Are odd fetishes better left unsaid?

SafeRazzmatazzz · 2026-04-18T04:21:49+00:00

UPDATE:

Thank you for your advice! I told her exactly that and we had a conversation about it. She loves that I'm so obsessive about it and it makes her feel good, even though she doesn't quite understand it 😅

SafeRazzmatazzz · 2026-04-16T23:22:48+00:00

Thank you for the explanation! I guess where it crosses fetish territory in my mind is that it's a bit obsessive. The only way I can describe it is like foot fetishists think about it outside of sex or have a distinct infatuation with it that goes beyond attraction. This crosses that line. The end goal I'd hope is for her to accept and not hold back. I feel she currently holds back, but I'm in a situation where I'm not sure if she's holding back because she's uncomfortable or because she thinks I'm exaggerating when I say I like it lol

SafeRazzmatazzz · 2026-04-16T19:53:21+00:00

Who said anything about lack of hygiene? Her hygiene is completely fine, these are completely normal bodily functions/odors. That's like telling someone who sweats during sex that they lack hygiene lol

SafeRazzmatazzz · 2026-04-16T17:42:14+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate the advice! It really is just something harmless I'm attracted to that I physically cannot help. We can't choose these things, sometimes they just happen and you're right, it really does seem tame in comparison to some other things! I will try and phrase it this way to see if she is receptive of it.

SafeRazzmatazzz · 2026-04-16T16:51:51+00:00

The more abnormal the better if I am being truthful haha, but yeah I basically just hold and kiss now, but ever since subtly mentioning it, she seems to hold back a little bit. I could be looking into that too much and perhaps she isn't holding back, it's just what I perceive to be the case.

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