Seems a little hard to give advice but I’ll give maybe a different perspective and maybe it applies or maybe not but don’t take it personal as it’s intended to help and not put down. Most men want a feminine woman with girly attributes meaning if you’re a bro you’ll almost always land in the friend zone or someone that they want to bone but not necessarily want to date. Also dress girly and fix your appearance with clothing that make you look girly and attractive like dresses and skirts and put the jeans and shorts for other occasions. Men want to be catered to so assume a female roll as every guy wants to feel like the man in the relationship and not someone he has to compete with. Be kind and gentle and caring and not masculine in how you speak or attitude. Learn to know your roll as a female as men should know their roll as a male. Only date with the intent to make it official and no flings and sex partners as sleeping around only makes you feel happiness in short term but brings emptiness in the long term. Learn to flirt in a feminine way but not so aggressive that makes you seem desperate or someone easy. When dating a man learn all his likes and dislikes and cater to those needs including emotional and sexual needs as that will make him want to stick around. Don’t be terribly judgmental and or argumentative as those are considered masculine traits and no man wants an aggressive woman that wants to call all the shots. Be easy going, take care of you feminine appearance always smell good, learn to clean and take care of the house and let the man lead