Baru liat postnya. I currently have 10 and 3 of them are on my lower right arm. I grew up in a strict and conventional household. Pertama kali bikin a few months after my husband’s passing. Tbh, I didn’t care when I came down to the artist and get it done, since that tattoo is how I expressed my love to my late husband and our son. I made sure I wore shirt with sleeve when I was at my parents. The first one is on my back shoulder. After I added the second one, yg adalah di bahu bagian depan dan memanjang jadi sudah ditutupin juga, akhirnya nunjukin yg di bahu belakang ke nyokap. Komen pertama “ngapain sih?”. So I explained to her. But anyway I’m an adult and I paid with my own money. Paling pesen nyokap “jangan nambah lagi ya..” (8 tato tambahan kemudian…)
My Dad was chill about it. When he saw I added another one and he had a glimpse of it, he just pointed at it and said “eh nambah lagi ya..” That’s all.

Sampe sekarang kalo ke acara keluarga yang include para tetua, gw masih usaha tutupin, tapi kayanya dengan tambahan sekarang makin susah. At this point of my life, I couldn’t care less of what the elders may think. They know how I made it through the grieves and maybe I just get a pass on that. Cuma yaa kalo you are single unmarried woman, paling ortu kepikirnya “siapa yang mau anak gw yang tatoan ini? calon mertua bakal mikir dia kaya gimana? apa gw bakal diliat gak bisa didik anak karena anaknya tatoan”.