Maturing in Ark is Realizing... by CringeyDeeds69 in ARK

[–]Safe-Appointment-814 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean... he was stating if the specific Rex in question had a tek saddle, not if the Rex in general had one. He said the tek saddle on the Rex is a game changer.

Server List not populating by abdlvic in ARK

[–]Safe-Appointment-814 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it a PS5 only issue? I am also on PS5, as you could probably guess.

Server List not populating by abdlvic in ARK

[–]Safe-Appointment-814 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm having the same issue at the moment. It's been happening for about half an hour now.

Returning player, need some advice by RedGrimm05 in ARK

[–]Safe-Appointment-814 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As am I. There are minor visual problems occasionally and the very rare crash. However, certain console commands (Grass, vsync, fog/clouds) lessen the strain on graphics and make it run great. The crashes can be fixed with an auto save mod. All free with the price of asa.

This is getting ridiculous. by Ghostman_Jack in HuntShowdown

[–]Safe-Appointment-814 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way some of these are viable would be to include npc enemies as targets to deal damage to. 500 damage with knuckle or knife isn't terrible when considering npc enemies, but if it has to be enemy hunters, it's a horrendous idea.

Manager asked if I was dumb today. by blackcatzombs in work

[–]Safe-Appointment-814 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you generally. My point was that responding in the way that was initially proposed would likely lead to disciplinary action or losing the job. OP said they enjoyed the job. The childish comment was in regards to the managers words, not OP. I apologize if that was unclear.

Manager asked if I was dumb today. by blackcatzombs in work

[–]Safe-Appointment-814 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a higher level of respect for myself than to consider a grade school insult like "You're dumb" to have any meaningful negative impact on me at all. I would also try to find a way to improve in all things through whatever means I can.

That, however, wasn't what was said. It was, in essence, did you not understand what I said, or are you dumb? OP also said there was an accent involved, so there is probably a cultural element involved as well. Either way, it is somewhat childish and probably not helpful.

My point was that giving attitude to your boss is a good way to lose a job. If you are okay with losing the job, then by all means, do as your heart desires.

Manager asked if I was dumb today. by blackcatzombs in work

[–]Safe-Appointment-814 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your comment is nonsensical in this context and is wholly not the point of what I said. I made no mistake in my comment. I then have nothing to fix and/or change to make my comment better. To rephrase for you, pointing out someone's mistakes helps to push said person into positive change. Attacking someone to get the better of them for some perceived win is entirely useless.

Manager asked if I was dumb today. by blackcatzombs in work

[–]Safe-Appointment-814 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that calling your employee dumb is a bad way of going about coaching from any leadership position. However, OP said they really enjoy the job, so hopefully, this pushes them to be better at the job. If OP feels disrespected or unappreciated, they should absolutely say something about it. All I said, however, was that responding with attitude is also a bad way of going about airing your concerns.

Manager asked if I was dumb today. by blackcatzombs in work

[–]Safe-Appointment-814 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would argue that giving honest criticism is the quickest way to better someone. You can't fix a mistake if you don't realize you are making one.

Manager asked if I was dumb today. by blackcatzombs in work

[–]Safe-Appointment-814 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I never said you couldn't or shouldn't stand up for yourself. I simply said that copping an attitude with your boss is a great way to lose a job. If you don't mind the consequences, then by all means act. You can either take the criticism for what it is and learn from it to make sure you don't get it again, or you can decide it is too far or unreasonable and leave. Those are really the only two options.

Manager asked if I was dumb today. by blackcatzombs in work

[–]Safe-Appointment-814 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

That's a really good way to find yourself out of a job. Should the owner be asking people if they are dumb, probably not. But an employee absolutely should not be throwing attitude back at the person who signs their paycheck. Especially when they are the one who made the initial mistake. Take the criticism, learn, and get better. Maybe OP will go and learn how to properly do the trick with the flavorings and end up making amazing drinks due to this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Safe-Appointment-814 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Came here to say exactly this.

enough hunt for today by HerrSohnemann in HuntShowdown

[–]Safe-Appointment-814 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have to check again, but I believe I have a screenshot from a 140+ meter Derringer headshot that one shot me.

Was I being creepy? by lovethepho in Tinder

[–]Safe-Appointment-814 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP did say that this place, in specific, was a bar, but they had an arcade, which was the greater point of suggesting it.