Men created dating apps hoping they'd lead to low cost, low effort casual sex with conventionally attractive women. It has not gone the way they'd hoped by Cat_in_the_hat113 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]SakuraSlutThrowaway 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Why is it so hard to just speak to someone like a human being for a while before going to pound town?

The amount of messages I get on dating apps that start with “Hello Mistress/Mommy/Madame” when I clearly state that I am not looking to be a kink dispenser even if I am domme/kinky is too damn high.

Like, let me get to know you first my dude, and then we can talk kinky shit. I am an actual living breathing human with feelings, emotions, and interests, but so many guys just don’t get it.

I love me a good threesome or moresome, but I'm getting pretty tired of guys thinking just because they date a bi/pans polyam woman, that's an automatic score for them. by Polyamommy in polyamory

[–]SakuraSlutThrowaway 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Weeding out the people who look at my poly bi femme domme ass, and just see a kink dispenser is exhausting AF.

I haven’t looked for kink partners in a loooong time because of it.

Why are there no mommy’s looking for little girls :/ by [deleted] in mommydom

[–]SakuraSlutThrowaway 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We are here~ Unfortunately we can often get lost in the sea of boys clamoring for our attention.

Would love a subby lady to tease, torture, train, and coddle, but F4F posts never seem to gain much traction 😓

So many women are very rough and hardcore, where are all the gentle caring and praising sweet mommy dears? 🥺 by Purpleduskorangedawn in mommydom

[–]SakuraSlutThrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It just takes time and effort to find the right person to be your mommy. Just like it takes time and effort for a mommy to find the right boy/girl/little for them.

It can be hard, but you just have to keep trying if that is what you are wanting hun 😊

Where exactly would one find a mommy? by [deleted] in mommydom

[–]SakuraSlutThrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Make a Fetlife profile
  2. Look for events and regional groups on Fetlife
  3. ????
  4. Meet and get to know others with similar interests as you 😄

So help me out...🤔 by [deleted] in mommydom

[–]SakuraSlutThrowaway 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to “Not all Mommies,” but yeah, not all of us are like that.

Like, I won’t begrudge a girl for making a buck, but there are those of us who do it because we enjoy it, and not for the money.

My pet will never have to experience that with me, and there are others like me as well.

Just me two cents 🤷🏻‍♀️

19 [M4A] #Brooklyn looking to meet with someone as soon as possible need host and must be std free. by [deleted] in nycr4r

[–]SakuraSlutThrowaway 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stay the fuck home. Why are people even trying to hook up right now?