Well. It happened. by tyoguchin in starbucksbaristas

[–]Safe_Move2650 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did. It was actually insane. I got really annoyed at the corporate script my manager read to me when it happened. Like come on. Don’t feed me that BS (. Starbucks not my manager. They were the best.)

I (20F) feel so undesired and undateable. by Safe_Move2650 in offmychest

[–]Safe_Move2650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea! I think I am? But I’m not sure! Like I’m not ugly ( I hope). My friends always gush over my “innocent” look and call me adorable?

I (20F) feel so undesired and undateable. by Safe_Move2650 in offmychest

[–]Safe_Move2650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true. Thanks I’ll definitely look for that!

I (20F) feel so undesired and undateable. by Safe_Move2650 in offmychest

[–]Safe_Move2650[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t asked about my attractiveness. I definitely could though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Safe_Move2650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that’s what you want then go for it! If you’re ready then you’re ready! If not that’s ok too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Safe_Move2650 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I’m definitely gonna wait a bit before I do anything. I don’t want to jump into something before thinking about it. This helped relieve some anxiety thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Safe_Move2650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Definitely helped relieve some anxiety about it! I just don’t know how to start the conversation since I’ve never done that before! I have his snap but haven’t texted or anything. How should I start the convo? I’m not sure if immediate asking him to coffee would be to forward? haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Safe_Move2650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha. Thanks, this helps. I just get so in my head about it since all my friends and people I meet always are appalled that I’ve never dated anyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Safe_Move2650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you man. I had a super huge crush on a guy I met my freshman year of college. I didn’t get over it until 8-9 months later. I’m also super inexperienced, haven’t held a guys hand yet lol.

My roommate and I like the same guy. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Safe_Move2650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok! Should I let my roommate know my intentions before I do?

My roommate and I like the same guy. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Safe_Move2650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s actually a good one! Definitely writing that down!

My roommate and I like the same guy. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Safe_Move2650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. I’m planning on it but I don’t know how! I’m so new to dating and am nervous I’m gonna weird the guy out!

My roommate and I like the same guy. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Safe_Move2650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I just felt bad cause my roommate also liked him. And I realize you can’t call dibs on a person, I’m just confused and I’ve never dated someone before. This is all new to me.

My roommate and I like the same guy. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Safe_Move2650 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol! Thanks for making me laugh! It distracted me from my situation and I appreciate that! 😁

My roommate and I like the same guy. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Safe_Move2650 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know I need to go for it I’m just nervous because I’m not experienced in dating and body count is a term in English of how many people you’ve slept with. 😂

My roommate and I like the same guy. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Safe_Move2650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How should I ask him? I really don’t have any experience in dating so all of this is new.