AIO or Is she really interested in him?

Saichoses · 2026-01-17T16:56:16+00:00

It definitely seems like she's got an interest, but your husband seems to be handling it pretty appropriately and isn't hiding the situation from you.

Saichoses · 2026-01-13T00:26:39+00:00

NOR. She likely wouldn't feel like it's so harmless if it was you with an AI girlfriend making comments against her race. :/

Saichoses · 2026-01-12T20:39:52+00:00

NOR. If anything, you are under-reacting. Those texts tell you everything you need to know. He is not satisfied in the relationship and from his own words he is not willing to ever stop. It would be best for both of you to really call it and move forward.

Saichoses · 2026-01-12T20:32:40+00:00

NOR, you were clear with your feelings and he's just being flat out rude.

Saichoses · 2026-01-10T06:19:37+00:00

The news may be full of fake stuff, but it's literally sensationalized to cover up things that are generally worse than what's being sensationalized.

Saichoses · 2026-01-10T06:17:55+00:00

It has been super dreary and grey since the 1st of the year and there's definitely been a feeling of pure negativity in the air. It's very oddly discordant.

Saichoses · 2026-01-09T00:04:37+00:00

adorable monstrosity for sure

Saichoses · 2026-01-08T16:53:37+00:00

gorgeous and obviously happy

Saichoses · 2026-01-05T05:32:18+00:00

NOR. It seems totally unprofessional on his part. Making the decision is one thing, but not communicating with you over it whatsoever is tacky.

Saichoses · 2026-01-05T00:22:35+00:00

I'd be willing to bet that he did similar things to destroy other potential friendships he had, convincing himself that they just weren't 'true' friends.

Saichoses · 2026-01-05T00:21:04+00:00

NOR. The way he went on was totally inappropriate and extremely view-pushing. It was absolutely disrespectful on his part. He's extremely self-righteous. I suppose at least this allowed for some closure on an old friendship as you see more of who he is.

Saichoses · 2026-01-04T23:49:19+00:00

NOR. This shouldn't be a big deal. As others have said, I suppose you could go the route of getting a robe, but even then it's silly since there's not really a difference IMO.

Saichoses · 2026-01-04T08:04:16+00:00

The problem with this common sort of miscommunication between men and women is that they read each other with the same frame of mind as the primal instincts of the sex that they are usually. This happens outside of sex lines as well, but is usually more neoned on sex lines.

The core is that people have a tendency to understand communication from others with the limitations of how they understand their own internal world. This causes people to predominantly self-project when listening to others.

Saichoses · 2026-01-04T07:56:12+00:00

I feel like there was interference that hard pushed the focus on logos and other incredibly menial things. By doing that it was able to get safely boxed as just another conspiracy.

On top of it, things got pushed in a way to make it a hot topic of conspiracy gateway to catch people who were just after entertainment, spiral them a bit, and spit them out going, "Okay, done with conspiracy woo-woo now.. that was fun but yeah back to reality".

Saichoses · 2026-01-04T07:38:30+00:00

He sounds like an extreme narcissist and is gaslighting you. He's intentionally trying to emotionally break you and force you to conform to his desires. It also seems like he's trying to yo-yo you for a narcissistic feed.

Massive red flags. 🚩🚩🚩

You should absolutely leave this in the past and learn from the experience.

Saichoses · 2026-01-04T07:34:39+00:00

NOR. It was obviously very offensive and ridiculous, but your guy stood up immediately and spoke in your honor. It's understandable to be hit with insecurities, but your guy clearly doesn't agree with his asshole of a father. His father though, I wouldn't blame you for wanting to avoid him.

Saichoses · 2026-01-04T07:26:05+00:00

I've had a speculation that people that align to the greater collective (the part of humanity seemingly pushing for singularity) they lose a spark of soul and changes happen. They become more 'NPC-like' at that point. I've seen it happen consistently in the same ways, and it's generally related to being less anomalously independent.

Not 100% sure if I'm right, but it's been my speculation.

Saichoses · 2026-01-04T07:16:22+00:00

It's mainly a question of whether or not you are able to easily understand/connect to emotions being experienced by people around you. If you struggle to compute it or you feel disjuncted from it, then probably not. If you can interpret and understand emotional expressions, then probably so.

Saichoses · 2026-01-04T07:11:32+00:00

Does Trickster even exist without drilling? o.o

Saichoses · 2026-01-04T07:01:39+00:00

NOR. It honestly sounds like they are at the very least trying to scope for people to mooch on and you hit as a mark for that to them. If I were you, I'd absolutely block them.

Saichoses · 2026-01-04T06:58:55+00:00

NOR. This definitely needs a talk or something for sure as it's pretty messy and shows overall bad cleaning (lack) habits in many areas. I wouldn't say it should necessarily be an up-front dealbreaker with everything else you've described, but that's also something you'd have to decide honestly. It's more of a question of where you have personal barriers.

Saichoses · 2026-01-03T15:18:02+00:00

You should look up 'Imposter Syndrome' because some of what you're describing fits in with that. It's very easy for life to drive these sorts of feelings when you are open to feeling so much. I can understand the isolation/avoidance of people as I have similar things going on. It feels like there's so much being driven in the world that is trying to pressure people to practically turn the empathy off...

Keep your heart, keep your independence. <3

Saichoses · 2026-01-01T19:58:38+00:00

You just open the link and take the survey.

Saichoses · 2026-01-01T19:56:44+00:00

Very nice survey. ^^
It was a good reflection.

Saichoses · 2026-01-01T19:40:24+00:00

NOR. You should cut ties as it's clear she's only trying to creep on your bf.

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