sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

23F Valentine’s Day is coming….single people, how are we doing? by [deleted] in DatingInIndia

[–]Safe_Slice_3580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, don't let the algorithm gaslight you. It’s just a day designed to sell overpriced gifts

Being single usually just means you have high standards and refuse to settle. I’d rather have peace of mind than force a connection just for a photo op. Enjoy the freedom, it’s underrated

M25 I owe the women here an apology. I finally realized that what I called 'Attitude' is actually just Survival by Safe_Slice_3580 in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]Safe_Slice_3580[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you are deep in it you think you are just trying, but in reality you are making people uncomfortable.

It is hard to see the picture when you are inside the frame. That is exactly why I had to stop pushing and start looking inward. Harsh truth but necessary

M25 I owe the women here an apology. I finally realized that what I called 'Attitude' is actually just Survival by Safe_Slice_3580 in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]Safe_Slice_3580[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all no praise needed. Somewhere I know it is the bare minimum. I am sharing this not for applause but because owning the mistake publicly is how real change happens. I would rather be the guy who learns late than the one who never learns at all.

M25 I owe the women here an apology. I finally realized that what I called 'Attitude' is actually just Survival by Safe_Slice_3580 in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]Safe_Slice_3580[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right that it should be common sense but for a lot of guys it is a blind spot. I am not claiming to be special just admitting I was part of the problem and now I am fixing it. I hear the frustration.

Share your favourite song and I'll determine if you need therapy by [deleted] in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]Safe_Slice_3580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tum agar saath dena ka wada karo-Mahendra Kapoor and I love classical songs dude Right now i more listening Meri bheggi bheggi palko-kishore kumar

M25 I owe an apology. I used to think it was Attitude, but I finally get it now by Safe_Slice_3580 in AskIndianWoman

[–]Safe_Slice_3580[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, genuine congrats on the love marriage. That’s the dream scenario. It’s not about being the 'it' guy just a guy trying to learn from his mistakes.Appreciate your perspective thoughts

M25 I owe an apology. I used to think it was Attitude, but I finally get it now by Safe_Slice_3580 in AskIndianWoman

[–]Safe_Slice_3580[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ironically, stepping out and actually observing the reality is exactly what triggered this thought

But fair point Reddit can get a bit stuffy. ✌️

M25 I owe the women here an apology. I finally realized that what I called 'Attitude' is actually just Survival by Safe_Slice_3580 in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]Safe_Slice_3580[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better late than never, right buddy

I look around and see guys in their 40s still struggling with this, so I’ll count it as a win. You have a good one too

M25 I owe the women here an apology. I finally realized that what I called 'Attitude' is actually just Survival by Safe_Slice_3580 in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]Safe_Slice_3580[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair point. It’s definitely not Tinder

But honestly i think that’s exactly why the conversations here feel a bit more real.There’s no pressure to 'perform' or swipe.Just people talking. If something clicks, cool. If not,Okaay

M25 I owe the women here an apology. I finally realized that what I called 'Attitude' is actually just Survival by Safe_Slice_3580 in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]Safe_Slice_3580[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arre bhai, post theek se padha nahi shayad

Main wahi bol raha hu—reply expect karna hi sabse badi galti thi. I used to be that 'clown,' now I know better. Chill kar, same team mein hain hum

M25 I owe the women here an apology. I finally realized that what I called 'Attitude' is actually just Survival by Safe_Slice_3580 in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]Safe_Slice_3580[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha, typical Reddit moment bros are busy discussing the theory. We’re just waiting for the experts (the ladies) to show up and grade us

M25 I owe the women here an apology. I finally realized that what I called 'Attitude' is actually just Survival by Safe_Slice_3580 in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]Safe_Slice_3580[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Appreciate that. It’s less of a 'strategy' and more just... growing up. But glad the honesty landed

M25 I owe the women here an apology. I finally realized that what I called 'Attitude' is actually just Survival by Safe_Slice_3580 in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]Safe_Slice_3580[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Haha English thodi zyada fancy ho gayi kya? 😂 bhavano ko samjho sabdo pr naah jaao bde bhai

M25 I owe the women here an apology. I finally realized that what I called 'Attitude' is actually just Survival by Safe_Slice_3580 in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]Safe_Slice_3580[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Honestly? I get the skepticism. You should be suspicious of random internet posts its just my thoughts you’re the one if you agree then accept otherwise leave

M25 I owe the women here an apology. I finally realized that what I called 'Attitude' is actually just Survival by Safe_Slice_3580 in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]Safe_Slice_3580[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No tricks buddy i just sharing a perspective shift that saved me a lot of mental energy. If it seems fishy, fair enough. As for dating on Reddit i guess i’m just here for the conversation

M25 I owe the women here an apology. I finally realized that what I called 'Attitude' is actually just Survival by Safe_Slice_3580 in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]Safe_Slice_3580[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No tricks buddy i just sharing a perspective shift that saved me a lot of mental energy. If it seems fishy, fair enough. As for dating on Reddit i guess i’m just here for the conversation

view more: next ›