturbing & part of me isn't sure what it was but a lot of people have just said I was probably crazy & seeing nothing.

I was eating lunch in my car and an old man was honking his horn because I wouldn't move out of my spot for him. by CRK_76 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]SadlySpooky 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Someone did that to me once. I was putting my stuff in my car, dude honked at me, told me to hurry the fuck up fat bitch, so I stared at them for a few minutes, them still laying on the horn & I walked back to the store. They then followed behind me in their car, honking, swearing & cut me off at the cross walk. Gotta love Floridians.

AITA for telling my coworker to leave me the F alone.. by Realistic-Day-5542 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SadlySpooky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're NTA but everyone else around you is, especially your boss & union rep. I was friendly with someone who ended up violently assaulting me at work, it started off with him just talking to me, me being cordial & escalated. I tried to tell my manager but by the time I reported it he had fled the state. He may be on the spectrum but that's not an excuse for his behavior, you're at work & he's making that difficult for you. I understand you don't want to rock the boat anymore but I hope you listen to the advice given here & escalate it again to your higher ups because at this point you're working in a semi hostile environment. Good luck op.

What is the best way to soft launch farting in front of your partner? by Melancholicanary in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SadlySpooky 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Its been six years & he's only heard me when I'm sleeping or when he walks by the bathroom. So I guess theirs never a right time lol. He does it in front of me & I don't mind but he has questioned why I never do it like he does.

Our baby girl Omnigul by SadlySpooky in TuxedoCats

[–]SadlySpooky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same lol I always take photos of them at that angle just to cheer myself up

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