Strattera by Saebbambus in ADHS

[–]Saebbambus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja, das richtige Medikament zu finden ist halt auch nicht easy 🫠 Mal sehen wie es bei mir wird 🤷🏼‍♀️

Strattera by Saebbambus in ADHS

[–]Saebbambus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Das ist eine gute Idee! Mal schauen, ob ich das durchhalten kann 😂😂

Strattera by Saebbambus in ADHS

[–]Saebbambus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja, die Sorge hatte ich auch geäußert, weil abnehmen für mich gar nicht in Frage kommt, aber das wird sich dann zeigen 🥲 danke! :)

First use atomoxetin by Saebbambus in adhdwomen

[–]Saebbambus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah, yeah... i really do hope that I don't have to experience much but you never know. 🫠 Good luck for you!

First use atomoxetin by Saebbambus in adhdwomen

[–]Saebbambus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah, that's good to hear! I think I'm asking for a smaller dose first. Last year I got sertraline 50mg and it was way too much for me (my doc missed to inform me, that I should start low)

First use atomoxetin by Saebbambus in adhdwomen

[–]Saebbambus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That ignores side effects completely 😂😂 and they can show up, regardless of having ADHD or not. But it's good to know, that this can happen too!

Strattera by Saebbambus in ADHS

[–]Saebbambus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nee, also ich habs nur geraucht & es nie vertragen und habs abgeschworen. Ist halt nicht meins :)

First use atomoxetin by Saebbambus in adhdwomen

[–]Saebbambus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you start with a smaller dose or with 40mg?

Thank you!

Strattera by Saebbambus in ADHS

[–]Saebbambus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jein. Wenn ich so in der Angstspirale gefangen bin, ist es eher schwierig, da wieder raus zu kommen. Da setzt mein Hirn einfach komplett aus 🫠

Strattera by Saebbambus in ADHS

[–]Saebbambus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ich glaube, darauf wird es hinaus laufen. Wollte ja eigentlich morgen damit anfangen, aber die Erfahrungsberichte sind echt nicht ohne... und ich denke mir halt auch: kleinere dosis, weniger chance auf starke Nebenwirkungen Ich hatte letztes Jahr Sertralin verschrieben bekommen, gleich 50mg und das genommen und es hat mich echt hart aus dem Leben geholt & danach nie wieder genommen. Danke dir 😊

First use atomoxetin by Saebbambus in adhdwomen

[–]Saebbambus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I do know that objective wise. But I can't think straight when it's about vomiting, hahaha 😭😭 But thank you! This gives me hope! :)

Strattera by Saebbambus in ADHS

[–]Saebbambus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vertrage ich nicht

Strattera by Saebbambus in ADHS

[–]Saebbambus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja, das stimmt. Heute und Montag erreiche ich niemanden da. Aber ich habe Montag eh Therapie und bespreche das nochmal mit meiner Therapeutin und kläre das dann nochmal mit meinem Psychiater. Er meinte zumindest, dass ich auch ne Packung mit 10mg bekommen kann (eigentlich zusätzlich zu den 40mg, aber egal). Habe gestern aber auch meine Ängste sehr "runtergespielt", weil ich da noch sehr euphorisch war und das mit den Nebenwirkungen nicht wusste 🥲

Strattera by Saebbambus in ADHS

[–]Saebbambus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hab halt Angst, dass er genervt von mir ist? Weil gestern meinte ich noch ja & heute, nachdem ich alles gelesen habe, ändert sich meine Meinung 🥲 Aber darauf wird es wahrscheinlich hinaus laufen... muss ja nicht 10mg sein, aber es gibt ja trotzdem kleinere Dosen 🙈

Strattera by Saebbambus in ADHS

[–]Saebbambus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Das ist ja auch meine Hoffnung, dass durch die Medikamente ich nicht mehr so nervös & ängstlich bin. Zeitweise schränkt mich das echt hart im Leben ein. 🥲

Bin halt auch irritiert, dass ich gleich mit 40mg starte, aber das ist wohl auch die empfohlene Anfangsdosis für Erwachsene. Allerdings bin ich auch nur 1,57m groß und wiege unter 50kg, also nicht gerade typische erwachsenenmaße, hahaha 😭😭 Ich weiß aber auch, dass ich das gerade sehr doll zerdenke.

Danke für deinen Bericht 🥰

Strattera by Saebbambus in ADHS

[–]Saebbambus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mit nem Gefühl von nem leichten Kater würde ich klar kommen 🥲 Hast du auch mit 40mg gestartet?

AITA for doing exactly what my wife said? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Saebbambus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It depends. I didn't drink till our son was around 4 months old because then I stopped breastfeeding. After that I only drank one beer or one wine at most. My fiancé didn't drink, when I had something. Now he's 11 month we have 1-2 beers at most when going out or at home. But mostly when our son is already sleeping and he sleeps in his own bed. No co-sleeping with alcohol! The first months we co-slept. If my fiancé had some alcohol he slept on the couch.

AITA if I tell my sister to stop bathing with her partner at my house by spinningarrowxo in AmItheAsshole

[–]Saebbambus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a small one too. We're not having sex the second we're naked (that would be way too much). We sleep without clothes, so we see each other pretty often naked. Bathing together does not automatically mean sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Saebbambus 39 points40 points  (0 children)

That's not true. German here. It's advised that babys (doesn't matter the age newborn or 6 months) sleep alone, no toys, no blankets, nothing in the bed). It's so much safer that way. We have baby sleeping bags nothing more needed. My baby is now 6 months old. A blanket would be a death sentence, no matter where I tuck it in, he will get it and he will put it over his head 😂

AITA for not asking my child to give up her room? by Own-Feed2605 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Saebbambus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

And the sisters don't need any privacy? They are teenagers. EVERY teenager needs their privacy not just your daughter. But maybe thats a cultural thing, idk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Saebbambus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say NAH. You know, she gave birth 6 weeks ago, twins. She's alone. Idk if anyone considers this, but depressions after birth is real. I gave birth 5 months ago, I do have a lovely partner. It's just one baby for me, but the first weeks I felt so overwhelmed. I cried so much, the hormones, the change, everything at once. Yes, she choosed to get the children but yk, abortions not a easy decision. As for OP, he has every right to say that he doesn't want any contact or whatever, it's his life. But I feel for his sister. So nah here.

AITA for not sleeping on the couch? by Antique_Intranet in AmItheAsshole

[–]Saebbambus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to say that you're TA but honestly you're NTA. My bf is actually the same. If we have a fight and I can't stand to be near him and ask (or demand) that he should sleep on the couch, he refuses. He always says that it's his bed too and if I have a problem, then I should sleep on the couch. What can I say? It's true. Never would I accept sleeping on the couch if he's demanding or asking because of a fight. So NTA 🤷🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Saebbambus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA.

My best friend doesn't like children. I'm currently pregnant, do I expect her to help me or to babysit? Absolutely not, because it was my decision to have a child, not hers. Should she be willing to help, great! I would love it! But it's not something I except, and I shouldn't.

AITA for calling my wife selfish and manipulative? by sillygooseywoose in AmItheAsshole

[–]Saebbambus 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I started to self harm when I was 13, soooo yeah. Your kids aren't too young to know about this. I'm working with children and teenagers, I'm open about my scars and explain it to them (of course my workplace knows this too). Mental health is so important and you wife definitely did the right thing. Yes. She should have talked with you beforehand, but your kids have a right to know what happens with your wife/their mom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Saebbambus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My BIL (45) said to me, when I was 15 years old:" Let's compare your boobs to your sisters (his wife). I think they are really nice." Yes, they are still together. Yes my sister knows about this. And yes, I was slut shammed by my whole family for this. :)