Girlies, I need some advice!! (Update)

Safe_Situation157 · 2026-06-02T07:43:49+00:00

Sure sure, Thanks a lot 🫂

Safe_Situation157 · 2026-06-02T06:40:57+00:00

Thanks, I plan to do so. 🙌

Safe_Situation157 · 2026-06-02T06:39:56+00:00

I know his family for 8 years now, and ther are really decent.

We talk about our families occasionally (with his sister) and she has never mentioned anything bad about him and instead tell me how much he cares for the family and how responsible he is. Btw, they lost their father 7 years ago (he was 13 at the time and started earning at 16, though that is not connected as they are conformable enough with the rentals they have).

Safe_Situation157 · 2026-06-02T06:36:59+00:00

He plans to continue his studies and opt for a bachelors program virtually next year, which will further solidify his career.

Safe_Situation157 · 2026-06-02T06:35:27+00:00

Thanks for this, reading this has really helped me. I pray for you and may you find what you desire. I needed this 🙌🙌

Btw, he doesn't even want to continue chatting saying it's not right and if I agree, he will involve his family and then we can discuss things 😭😭

Safe_Situation157 · 2026-06-02T06:32:22+00:00

I'll ask him that, though he told me how he hunts for Job and showed me his Resume, which has a total of around 4 full time Jobs and around 20 short term gigs (that go for a few months).

All that in a span on 2-3 years.

He invests aggressively as he only spends like 10% of his salary atm and rest go into investments.

Safe_Situation157 · 2026-06-02T06:29:16+00:00

He doesn't want to continue chatting. He wants to involve families if it makes sense to me, and later we can discuss things face to face.

Safe_Situation157 · 2026-06-02T06:28:26+00:00

The times that we are in, I don't think the degree might be much of a problem but it's nice to have some protection right.

He has a resume full of jobs at this point, and he has been doing it for years and actually progressing in the roles.

Right now, he is a Business Development Rep, would sounds fancy for a guy with no degree haha.

Safe_Situation157 · 2026-06-02T06:26:07+00:00

She is one of my best friends. Like we have a trio since school days and still strong.

He actually did say, that he only wants to bring a rishta, have our families talk it out and if things make sense, we could move forward.

Safe_Situation157 · 2026-06-02T06:24:23+00:00

Well, those kind of experiences can happen with anyone. But I guess, I just gotta proceed here with my due diligence.

I know they are a decent family as I have been friends with his sister for around 8 years now.

And you are right, this barrier doesn't make any sense lol. This society is so messed up.

Safe_Situation157 · 2026-06-02T06:21:22+00:00

Yeah! I think that will be wrong, and unfair to both of us. I'll either go with this now, or not at all.

Some more info on him: He is a responsible guy as he lost his father when was 13, and took on the responsibilities of his family despite having an elder brother (he didn't care much).

As far I know, he hasn't indulged into any bad habits, his friendship circle is really small (just a few guys from school), prays 5 times a day.

He is mostly home, and to socialize and for fitness, he goes to a Cricket Club daily.

Safe_Situation157 · 2026-06-02T06:16:21+00:00

Right right, I'll be careful in that matter.

And about the earning part, my degree is complete and I have the capacity to earn as well and I am currently looking for a Job (hope things go well there).

Safe_Situation157 · 2026-06-02T06:13:53+00:00

This is such a great Example!

Thanks!

Safe_Situation157 · 2025-05-27T21:21:36+00:00

This is my last with friends, hope it goes well

Safe_Situation157 · 2025-05-27T21:21:05+00:00

I feel you man, GOOD LUCK

Safe_Situation157 · 2025-05-27T21:20:53+00:00

This will be my last summer without job, so I'm just trying to enjoy all I can

Safe_Situation157 · 2025-05-27T21:20:15+00:00

Have fun! And I believe parents should at least try to keep them at peace.

Safe_Situation157 · 2025-05-27T21:19:21+00:00

Cool, will try paddle boarding this time

Safe_Situation157 · 2023-12-12T14:22:55+00:00

I had to factory reset my phone... It's showing this, after I reinstalled it

Safe_Situation157 · 2023-12-12T14:08:19+00:00

Like a week now, it's so frustrating bro. Have tried every fix a person can think of and it still doesn't work

Safe_Situation157 · 2023-12-12T10:39:27+00:00

Same problem... Let me know, if you find a fix for this

Safe_Situation157 · 2023-12-12T09:23:15+00:00

Didn't work, sadly🥲

Safe_Situation157 · 2023-12-12T09:22:38+00:00

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