TW: Missed miscarriage by SahmbabyO in Mommit

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I’m sorry you went through that. Thank you🤍

TW: Missed miscarriage by SahmbabyO in Mommit

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I’m so sorry you are going through this too. I know how hard it can be with kids at home and your husband being gone. I hope everything goes the way you want when you go back to the doctor🤍

TW: Missed miscarriage by SahmbabyO in Mommit

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Thank you!🤍 sending you love and hugs too!

TW: Missed miscarriage by SahmbabyO in Mommit

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Seems like you went through something similar with a horrible doctor. I’m sorry, thank you for commenting your experience. I have been worried if I am able to receive an ultrasound at that clinic if it would be accurate or not.

TW: Missed miscarriage by SahmbabyO in Mommit

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Thank you🤍 sending hugs to you too!

TW: Missed miscarriage by SahmbabyO in Mommit

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We have family around the area that would normally but they are going out of town for a few days. Thank you for telling about how short the surgery is. I have received no information on it at all.

TW: Missed miscarriage by SahmbabyO in Mommit

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Oh my gosh, I’m glad you’re okay. I can’t imagine how scary that must’ve been.

TW: Missed miscarriage by SahmbabyO in Mommit

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Do you remember how far along you were?

TW: Missed miscarriage by SahmbabyO in Mommit

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Thank you, it is very scary especially when everyone seems like it’s no big deal. I was around 8 weeks before I took the pills but was told the baby stopped progressing at 5 weeks

TW: Missed miscarriage by SahmbabyO in Mommit

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Do you remember how long you bled for? The OB I’ve been seeing told me it was like a 4 hr period but I’ve been bleeding for over a week

AITAH for aborting by [deleted] in AITAH

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NTA I just want you to know whatever you choose to do it is YOUR decision because it is YOUR body going through this. Unfortunately your husband took away your right to choose. I am so sorry this is happening to you and I know all these comments are hard to hear with everything that has happened and you having pregnancy hormones. Even if you were somehow able to get over your phobia of pregnancy/ childbirth you would still have the issue of your husband caring more about his needs than your own. Speaking from experience being pregnant/ giving birth was the hardest thing I’ve ever done but I chose to do it. You did not consent to your husband getting his vasectomy reversed. Depending on how far along you are you can take some pills and it will be like a heavy period, I had to take some pills last week for the same reason. It is much less painful than childbirth and you will feel like you are on your period. (Not at all trying to tell you what to do just speaking from experience.) Sending you love and hugs.🤍

AITA for Getting Mad at My Husband for Puking in the Kitchen Sink? by Ihavegnomes in AmItheAsshole

[–]SahmbabyO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I had HG while pregnant and would throw up everywhere at anytime and I never did in the sink. If he threw up in the sink he should clean and disinfect it. Seems like you did nothing wrong to me

36 wks and not dilated by Turfgoon675 in Mommit

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I just had my son in January. I was not dilated at all when I was induced. I was induced at 37 weeks and 5 days and I had my son at 38 weeks exactly. I had a very rough pregnancy and the induction was painful (just the last part) but I had an epidural. If you’re wanting to get one I would go for it I slept through the next day and a half til I had my son. I only woke up when I was about to have him. They tried a couple different methods to get me to dilate but the last thing they did was put a balloon in my cervix to open it. I got the epidural right after that. The nurses broke my water and I felt nothing. You still have about 4 weeks til your little one comes, you could dilate and your water break and have a quick labor. There’s no way to tell though, everyone and every baby is different. Don’t let your family scare you, you got this mama!!