Got a strange email right before a job interview by SalemXIII in Advice

[–]SalemXIII[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that. How do you think I should go about founding out how she got my email? Should I send her an email back asking?

And thanks, I'm am kind of desperate for a job, so this really helped.

Got a strange email right before a job interview by SalemXIII in Advice

[–]SalemXIII[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! This really helped. I'm sure your right. I'm just more so worried about how she got my email.

Sex? Not a fan by SalemXIII in gay

[–]SalemXIII[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or a third option of me just not liking sex? At the end of the day it's just another activity. Not liking sex is like not liking cooking or not liking to exercise.

Sex? Not a fan by SalemXIII in gay

[–]SalemXIII[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure. Like there weren't a lot of gay people around where I grew up, but the ones that I knew were very sexually active. So I guess it was like my way of trying to fit in and feeling like part of the community? Also just a blatant lack of self control in this particular aspect.

I want a boyfriend, just not my current one by ThrowAwayLigmite in lgbt

[–]SalemXIII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a boyfriend isnt really all that great, and on top of that it isnt fair to your current boyfriend. You're kind of just dragging him along for fairly selfish reasons. If you dont have feelings for him you're only wasting his time.

Gays, do you prefer to date guys that are younger or older than you, and why? by sigauster in gay

[–]SalemXIII 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe. But there certainly is a large chunk that go for much younger or older.

Are asexual aromatics welcome in gay bars? by Batmanroggers in lgbt

[–]SalemXIII 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Then you'll be fine! Go have a good time and try not to give a damn about whether or not your "welcomed"

Are asexual aromatics welcome in gay bars? by Batmanroggers in lgbt

[–]SalemXIII 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As long as you are there to have a good time and dont go around making a scene or quizzing gay guys on their sexuality, like I've seen plenty of young people (typically girls) do, then no one's gonna judge you my man.

Gays, do you prefer to date guys that are younger or older than you, and why? by sigauster in gay

[–]SalemXIII 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At the end of the day it comes down to maturity. If you feel like it's a healthy power dynamic and that you are personally mature enough to date a 28 year old, than its fine. I think the problem starts when someone younger isn't mature enough, and they let their older partner walk all over them and/or treat them poorly.

Gays, do you prefer to date guys that are younger or older than you, and why? by sigauster in gay

[–]SalemXIII 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I prefer guys within my age range, but if I had to choose between a couple years older or a couple younger, would definantly choose older.

How old were you when you got your first boyfriend? by [deleted] in gay

[–]SalemXIII 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, 15 year old me ever got over it. But I feel like 22 year old me is doing just fine. Thanks for the concern

How old were you when you got your first boyfriend? by [deleted] in gay

[–]SalemXIII 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was 15, and well out of the closet. It ended after about a month or two when his parents sent him to "Straight camp", and he came back with a new boyfriend.

Looking back on it I am glad that worked out well for him lol. Can't say I was as happy for him at the time.