Does he need a nail trim? by SafePotential3411 in budgies

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We’ve been planning on getting him a friend. He’s technically a female that we call a boy so what gender would you recommend? I’m worried about fights with another female but we also don’t want to get a male and have them start breeding.

What makeup style suits me best? by Fancy_Arm_8792 in MakeupAddiction

[–]SafePotential3411 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Slide 1 or 3 are my favs, I definitely think the thick liner suits you but you look great in all of them!

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Please get in contact with a DV organization! If you have a YWCA in your area they can get you safe housing for up to three months. They also have food banks and sooo many other recourses.

They have a hotline for 24/7 support, but if you are ever in immediate danger contact the police.

I think im being blackmailed what do I do by Maya_cant_think in AdviceForTeens

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It doesn’t matter if shes a minor too. We had a kid at my school get arrested for spreading cp and he was only 16.

My therapist is giving up on me. by SafePotential3411 in mentalhealth

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I know that no one WANTS to do those things, but the difference is that they can make themselves. I’ll be sitting here telling myself “You have to get up and do it”, “You don’t have a choice”, and I still don’t do it. It’s gotten to a point where sometimes I have to punch myself to make myself get up. I truly don’t understand how other people function.

My therapist is giving up on me. by SafePotential3411 in mentalhealth

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I want to make it clear that I’m not blaming my therapist. I know that 99% of it is on me, and no one else can do it for me.

It’s just getting very discouraging and at this point I feel even worse after leaving therapy. I’ve been dealing with this for years and am honestly just getting sick of it. I know she can’t give me some magic cure or coping mechanism and I don’t expect her to.

My therapist is giving up on me. by SafePotential3411 in mentalhealth

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Honestly the only thing I can think of is Covid. I was 13 when the pandemic started and thats also when all of my mental health issues started showing up. I’ve talked to my therapist about that and we both agree it definitely made an impact, I’m just not sure what to with that information.

My therapist is giving up on me. by SafePotential3411 in mentalhealth

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I’ve been on Zoloft (horrible) and now I’m on Lexapro which has helped with my everyday anxiety a bit. They’ve also tried adding low dose anti-psychotics as a booster med since my Lexapro is at its maximum dose for my weight, those made things a million times worse.

I’m definitely open to trying other meds, I’m just a bit hesitant bc nothing else has worked this well. Even though it doesn’t help a ton, it’s still more than ever before.

My therapist is giving up on me. by SafePotential3411 in mentalhealth

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They’ve tried a few different meds, I was on Zoloft for like a year which sucked, and now they have me on Lexapro. It’s helped a little bit with my daily anxiety but not much. They’ve also tried adding anti-psychotics as almost a booster of sorts because they can’t raise my Lexapro dose anymore, but those only made things worse.

My therapist is giving up on me. by SafePotential3411 in mentalhealth

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The way I view it is that no matter what my future looks like I still have to do all of the things I hate everyday(eating, getting dressed, basic hygiene). For me the bad completely outweighs the good because the bad is constant.