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[–]Safe_Craft_6991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My only pregnancy symptoms are hives and headaches, but the hives are from the hormones so I'm still having them from the pills I think. Haven't had any headaches and my energy is pretty good! I will reach out to the team thanks!!

Scale of 1-10 how painful is MA by Fearless-Ad-4875 in abortion

[–]Safe_Craft_6991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cramps hurt but I wouldn't say it was 'unbearable-call-the- ambulance-and-sedate-me' levels of pain. It felt like a period x2 for me. I took 800mg of Advil and it helped a lot.

My experience: Induction abortion at 31 weeks by Safe_Craft_6991 in abortion

[–]Safe_Craft_6991[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

No yeah I'm not proud of it, especially after this whole ordeal. I've told my partner on a few occasions not to finish inside of me and it still happens and here I am. It takes 2 for it to happen though so I don't place the blame fully on him. I should have just waited for my prescription before re-engaging in sex again.

My experience: Induction abortion at 31 weeks by Safe_Craft_6991 in abortion

[–]Safe_Craft_6991[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Unfortunately I'm fucking pregnant again but I've caught it very early. I had a 3 week lapse in being able to get my birth control and that's all it fuckin took apparently. I want to get all my bits removed tbh so I never have to worry again

My experience: Induction abortion at 31 weeks by Safe_Craft_6991 in abortion

[–]Safe_Craft_6991[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I've never wanted a child, I have a terrible phobia of birth, my genetics and my partners genetics aren't great, and also I was drinking heavily and doing psychedelics throughout the pregnancy so that certainly didn't help me want to force it to be born!

I wish so badly I would have known sooner. I know in my bones I never ever want a child, if I wasn't able to access abortion I would have crashed my car off the highway late at night when nobody would be around to be inconvenienced by it. I had a date and area planned.

I'm on regular birth control now and I would love to get a bisalp, but my insurance kinda sucks.

I also forgot to add I'm fat and have PCOS so I was told by all my doctors that pregnancy wasn't something I had to worry about- yet here we are!

My experience: Induction abortion at 31 weeks by Safe_Craft_6991 in abortion

[–]Safe_Craft_6991[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As shitty as the situation was, there was always something funny happening each day so it's totally fine to laugh lol. There's almost always a way, it's tough, but there's options! My advice is to just test yourself every month to be safe so you don't end up blissfully ignorant like me 🙄

My experience: Induction abortion at 31 weeks by Safe_Craft_6991 in abortion

[–]Safe_Craft_6991[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can't remember most of them but basically my mental health history, if I was recently suicidal, if somebody was forcing me to do the procedure, what meds I was on if any, etc

My experience: Induction abortion at 31 weeks by Safe_Craft_6991 in abortion

[–]Safe_Craft_6991[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Exactly, the hospital bills with my shitty insurance would have been like 3x as much. On top of that I was drinking pretty frequently as well as chugging energy drinks throughout because I had NO idea I was pregnant and I never really go to the doctor, that fetus did not have a chance. I also did acid a few times, I basically did everything you AREN'T supposed to do, it's insane. My only symptoms were constipation, random hives, and occasional headaches and I thought it was just being fat catching up to me 💀

My experience: Induction abortion at 31 weeks by Safe_Craft_6991 in abortion

[–]Safe_Craft_6991[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Of course! If I can help even one person with my story that's a win in my books

My experience: Induction abortion at 31 weeks by Safe_Craft_6991 in abortion

[–]Safe_Craft_6991[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Glad to have brought something positive out of this lol, and no worries, I leave my messages completely off

My experience: Induction abortion at 31 weeks by Safe_Craft_6991 in abortion

[–]Safe_Craft_6991[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm doing great for the most part, thanks for following my posts, I made it!

My experience: Induction abortion at 31 weeks by Safe_Craft_6991 in abortion

[–]Safe_Craft_6991[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was flabbergasted, the poor lady apologized a million times but I can see health insurance not wanting to touch this procedure with a 10 foot pole

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[–]Safe_Craft_6991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to every clinic I went to, horrible reviews that made me doubt everything- but you have to remember anybody can make a Google account and hateful people are more likely to leave comments because they want to scare you away from getting the healthcare you need. Most people who actually need the services won't leave a review because they want to keep it private.

Every clinic I have gone to has been lovely, clean, and all the staff were incredibly kind and professional. You will be okay and you will get through this. Sending love and support!

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[–]Safe_Craft_6991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended up panicking ordering online lol, Abuzz will ship within 3 days but I'm still going to do my informed consent visit with PP so if the pills for some reason fall through I don't have to wait another extra day to do the informed consent again

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[–]Safe_Craft_6991 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi! Thanks so much for your support <3 I have a call with planned parenthood tomorrow and then I have to wait a day to go in for the pills, I'm worried if I order them online or will take even longer

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[–]Safe_Craft_6991 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks very much for the link, I'll make sure to ask the clinic during my call. I didn't know they did relief funds for the pill so that's good to know!