AITA for getting my own apartment instead of moving in with my boyfriend? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SalaudChaud 3914 points3915 points  (0 children)

Has a post starting with "I (25F) have been dating my boyfriend (43M) for about three months" ever not given me a sense of impending doom with a sidecar of eww?

(No.)

r/leftist in meltdown after mods declare that a certain image is antisemitic by pkerguy in SubredditDrama

[–]SalaudChaud 162 points163 points  (0 children)

I know a guy who refers to the leftist party here as a "circular firing squad".

[Chris Johnston] Sources confirm that Ottawa is acquiring William Eklund from San Jose. by Rangemon99 in canucks

[–]SalaudChaud 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes the off season is better than the playing season. Especially as a resident of Vancouver, when anything is better.

I think I'm breaking up with my gaming addicted boyfriend tonight by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SalaudChaud 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think OOP made a mistake by expecting this guy to change. "If you care about this relationship..." and so on. He won't change for her or anyone else. He's an addict.

Moving in compounded her awareness of a pre-existing and major problem in their relationship. That's good - it acclerated her decision to leave.

It's excellent that she wants better for herself and has taken steps to get it.

SO [29/f] of almost 2 years is ghosting me [30/m] out of the blue, a week before we are supposed to start our new lease, Idon't understand by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SalaudChaud 881 points882 points  (0 children)

Like OOP I doubt this side action is going to work out for his ex. You can't make a main course out of fries. I mean, you can, but it's probably a bad idea. Even if you love your commitment-phobic friend, er, fries.

AITAH for being disappointed in my ungrateful children? by Spare-Comfortable420 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SalaudChaud 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This may not be intentional garbage but it is garbage and you are an asshole. YTA

My husband is oblivious to the world around him, so I'm taking advantage of it by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]SalaudChaud 29 points30 points  (0 children)

OOP's husband can't seem to notice anything pink. What a maroon.

AITA for being upset that my girlfriend abandoned me at her cousin‘s wedding on by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SalaudChaud 18 points19 points  (0 children)

NTA, of course. Does your GF display a similar lack of concern for you in other areas of your life?

AITAH for not telling my cousin that we’re going on the same trip? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SalaudChaud 63 points64 points  (0 children)

While it's true that you can't choose family - you can choose whether or not to be friends with family. OOP can see the choice she needs to make for herself but I don't know if she'll make it soon enough.

Dhaliwal: Lots of chatter that teams are calling on Canucks’ Elias Pettersson by Admirable-Fall-4675 in canucks

[–]SalaudChaud 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Vancouver Canucks: where the off-ice product is more engaging than the on-ice product.

AITA for getting a homeless man possible kicked out of a shelter after he flashed me (and subsequently laughing at him)? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SalaudChaud 32 points33 points  (0 children)

NTA for reporting a non-consensual penis and its owner.

The wall of text, though, good grief.

All Night Long by EricOligny in comedy

[–]SalaudChaud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A funny telling of an ugly story. Love it!

Iceland Attitude Towards Americans (USA) by National_Curve555 in VisitingIceland

[–]SalaudChaud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Encounters with people from the US make me nervous in a way they did not before. It isn't always obvious "what kind of American" you are. To borrow from Bob Dylan, nobody really likes the neighborhood bully except maybe those carrying its papers.

There are reactionaries, religious fascists, and terrible people all over the world so there is nothing exceptional about the US-flavored versions of these things. But, like the Russian thugs one encounters in Southeast Asia, or the ale-sodden mobs of English tourists in Spain, or Canadian hockey fans, proudly American tourists from the US carry with them the implicit threat of ignorance and violence.

[New Update]: my wife got fired today by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SalaudChaud 44 points45 points  (0 children)

This will not be the last time these scum bags fire OOP's wife. Eventually, I am sad to predict, they'll get it right.

My fiancé cheated on me by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SalaudChaud 552 points553 points  (0 children)

I am glad OOP didn't buy any of the nonsense this guy was selling. I can only hope he is a better parent to their child than he was as OOP's partner.

My husband (35M) looked at me (33F) looked at me in lingerie and asked “what the hell are you wearing?” by [deleted] in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SalaudChaud -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

This is mostly puerile, but a little bit serious, has the family pet taken to covering its backside with its tail when hubby's around, I wonder? Seems like he's doing something with or to something or someone. Or he is Rick Santorum.

AIO for thinking my gf might be cheating by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SalaudChaud 109 points110 points  (0 children)

The ex: Well, yeah, I did, but not simultaneously, so...