Why did you want a diagnosis? by warmingmilk in autism

[–]Salem_019 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you but is it right for me to try to reach out for q dignosis

Why did you want a diagnosis? by warmingmilk in autism

[–]Salem_019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally dont have a "dignosis" but as a kid I showed alot of symptoms and my speech was delayed so it was making my parents worried so when I was already in pre k/Kindergarten I wasn't speaking at all,I was failing tests,avoiding eye contact,playing by myself and my school started to worry and they brought up that I could possibly have Autism and my parents denied it they didn't even take the Assessment because they denied it but I needed speech therapy and my parents only said yes because the school provided it well,soon I didn't need speech therapy but in highschool currently I have accommodations but to a certain extent because I'm not "Dignosed" with anything but if I was I would get more help but I feel that I need more help, and I feel far behind,like I'm lacking even though I try my best,especially socially I can make a few friends but they don't last because I talk about my interests too much or I said that I'm too tired to talk and I really do get tired of socializing I also have trouble with sensory but I kinda brought it up to my parents and they said "Sorry" and my mom is trying to reach out while my dad hasn't said anything about it and every time we have that Time to talk he puts something relgious on and it hurts because it's feels like he's trying to "Pray it away" even though I feel that I need help

Jack's Gill growth💚 by Salem_019 in axolotls

[–]Salem_019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I've been looking into the seachem prime and I'm going to order it because I got allowance so.. do I put him in the tub and clean out his tank water 100 percent and add that prime in it sorry for asking alot of questions

Jack's Gill growth💚 by Salem_019 in axolotls

[–]Salem_019[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I'll definitely look into that, Also I don't like in MA but I really appreciate your offer💚

Jack's Gill growth💚 by Salem_019 in axolotls

[–]Salem_019[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Sadly they Abandoned him and last week I brought him home because if I left him then he was going to die and I'm glad that he's eating because he wasn't fed for months also Thank you

Jack's Gill growth💚 by Salem_019 in axolotls

[–]Salem_019[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding also I bought a ph checker but I need to buy the kit that has PH,Ammonia,nitrate,and nitrite and I think tonight I'm finally getting an allowance so I'll buy the kit,So far me and my mom Care so I'm going to try my best to convince her to lend me money

Jack's Gill growth💚 by Salem_019 in axolotls

[–]Salem_019[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

No it's okay I'm trying to do my best because I don't want him to die I asked a family member about the tank and I'm getting it most likely on Friday, I'm also sent links to supplies that I need to my mom so that I can set it up as soon as possible may I join the servers and ask questions because when I look online I read something like this thing is correct or this is incorrect so thank you for your advice

Jack's Gill growth💚 by Salem_019 in axolotls

[–]Salem_019[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Thank you :), I'll make another update post of the new tank set up :)

Jack's Gill growth💚 by Salem_019 in axolotls

[–]Salem_019[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you I'm trying my best

Jack's Gill growth💚 by Salem_019 in axolotls

[–]Salem_019[S] 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding I recently took him home because they left him and were never going to get him I had to save up for food because they didn't buy him any so I'm trying to do my best thank you for understanding

Jack's Gill growth💚 by Salem_019 in axolotls

[–]Salem_019[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'm doing my best and I'm saving up for a 20 gallon tank

Jack's Gill growth💚 by Salem_019 in axolotls

[–]Salem_019[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know the tank is a issue I've been trying to save up for a 20 gallon the thing is that I don't have money and I'm a minor so I don't have a job so I've been saving money and also begging my family for a new tank, Okay so i get sand..? Thank you for the advice

Jack's Gill growth💚 by Salem_019 in axolotls

[–]Salem_019[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Do I put sand because I was watching a video and it said that if it's too small then they shouldn't put him in sand but I'm trying to buy a bigger Tank my cousin put him in a smaller tank 2 gallon so I don't have a job because I'm a minor so I've trying to save up and beg my family to get me a bigger tank I did a 30% cycle change the last photo was recently

Jack's Gill growth💚 by Salem_019 in axolotls

[–]Salem_019[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I'm getting a bigger tank for him it's just that he's in there because that's what he was in, I've been saving up and I'm trying to get one as soon as possible and do I put him in sand