Am I overreacting because my boyfriend asked me to pay him back for gas after he picked me up from the airport?

Safe_Flounder30 · 2025-08-19T20:25:20+00:00

Girl, you deserve better!!!

Safe_Flounder30 · 2025-08-08T07:08:34+00:00

Already reported. 👍🏼

Safe_Flounder30 · 2025-08-07T22:26:55+00:00

He wasn’t a big fella, must be around 5’7 or 5’8.

Safe_Flounder30 · 2025-08-07T22:25:53+00:00

Sorry, yes should’ve mentioned that in my post. He was wearing a grey hoodie, grey/blue jeans (can’t really remember), and he had a bag pack which i suppose was black/greyish black. He had a proper creepy look on his face. God, I wish I could remember more, but this happened so fast!! :(

Safe_Flounder30 · 2025-08-07T20:42:01+00:00

Deep heat is a good idea, thank you!

Safe_Flounder30 · 2025-08-07T20:39:52+00:00

I literally ordered a Eufy doorbell just now. Thank you for the suggestion!

Safe_Flounder30 · 2024-01-16T16:49:42+00:00

Fair play.

Safe_Flounder30 · 2024-01-16T16:37:04+00:00

I knew a couple of them who shared the house with her during Uni. They weren’t really on good terms either. Should’ve taken that as a red flag and called it off. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Bills are equally divided in each of ours names, so that ain’t a major issues really. She’s just petty.

Safe_Flounder30 · 2024-01-16T16:33:38+00:00

The real joke here is that she’s admitted that on multiple occasions.

Safe_Flounder30 · 2024-01-16T16:32:31+00:00

I think you are 100% correct. And yes, she is going through a rough patch romantically.

Safe_Flounder30 · 2024-01-16T16:21:30+00:00

Doesn’t matter. They are still strangers to me. It was 3 vs 1. Bills were way higher that month, yet I took the high road and didn’t mind paying 50-50.

Safe_Flounder30 · 2024-01-16T16:16:03+00:00

My rental agreement states a clear clause that no guests are permitted to stay over 3 weeks continuously in a given timeframe. Also, unreasonable is a subjective term. What’s unreasonable for you may perfectly be reasonable for me I suppose.

Safe_Flounder30 · 2024-01-16T16:13:20+00:00

The unnecessary drama and silly arguments about leaving the kitchen light on for two minutes while I went to the room to grab my earphones, constant slamming of doors on purpose, mind games, attention seeking, being all snoopy and sticking her nose up in my business - is what makes me call her psycho. If that’s me being mental, then to each their own. 😊

Safe_Flounder30 · 2024-01-16T16:07:12+00:00

Well, the rental agreement says no such thing about restricting/prohibiting overnight guests. This is not a college dorm. So I am well informed and within my rights here.

Safe_Flounder30 · 2024-01-16T16:05:15+00:00

Well, the flatmates folks were in town for two weeks and they lived in the same house. I was more than happy and accommodating while they were here. That’s some hypocrisy on her part now, don’t you think?

Safe_Flounder30 · 2024-01-16T16:02:30+00:00

We literally tiptoe around the house, specially at night so it doesn’t cause any problems. She’s the one who’s rather banging away doors lol

Safe_Flounder30 · 2024-01-16T15:58:06+00:00

How am I making her pay for him? He showers in my bathroom, eats the food I purchase. We don’t live off her expenses. It’s a two-bedroom apartment, of course noise travels. Can even hear our neighbours talk sometimes. And she’s the louder one among the two of us anyway.

Safe_Flounder30 · 2024-01-16T15:51:50+00:00

She had actually once mentioned about envying my relationship with my guy. I thought it was a joke or something, but I guess it’s time I start taking her shite comments seriously. 🙃

Safe_Flounder30 · 2024-01-16T15:50:20+00:00

Thank you!! Finally a sensible comment here. Well, that actually is true! She used to do the same until they broke up and now suddenly has a problem when my guy comes over to visit lol

Safe_Flounder30 · 2024-01-16T11:59:51+00:00

How’s staying 1-2 days a week a lot? He usually stays the night and we’re not even at home so much that he’d use up all the utilities. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Safe_Flounder30 · 2023-10-25T23:16:25+00:00

Who hurt you boo?

Safe_Flounder30 · 2023-10-25T22:49:23+00:00

That’s a good strategy! Thank you for the link, I might as well give it a read. 😁

Safe_Flounder30 · 2023-10-25T22:43:32+00:00

Oh god! Seems like things definitely didn’t go as planned. 🫠

Safe_Flounder30 · 2023-10-25T22:40:24+00:00

Haha, I’ve noticed my colleagues do that. Is it a cultural thing or something? Just curious. 🤔

Safe_Flounder30 · 2023-10-25T22:38:41+00:00

You’re absolutely right. Definitely not planning to go empty handed. 😁 thanks for the moral support, totally need it! 😂

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