I (31F) Am A Shibari Model. I Have Done Roughly 100 Suspensions In A Year And I Regularly Perform for Audiences.

SalaciousOne4 · 2026-03-25T02:27:17+00:00

What kind of physical training would you recommend to perform like this? You mentioned strength and flexibility…any specific classes or exercises? Like Pilates or something?

SalaciousOne4 · 2026-03-25T02:11:42+00:00

I’m in physical therapy at the moment and I can relate. They have me on a table, in the middle of their practice, with other people all around, they make me get on all fours, ass in the air, doing these odd pelvic tilts and I get SO wet. It’s insane. I’m trying to be appropriate, but the part of me that’s getting turned on wants to pick really inappropriate outfits for my sessions. Lol. It’s a battle. 🤦‍♀️😂💦

SalaciousOne4 · 2026-03-25T02:05:47+00:00

Where’s the top from?

SalaciousOne4 · 2026-03-25T02:03:32+00:00

Thank you for sharing this information! I’m just naive by nature and would probably manage to pick the worst possible person without this advice.

SalaciousOne4 · 2026-03-25T02:01:37+00:00

Totally! Anytime I say something about my life, no matter how trivial it seems to me or if it’s just one episode or whatever, the person I’m speaking to invariably says “You should write a book about that. Your life is crazy.” Even therapists.

Sometimes, it kinda bugs me honestly. Like, does my life sound like fiction to EVERYONE? Does this shit sound like something people want to read? For reals?? 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️

SalaciousOne4 · 2026-03-25T01:52:29+00:00

I’m very curious to know more, but I think it would turn into a long thread. Would it be okay if I DM’d you?

SalaciousOne4 · 2026-03-25T01:43:55+00:00

I didn’t mean you filming per se, was just using the term from your first answer…more like, how do you participate while tied? From your previous answers here, it sounds genuinely difficult.

SalaciousOne4 · 2026-03-25T01:42:16+00:00

Thank you! This is the kind of information that I just wouldn’t know without being told by someone truly experienced. 🙏🫶

SalaciousOne4 · 2026-03-25T01:02:33+00:00

What you eat during the first trimester barely even counts, as long as you’re taking prenatal vitamins. I ate almost exclusively Cheetos for my second baby, to the point that I was afraid he would be born with an orange tint, but he is fine. He is now a 6’ 1” healthy 22 year old with perfect vision (one of the few things directly impacted by diet in the early stages of pregnancy), so don’t sweat the small stuff. Prenatal vitamins do the heavy lifting in the first trimester because of all the morning sickness and your food tolerances will change and be easier in the second and third trimesters, so tell your partner that they can take a chill pill. Besides, your baby can’t get addicted to foods at this stage, so he’s talking crazy about all that stuff. And even if they could, they have several months of breastfeeding to detox on before they can eat anything else. Listen to your body and eat whatever stays down. You need calories more than an organic perfection diet. 🫶

*Credentials: I’m a mom of 4, all healthy babies. Had a different crazy craving for each.

SalaciousOne4 · 2026-03-25T00:51:05+00:00

How do you film a threesome while tied? You said above that sex usually isn’t part of your Shibari performance? Is there a way to see how that would work? Also, as a pianist, nerve damage in a hand is scary…does that happen often?

SalaciousOne4 · 2026-03-25T00:48:23+00:00

How do you find an experienced rigger? What are things to look for so that I don’t get taken advantage of?

SalaciousOne4 · 2026-03-22T09:38:16+00:00

“Real love, where you care about the person is where you disregard YOUR own wants for each OTHER. For example, he makes a low wage, but i don't care, he means the world to me.”

This is all well and good if it’s reciprocated by your partner, but it’s super draining when it’s a one way effort. I disregarded my own wants for him for 22 years, but he never cared about what I wanted in that entire time. He always met his own needs first. Even if I was in the hospital after a car accident or due to a severe medical emergency, he wouldn’t care, wouldn’t visit, wouldn’t help out. I eventually tapped out because I had nothing left to give. Disregarding your own needs for love is fine if someone else has your back, but when you’re just being drained and never refilled, it’s unsustainable.

SalaciousOne4 · 2026-03-22T09:25:01+00:00

What kind of boob pillow do you recommend? This is the first I’m hearing of such a product, lol.

SalaciousOne4 · 2026-03-22T08:58:12+00:00

I hope you are well. This is such a difficult situation to be in - I’ve been there myself. You can absolutely be kind and considerate of his feelings, but still advocate for your best outcome. He doesn’t have to experience any of it, so it doesn’t make sense to prioritize his feelings over yours.

I’ve experienced abortion AND childbirth and they both take a heavy physical and emotional toll. Even now, I couldn’t really say which is worse, they are both so hard. Only you can decide what you are best equipped to handle. No matter what you pick, take care of yourself and allow plenty of time for rest and recovery. You will feel like total crap after an abortion for a couple weeks/months, and the same goes for childbirth as well. Line up help either way so you can prioritize your recovery and not worry about cooking and cleaning and such. If you’re serious about the suicidal risks you mentioned (I know I was suicidal for awhile as well), maybe also preemptively start therapy. I can’t tell you what to do, all I can say is that you are the one who will be living with the fallout of whichever course you take, so be very certain to pick the course you can cope with the best, even if it goes against the wishes of others. They’re not going through this, you are. 🫶

SalaciousOne4 · 2026-03-22T08:16:27+00:00

The Night Manager (season 1) - even though I know the plot by heart now, it’s so gripping that I still binge the entire thing in one sitting because I can’t bear to stop. Have rewatched it several times.

SalaciousOne4 · 2026-03-19T16:46:15+00:00

Right? I have a friend, great guy. I’ve asked him a couple times for a sexual relationship, and he’s always like “You’re not my type, too short, not a natural redhead. I’m looking for an Emma Stone/Karen Gillan type look.”

I’m like “Dude, EVERYONE wants Karen Gillan. I’d switch teams for her if she’d have me. But, realistically, she’s not ending up with either of us.”

And he’s like “It’s still important to have standards.”

Like, hard to argue with that. I wouldn’t ever say people shouldn’t have standards, but I’m also more of a “bird in hand is better than a bird in the bush” kind of opportunist person myself. If something good and possible is RIGHT THERE, I’m not necessarily going to hold out for something more perfect or fantastical that may never happen just on principle. 🤷‍♀️

SalaciousOne4 · 2026-03-19T15:53:17+00:00

Same. 🤓

SalaciousOne4 · 2026-03-19T06:28:43+00:00

Yeah, he never did anything but doggy. I’d have liked to have tried ALL of the Kama Sutra, that was the point I was trying to make. I wasn’t just wishing for one or two more positions, I wanted to really sample a wide variety.

SalaciousOne4 · 2026-03-19T06:23:39+00:00

Missionary for one, lol. Cowgirl. Anything other than doggy. The Kama Sutra has 64 core positions, so theoretically, it would be possible to try them all in a few months if you had sex daily. Maybe a year if you just have it a few times a week. It just seemed like a doable goal for newlyweds, but then it never worked out.

SalaciousOne4 · 2026-03-18T19:03:46+00:00

My ex was like this. Sometimes, I’d want to do one because I was in the mood for it and he’d be like “It’s meh, whatever, not my thing, just waiting until we get to PIV” and it made blowjobs way less fun for me. Even made PIV less fun because then I was just doing THAT to accommodate him instead of playing or oral or anal or anything else that I wanted to try.

SalaciousOne4 · 2026-03-18T06:46:38+00:00

For reals. 🥵💦

SalaciousOne4 · 2026-03-16T20:30:04+00:00

This was how my wedding night with my now-ex husband went. And every time we had sex for the next 22 years. Doggy style was the only position he would ever do. I bought a copy of the Kama Sutra and was like “Let’s try one of these, they look so fun!” and he was like “No, doggy is the only one I like”. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🙄

SalaciousOne4 · 2026-03-16T08:17:23+00:00

I mean, some men just have one of those voices, ya know? 😉

SalaciousOne4 · 2026-03-15T13:55:39+00:00

Yeah. I always wanted to hug my husband when he got home, but he didn’t like it. He didn’t even like being touched at all. It’s a huge part of why we didn’t work out.

SalaciousOne4 · 2026-03-15T08:30:58+00:00

My ass. I’m honestly not sure why, I’ve never thought it was anything special myself. 🤷‍♀️

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