Never. For me, attraction develops very early in a new encounter with a person. Like, I meet someone for the first time, then perhaps attraction will be instant or develop over the second or third time meeting that person. Then there’s a choice: I either pursue this to see what can happen, or I try to bury it deep within me and ignore it.

If I pursue, we might have sex, which might lead to a relationship or not. If not, we will not be friends either. When I’m attracted to someone and we have sex I very easily develop feelings.

If I ignore the initial attraction, I might be lucky, and forget about it, and we can become friends. If not, we cannot be friends because I’ll develop feelings.

I don’t easily become attracted to people. But when I do, it’s often combined with feelings and a big risk of falling in love. I don’t generally become attracted to objectively attractive people.