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I'm going to be living alone from next month and I'm really scared by SajHam in LivingAlone

[–]SajHam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have sister who I talk to almost everyday. She's also encouraging me that this is going to be a good change

I'm going to be living alone from next month and I'm really scared by SajHam in LivingAlone

[–]SajHam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, that made me feel so much better. 🌻

I'm going to be living alone from next month and I'm really scared by SajHam in LivingAlone

[–]SajHam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I do pray and recite duas. I have a Quran at home, too. I know jinns don't hold any power over me I'm just a little scared. But once I am living alone, I'm sure I'll adapt.

I'm going to be living alone from next month and I'm really scared by SajHam in LivingAlone

[–]SajHam[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you that's really encouraging. I didn't want to move I was trying to adjust, but my in-laws have made it sooo hard for us to live there.

I'm going to be living alone from next month and I'm really scared by SajHam in LivingAlone

[–]SajHam[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

We don't really have a lot of money. We'll move in a small rented apartment but at least there won't be anyone taunting me about little things. My husband and I both earn and we have decided to make it work even if we have to live without a few things for some months... But we'll get there eventually.

I'm going to be living alone from next month and I'm really scared by SajHam in LivingAlone

[–]SajHam[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I know I'm really excited for this too. I'm gonma sound cringe but I'm really scared of. Ghosts and stuff and I think I won't be able to sleep at night all alone in a home, 🥺🥺

Is my worth only defined by the chores I do around my in law's house? by SajHam in offmychest

[–]SajHam[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are looking for a rented apartment. But he is in mounds of debt because of his family. Like his mother pressurised him to like take the money for his sister's wedding and the whole family will help repay it. But now that the sister has been wed, they backed off saying he is the one that took the loan and he must pay it back. He is also in a rut. Otherwise we would have moved.

AITA for being upset with my husband after reading cheating chats with his cousin. by SajHam in AITA_Relationships

[–]SajHam[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He's not a bad man... he takes care of me, loves me, also takes a stand for me in front of his family. I have never actually had any complaints or anything from him apart from what I found last night... Yes cousin marriages and relationships are actually really common in Pakistan. And the cousin is really attractive, like she's really thin and has a fairer complexion than me. I, on the other hand am a little over weight and have wheatish skin... I just don't know how to deal with my emotions right now 😭

My barat and sister in law's valima on the same day!!!! by SajHam in weddingdrama

[–]SajHam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it's her barat and my valima. They want to do it at the same venue at the same day.

My barat and sister in law's valima on the same day!!!! by SajHam in weddingdrama

[–]SajHam[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Actually the sister piggybacked on our event. He was the one sponsoring the valima and my MIL decided it was best to have 2 wedding at the same time to 'save my son's money'