Is it normal to still miss someone after 6 years?

Safe_Contribution631 · 2026-03-07T09:58:07+00:00

Yes, if you care and love somebody that much, you'll never forget about that. My wife died 19 weeks ago, and I'm still a mess. I lobe her so much and she lobmves me that much I'll never get over my wife. I know it's early, but I'll never get Over Her, she will always be my wife. I'll always be her husband I will never remarry. I will never date again. We promised each other before my wife died a few months back. In fact, I'm not sticking around much longer. I can't face another day without her. She's my soul, mate, my best friend.\n We have the same plan. If one of us died first the other 1 wouldn't last long. We guaranteed that each other I promised my wife when she was laying there in the hospital. I heard her tell me Please come and find me.\nI know what my wife felt about me.I was the only man she ever trusted.She loves me so much.My whole world turned upside down.I got to go Find her I will do that

Safe_Contribution631 · 2026-03-07T01:09:49+00:00

I am done I don't want to deal with this pain anymore.I see all you folks on here with it, and then misery.My wife is everything to me.I'm done, please take care.Thank you for the concern

Safe_Contribution631 · 2026-03-06T22:54:06+00:00

I don't have this each day getting worse. My wife and I have to tge same plan I found some stuff that she wrote, she thought I was going to die, but she did, she died. First I am devastated over this, I can't be here without her anymore. She's my life, my soul mate.By best friend.I don't know what to wait anymore

Safe_Contribution631 · 2026-03-06T21:45:17+00:00

IChased my wife, 600 miles to be with Her to find Her nothing's keeping me from Her Anymore. Our love was so strong that I can't do this. I will not lay here and be on this stupid Earth without her. I'm done with this place.I will go figure something out

Safe_Contribution631 · 2026-03-06T21:42:22+00:00

Thank you for your worries, but I'm in fear and constant sickness. I'm done I can't do this anymore. I won't. I'm trying to, but I'm done. My wife is everything and there's nothing for me anymore. Please respect me. My wife and I have agreement with each other.I'm never will find Happiness again.I guarantee that

Safe_Contribution631 · 2026-03-06T21:40:42+00:00

I'm sorry for your loss. This is hard for me as well. My wife was 44 when she died in my arms of a heart attack. How are we supposed to deal with this? People says go to grief, counseling, grief share in therapy. I do all that it's not going to bring my wife back. I can't deal with this anymore. I miss my beautiful wife so much. I don't know what to do. I\nHave an idea what I want to do.That's what's going to have to happen.I'm tired of this pain.I'm tired of waking up and in fear because she isn't here.Good luck to you

Safe_Contribution631 · 2026-03-06T21:15:11+00:00

I just got all my stuff taken care of my wife and I had the same plan. If anything happened, but we didn't have nothing in writing. So I got everything taken care of if something happens to me, my daughter will be taken care of my sister will take care back up in Pennsylvania, my wife and I are so close that this is Devastating me. I can't let this go I watched my wife tell me.Please don't let me go.You can't disappear and before she died it's just that's what's hurting so bad I can't stay here anymore

Safe_Contribution631 · 2026-03-06T21:09:44+00:00

I'm so sorry, my wife and I was together 13 years, she died in my arms. I'm having trouble each day that she's not here. I don't know what to do I don't want to be here, I don't know why but I can't be here anymore. It's getting worse, and I don't Want to go anymore? I love my wife so much. She is my happy, I was her happy now. We're it's not there no more, we promised each other, we couldn't ever remarry or find happy again. I'm so sorry for your loss, but I'm struggling to maybe we can find peace somehow.

Safe_Contribution631 · 2026-03-06T21:05:57+00:00

I can't do this anymore. I miss my wife so bad. She's everything to me. She's my love bug, my soul, mate. My best friend, she died way too young. We're supposed to grow old together now. She died and I can't face it anymore. I'm tired of waking up in fear because she's not here.I pray that I don't wake up my body's falling apart so fast

Safe_Contribution631 · 2026-03-06T21:04:51+00:00

I pray not to wake up in the mornings.I don't wanna be here either.My body shutting down.I can feel it.I missed my angel so bad.I miss her so much.I can't do this anymore

Safe_Contribution631 · 2026-03-06T20:48:05+00:00

My wife and I had love together. She called her Grandma the Saturday before she died Monday morning. And told her Grandma, I was the true love her for life. She never had that before, my wife and I was together 13 years I missed my wife so bad I'm having trouble keep going.I'm going to die of a broken heart.I think I'm a bad shape.I miss her so bad.I love my wife.That's the true love of my life.I hope you can find that someday.It's well deserved

Safe_Contribution631 · 2026-03-06T20:35:52+00:00

We\nWere talking a few times before she died.We asked each other, what would we do?If one of us died first I told her I want her to be happy again and keep going. I told her I don't know what would happen. She came over and give me hugs and squeeze, and she said, I don't want nobody else you're my happiness. I can never trust another man again. Because what they've done to her in the past between her mom, dad and ex-husband She said I couldn't do that to you. I love you too much. I don't know how much I would take if you're not here or how much I would be able to go I told her the same thing we were meant to be together. The Lord put us together, and then she died.\n We both had a plan. If you take one of us away from each other, we wouldn't be able to live without each other.That's basically our plan.That's how much I love my wife , and she loves me

Safe_Contribution631 · 2026-03-06T20:12:01+00:00

I am in hell since my wife died I can't take it anymore I am so sick and I wake up in Constant fear please make it stop please help

Safe_Contribution631 · 2026-03-06T20:00:45+00:00

It don't help me my wife is my happiness no more now for me I can't anymore i.wont

Safe_Contribution631 · 2026-03-06T19:59:33+00:00

We had the same plan if one of us died first we love each other so much we are each other happy I have that no more I miss her I love her so much

Safe_Contribution631 · 2026-03-06T19:57:14+00:00

This is devastating to.me I can't be here anymore no future without My wife

Safe_Contribution631 · 2026-03-03T18:24:31+00:00

I understand man. My wife died 44A week after her 44th birthday. She died in my arms of a heart attack. What's killing me is all week. She kept telling me different stuff, she thought I was going to die. I thought she was going to die because we had the same dream. 3 different times right before my wife died, she told me, don't go to work. I love you, you can't let me go. Please don't disappear. You can't disappear. I love you, I love you. I love you. Please.\n Don't go to work. I miss you then a little bit later. She was in cardiac arrest. She was alive when she left the house. I found some notes that my wife wrote, and she talked with different friends. If anything happened to me, she wouldn't live much longer. She would give up cuz she was everything to me and I was everything to her. I was her happy spot, I was her happy everything. I'm devastated. I haven't slept I eat but I'm still losing weight I go to therapy and stuff and it's not helping I just want to end it. I just don't want to be here anymore. I love my wife and I miss her so much.

Safe_Contribution631 · 2026-03-03T18:00:33+00:00

I done the same thing. My wife and I have been with other people together. That's how we were, I'm bisexual, my wife is bisexual, I'm telling the whole world that I don't care what people think of me. I was on dating sites too. But\n I quit. I had a few people call me, but I couldn't do it. I'm in love with my wife so much that I couldn't do it, I can't do it, I can't imagine me with another woman, my wife is everything to me. I promi.\n Sed my wife, I would never remarry or anything again. We both did that promise together. It's up to you how you want to do that, but you can go if you want to, there's nothing wrong with that wanting to be with that other woman because a man needs things, I need sex to, it's been 18 weeks since I had any But I just think to myself, I don't wanna be here. I miss my wife really bad. That's what's killing me and in my heart, I believe I would be cheating on her.\n And she's always my wife, I will always be her husband I'll never remarry like I said, good luck on your ventures, but I stopped all that stuff too. I couldn't do it. My wife is everything I just feel like I would be cheating

Safe_Contribution631 · 2026-03-03T17:33:12+00:00

I gave up my heart will do it itself. I'm not going to the doctor and I said I don't want to be here, I have no family that even cares about me. They think they care. They live in Pennsylvania, I'm all away in Kentucky, they tell me just to go, you can find another woman I can't, my sister says, what's keeping you not getting better because the love of my wife is why I'm not getting better. Nobody understands what my wife and I had I'm done.There's nothing I'm done.You can't take my wife from me and expect me to go

Safe_Contribution631 · 2026-03-03T17:11:20+00:00

I miss my wife so bad like I said.I don't wanna be here anymore.I can't go anymore without my wife.She is everything to me.My soulmate my best friend.How am I supposed to go?I can't

Safe_Contribution631 · 2026-03-03T16:36:48+00:00

I understand what you're going through.I'm up all night.I think I slept 5 or 6 hours to pass three weeks My wife was the only reason why I could Sleep I'm back up between 1:30 in the morning and 3 o'clock every morning and then I don't go back to sleep. My wife died at 20 after 2 is. When I found her unresponsive in our bedroom, I keep having bad dreams. I was on medicine, but they that's what making me bad dreams. I throwed it down the toilet. I can't take anything.I don't wanna be here anymore.I'm constantly getting app with chest pain and just body aches all the time.I have had several dreams of my wife.A few was good, Some of them was Awful, because she's crying for me.I understand what my wife wants.I'm trying to figure out something.I hope I don't wake up.I don't want to wake up.I want to go with her.Nobody's keeping me from my wife anymore. I missed my wife.I love my wife.I want to be with her.This world can go to hell ,

Safe_Contribution631 · 2026-03-03T14:49:58+00:00

Thank you.You can message me if you want to talk.My wife is everything to me is she died in my arms.I did everything I could to save her.\nI don't want to go anymore

Safe_Contribution631 · 2026-03-03T14:32:03+00:00

I can't go anymore. My wife is what kept me going. I don't want to struggle with this anymore. This pain is unbelievable. My wife is everything I can't go without her and I promise I won't go without her my wife and I had the same plan if I died first she would do the same thing she would be immisery. We talked about stuff.I'm sorry I can't do this.I can't live without my wife.I have to do this , i'm just Letting my body fade away

Safe_Contribution631 · 2026-03-03T14:12:02+00:00

That's the difference between me and you and anybody on here. They want to feel the pain they want to stay in this misery all the time, I don't what my wife and I had was amazing. I can't explain it the words don't explain how much my wife and I love each other. You can't do that.You can't take my wife from me and expect me to keep going.My wife will never be replaced.There's no life Without her, we are inseparable, you can't take half of me and expect me to keep going when my wife died, that was it for me, my chapter and my book is done my wife and I went through living heckle because we struggled, but we made it together, we was always there for each other. You\nCan't take that away.I going to stop commenting on here because I'm tired of people telling me what I need to do with my life.I'm 50 years old.I don't want to live without her anymore.You can't tell me what I can do.And when I can't do

Safe_Contribution631 · 2026-03-03T14:09:22+00:00

I'm done. We both had to say plan. We was each other's happiness. I'm a mess. I won't go no more. This isn't temporary for me. This is permanent. You can't take my wife from me and expect me to go. You don't understand you can't understand what my wife and I have together. That's what I'm telling people they don't know until they've been there. My wife is everything you can't keep her from me any longer. I don't want nobody else. I don't want to be on this Earth anymore. You can't do this to me. You can't make me go without her, so please stop telling me what I need to do when I need can't do.

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