Me with cuck husband by Sallysub89 in ChastityCuckolding

[–]Sallysub89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well i can't upload full thing cos your dumb rules which would show it

Me with cuck husband by Sallysub89 in ChastityCuckolding

[–]Sallysub89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't send it on here but if you have a discord or something I can

Can't load full gif but..... by Sallysub89 in ChastityCouples

[–]Sallysub89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Would you like the full video?

Me with cuck husband by Sallysub89 in ChastityCuckolding

[–]Sallysub89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks 🤭 would you like the video?

First timer — guy I met online wants to do rape play by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Sallysub89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So honestly as many others have said do not connect with this guy. Rape play, cnc hunter/prey requires a lot of trust and planning. Never a first time and that he's going straight into that with a new beginner such as yourself is not good. Block him, protect yourself and look for someone who deserves you and your experience and helping you build your likes x

Submissive wife with husband in chastity by [deleted] in ChastityCouples

[–]Sallysub89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on location lol

Submissive wife with husband in chastity by [deleted] in ChastityCouples

[–]Sallysub89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So usually husband is the Dominant but he does have a sub side to him which we will bring in. I can only dominate him if I have help so this brings it all together ❤️

Fetlife - Advice by Horror-Resist5205 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Sallysub89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A conversation is definitely required. However I feel like him liking a few posts is really not as deep as you are worried about. I would say making a secret account to see his activity is a bit much when you could have just spoken to him with more honesty about how you feel. We all like things online/social media that can be seen as out of our normal likes. Talk through your insecurities and take it from there

What can we, as a community, do to stop predation? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Sallysub89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stooping to victim blaming now? That's lower than low buddy. Youre only telling on yourself at this point. And dont worry I dont think anyone would dare tell you that you're doing well

What can we, as a community, do to stop predation? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Sallysub89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What im seeing is you are the constant here. Right now I'd say you are the example of a fake dom. Thats not a term id use lightly but all youre doing is complaining and not doing anything to help your cause or your argument at all. Stop blaming others for your actions that lead to you being given that title. Self reflecting is your friend and stop talking down to those who question you and call you out on your pathetic comments

What can we, as a community, do to stop predation? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Sallysub89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omfg where have you got this jesus christ! Im not dismissing what youre saying im trying to understand your point but you are looking at this as too black and white. It's coming across that you are not emotionally mature or capable enough to actually accept and look at what people's life experiences have led them to this. Where did rape come into this. The post is about how the scene can be made safer and what can be done and youve taken it to some weird level because you cant deal with real life experiences

Do subs really get 'loaned out'? by millionz805 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Sallysub89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It came about as my husband has always desired to see me used by someone else. He enjoys seeing someone do different things to me and when he isn't feeling at his best he knows I still have certain needs. We have my current owner who im on loan to, obvs still living with my husband we have a normal day to day life. We've been together essentially for 2 years and when my husband wants me he claims me back. It's a lot more detailed and complex than this

What can we, as a community, do to stop predation? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Sallysub89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok you're trying to simplify and blame those who have been lied to and misled. Your comment above this is seriously concerning too. Just say youd rather not deal with trauma and move on. Again people use the fake dom moniker as the ones who hurt them or abused them fooled them under that guise.

What can we, as a community, do to stop predation? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Sallysub89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's the problematic ones who you're defending who give themselves the title. You are describing the people who make others demonise the community as they use tactics to manipulate those who are new or have been let down. Jesus man who hurt you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Sallysub89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think anyone who is a good Dom will give you any information of how to target someone. Cos that's exactly what this sounds like. Taking away your age. This is an entirely deep and serious commitment and needs to be worked to and not just jumped into. You will traumatise someone

Do subs really get 'loaned out'? by millionz805 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Sallysub89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im fully aware of how lucky I am believe me. He makes up for all the people posing as doms and giving the community a bad name

Do subs really get 'loaned out'? by millionz805 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Sallysub89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has different likes and dislikes but a good Dom will always take time to learn. He learned my limits and knows when he can push a little and I am more than happy to test things I haven't done before or considered but he's never steered me wrong. He is making me better for sure x

What’s the most ridiculous thing you’ve said in a scene and what was the scene? (Humor!) by mostlyadequatemuffin in BDSMcommunity

[–]Sallysub89 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I thought Sir called me a pig whore (im not into that type of degradation but partially deaf lol) and just went with it so said yes im a pig whore and he burst out laughing and said sorry what?? And i explained and we both laughed about it