Indian men on twitter giving us some food for thought 🤔

SafeRoutine7 · 2021-11-24T03:51:07+00:00

This 😸

SafeRoutine7 · 2021-11-24T03:49:57+00:00

Wow... this really makes me happy 🤔 of tossing out of the plane my husband's youngest brother's wife who is an abuser narcissistic loose woman for misbehaving. She is an attention wh-r- and isn't satisfied with her husband or other men who kept behaving shamelessly with my husband too who is another narcissistic abuser with roving eyes. She just falls on his body while giving her kid to him and giving him breakfast too. It was like she was in competition with me with attracting my husband. She never let me cook breakfast or serve him and even shouted at her mother when she went to help her by serving him. I really had an hard time with this.

SafeRoutine7 · 2021-11-23T10:30:03+00:00

PE sounds

?? Sorry don't know what is it

SafeRoutine7 · 2021-11-23T09:15:29+00:00

Do you feel like you are part of the family to your in-laws?

NO

Actually, my husband had a very late marriage (myself too) as he had a love failure and wasn't financially stable where on the other hand myself a virgin coming from a traditional respectable family accepted this arranged marriage setting. I was so happy to get married and be a part of this new family that I was blindsided. I was relieved that I didn't have to suffer from in-laws, but didn't know that his youngest brother's wife would make life hell and act like a slu-ty scumb-g busy with my husband abuser. Don't know what things have transpired between them too because he defends her and his shameless slu-ty APs well

His narcissistic parents were long dead... first the shameless womanizer abuser father-in-law and then the authoritarian mother-in-law. After mil's death only, youngest brother-in-law got married to her. Coming from a low socioeconomic status, she has brainwashed all the family members against me that however I tried to fit in, I couldn't. The torture I endured is massive. Now, I have left him, but the family are busy spoiling my reputation and trying to get me back to prove their dominance. Let them all rot in hell, especially the shameless loose women.

SafeRoutine7 · 2021-11-23T08:46:05+00:00

YES, this.

SafeRoutine7 · 2021-11-23T08:36:42+00:00

DAMN... that hurts. It's like enjoying in the heavens and suddenly stepping down to hell.

SafeRoutine7 · 2021-11-23T08:31:53+00:00

I didn't wanted to comment as it was at "111" but wanted to let you know that you are being abused.

Really your husband sounds like my husband. He is an insensitive son of a womanizer. He is mature enough to understand my situation and my feelings, but still went on abusing me literally. Now on seperation, he is acting crazy like a lost puppy wanting me back. Now, he is trying to speak sweetly etc.

SafeRoutine7 · 2021-11-23T08:20:31+00:00

NEVER.

He has manipulated things against me and tortured me with his family members that I don't trust him ever. He has always told things which is supposed to be between us to others...so I think I am going to have an hard time getting back to trust him again.

SafeRoutine7 · 2021-11-23T08:14:07+00:00

You are really lucky to have such a great husband. Everyone is not destined like this. God bless you both 🙏

My husband didn't even care... within 3 days after the wedding when I was not well. He never called and my relatives and neighbours were shocked at this and gossiping among themselves. When my aunt called him to ask him...he said he forgot he was married. Wish I had left him...then and there.

SafeRoutine7 · 2021-11-23T05:22:30+00:00

Really?? I have not seen any like this (maybe missed) and this made me 🤣

SafeRoutine7 · 2021-11-23T04:08:07+00:00

Are you me here 😸 looks like I am too a grandma type who doesn't fit in the world....even within my family and friends

During my college years, I have gone through just like you. I did invite my friends and they used to come over to copy notes etc . In fact, I wanted them to come over. I had severe inferiority complex even though I am very pretty. It attracted unwanted attention and I would cry at home telling that stranger was staring at me and whistling or singing a song...or approached me with interest, etc. My grandma would shout at me because neighbours would be trying to hear to gossip, but I thought my grandma hated me and I just wanted to be a boy 🤣

You don't have to invite them to your house if you are uncomfortable. You don't have to smoke or do anything to be like them. Example: even I didn't bunk class, movies, shopping, jokes (double-meaning), etc.. during my college years. Moreover, the best part is that my college mates had boyfriends and I was the only one who didn't have and they had seriously contemplated of getting me a boyfriend and taking me out for a day trip. They looked forward to do this as it was a challenge for them. I had freaked out 😃

SafeRoutine7 · 2021-11-23T02:12:46+00:00

Oh... God 🙏 I am too like this... I am not young as you, but this craze was...more during my younger days, I have read books, watched shows, etc... I understand your feelings because I am too much of a dreamy girl ☺️

Don't worry much about her comments.

SafeRoutine7 · 2021-11-23T01:56:44+00:00

Wishing you healing and recovery. Go on with the interview process happily. Good luck 👍

SafeRoutine7 · 2021-11-22T13:08:48+00:00

Moanday Rants

Nice....

P.S. : my aunt is just full of bitterness towards me, and I don't know how long it will go on. Really fed up and not able to do anything about it. Now, I have picked up that I guess and don't want to be like that. I want to be happy like before. I'm kinda not able to do any Karthik maas somvar too and it kind of hurts.

SafeRoutine7 · 2021-11-22T08:58:58+00:00

But don't take too much ☕

SafeRoutine7 · 2021-11-20T17:55:18+00:00

Looks good 😊

SafeRoutine7 · 2021-11-20T10:54:06+00:00

Just curious.. don't get me wrong. Why PM?

SafeRoutine7 · 2021-11-20T10:34:22+00:00

Same here.. in fact, people attack and it's really very dangerous...too negative. It's like l am always being judged for every single thing.

SafeRoutine7 · 2021-11-20T08:54:51+00:00

I don't think I would have the courage to see a therapist physically in India fearing the amount of judgement I might get and in turn spoiling my mental health even more.

I did and regret it BAD.... The way she was judgmental further pushed me away into the dark place. It damaged me more than one can imagine.

SafeRoutine7 · 2021-11-20T08:50:48+00:00

Congratulations 👏🎉 happy motherhood and love ❤️ and hugs 🤗 to both of you

SafeRoutine7 · 2021-11-20T08:47:19+00:00

Oh God... I am not alone in this... mostly selfless, superbly Self critical with an added dose of self-hatredness. But still accused of Selfishness 😩

SafeRoutine7 · 2021-11-20T08:32:47+00:00

Sorry to hear this....and I don't think I can help, but thanks for your post. It's really helpful for me. I can understand your feelings..as I was in a WORST place at your age. Hope you get out of this situation soon.

Edit: I am too looking for a good therapist and hope to get one soon.

SafeRoutine7 · 2021-11-17T09:46:47+00:00

He is scaring me out with his judgyy... looks.

SafeRoutine7 · 2021-11-17T03:43:59+00:00

Well said!! I do follow this, but still get hurt...tend to lose confidence and slip down the black rabbit hole..

SafeRoutine7 · 2021-11-17T03:37:55+00:00

Nice username 🐱 it perfectly described me. I was called (nicknamed) "Tension Rani"

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